Is it bad to flirt?

I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend for 16 months and I love him soo much, I wouldn't change him for the world. I still like to flirt with friends or co workers though. It's only ever flirting, nothing more.





Is this really bad? I think it's just my personality because I don't have any feelings for the people I flirt with.





For those of you who care about this stuff, I'm a Gemini.

Is it bad to flirt?
omg im completley the same, im 19 and been with my bf for 14 months and a bit of harmless flirtation is fine i think. i dont purposely go out to flirt with them, but its just the way i am and always have been lol. even if i dont fancy them, i come across as flirtacious, but never mind its not like im jumping in to bed with them lol x
Reply:Is it flirting, or teasing? If it's not something you'd do / say to them in front of your boyfriend, then you shouldn't be doing it at all. (I have male friends, so I know what you're talking about - and my husband knows them too.)





Bottom line: how would you REALLY feel if you caught your boyfriend doing what you do?
Reply:As long as your boyfriend is secure enough not to mind then I don't see a problem. Just make sure those you flirt with don't get the wrong idea.
Reply:Ok, you said you don't have the feelings for the people you flirt with...but your b/f might...so ask him or see if he minds...it's his feelings you should consider...and if you love him, then you have to respect his feelings and stop flirting........
Reply:Nothing wrong with flirting. Insanely good fun.





Aaaahhh... Geminis - gotta love you. So says the Sagittarius.
Reply:its not bad to flirt but some guys might take it as more....





do not do it in front of your man
Reply:yea, im gemini too, but yea flirting is bad when u got a lover cuz your bf will get jealous, so dont flirt unless u want make ur man jealous and mad
Reply:no it's not bad to flirt, it's who you are, but if you think it's affecting your boyfriend you should go reassure him that you love him and that he is the only one etc etc
Reply:Sign explains alot. You all are very friendly people.


I am pretty sure though that your man wouldn't like. And it is bad because you could be leading someone on. And you don't wanna make the wrong person mad.
Reply:Ermm....maybe you can check dictiontary my friend.The moment a male chat with a female is counted flirt.That is simple and flirting isnt bad provided your boyfriend trust you.However do not go overboard causing misunderstanding to your boyfriend.





You will understand what I mean.Your boyfriend will allow you to do so since everyone know we need freedom to make our own friends,buddy,colleages.





Dont think too much,just be yourself and stay happy. =)
Reply:Well i can understand how it can be your personality and I don't think it is bad to flirt with other people as long as there are no feelings behind it but I would try to stop because someone you might be flirting with may really like you and you may be sending them the wrong message and they could get hurt. I would also try to make it clear that you are in a relationship and that you are not interested in anybody right now except your boyfriend. Hope this helps!!
Reply:hell no im sure he flirts w/ other girls soo ya