Sunday, August 22, 2010

Unaware that I flirt? Flirty by nature?

I'm totally flirty by nature...how can I stop flirting yet still be myself? I flirt/talk with single guys and totally avoid my personality show through when I talk to other guys (ie. talking straight-mannered)?

Unaware that I flirt? Flirty by nature?
you flirt because you want to and not by nature but because you want to... you could start focusing your attention more to yourself and were you feel insecure instead of wasting that energy on meaningless flirting...
Reply:"God made mud, God made dirt, God made men so women could flirt." Just so happens in your case you flirt with both. Nothing wrong with innocent flirtations. Keeps life interesting. Just don't be a tease.
Reply:try talking intelligently. some will respect you for that.
Reply:i really dont know - I've had people ask about 'how to flirt' but how to stop is another thing...


Maybe read this article-
Reply:Flirting is some of the most fun we will ever get to have in this life, so enjoy it.





I bet alot of guys find you very attractive just because of how flirtatious you are, so it definitely doesnt hurt.





Just make sure you dont lead anybody too far down the wrong path, thinkin something thats not true.





Best wishes!
Reply:Chrissy you are in control of your thoughts and actions so you can stop if you want to but nothing is wrong doing it just make sure and stop when things might get out of hand beware...
Reply:I'm a natural flirt, so I can understand. Except my problem is that I don't know when to stop. Most of the time, The guys I flirt with are taken and they get the impression I want them... which isn't true, not in the least bit.


And my other problem is that I flirt with lesbians.. which is crazy.


But if you flirt, then flirt as much as you want, just know when to stop.
Reply:flirt on babe
Reply:Girls who flirt know exactly what they are doing. And the boys think they are easy.
Reply:Just be yourself. Besides, guys like that sort of thing; makes us stand up straighter. =)
Reply:You shouldn't change yourself, in stead, get a guy that isn't the jealous type. When you're in a relationship, you should just make sure that you don't get jealous when your BF flirts as well. That could cause problems in the relationship.





What's good for the one, goes for the other too.


Big flirt????

if so would u flirt with me?? just want 2 kno??


hi ladies! lol! luv ya! thanx!

Big flirt????
i'll flirt with you if you'll flirt with me... sound like a deal? alright... let's meet later *wink* :D
Reply:*hi......so uhh wat r u d0ing this weekend? hehehe umm yea... ummm sss i like ur hair and ur lips opps did i say that out loud ? yes i did...* luv ya bak!! l0l i am kinda old for u sorry!
Reply:Hey sexy. Whatcha doin Friday night? Wanna chill? I'll pick you up at 5.
Reply:i love you.
Reply:hehe...nice shoes, wanna meet me behind class?...... xD lol


-peace
Reply:i would flirt with your avatar!
Reply:depends...









































NAWT!




















jk i wud just wanna be friends
Reply:haha


is that you in your avatar?


is so definately yes! =]]]
Reply:Your so sexy.
Reply:cute but i think yr a little young for me
Reply:"Hey, um hi! Iwanttokissyouonthemouth." *Runs away and giggles*
Reply:Go away ..
Reply:Is that you in your Avatar? If so probably, if your nice.


A flirt or a lover???

well this guy is my classmate..i used to sit beside him and we enjoyed each other's company because he made me laugh soo much with his stupid jokes and life stories..most of the time,he's the one talking..and i was absent from school yesterday,so he was actually the one who helped me keep all the notes and assignments!(i don't know why he did that,probably the lecturer told him to,i have no idea)then today we were all supposed to attend a seminar and i was standing infront,he was with another guy,then he shouted my name and started talking to me.he totally ignored the guy he was with earlier on %26amp; i can tell how pissed that guy was!so in the auditorium,he sat beside me and he talked alot!he didn't get a chance to talk much these days cause i changed seats and was sitting with another guy.my friends said he's quite a flirt.so i was wondering if he really fancies me or if he's just being friendly and missed me,as a friend?

A flirt or a lover???
Larissa, a beautiful name. This guy may be a flirt, but he appears to like you, makes you laugh and enjoys your company. See if you can get an idea of how he feels about you beyond his flirtatious charm.


Am i a flirt if i have no girl mates?

At school i find it easier to talk to boys then girls, according to all the girls this makes me a flirt and therefore they hate me so all i ever do is hang around with boys, does this actually make me a flirt and what should i do? i have no girl mates anymore!

Am i a flirt if i have no girl mates?
having male friends does not make you a flirt. they are completely different. i do not have many female friends because i hate girls. the majority of them are catty and play games, with men you don't have to worry about that so much. there is nothing wrong with preferring the company of men. ignore the girls and do what you want to do.
Reply:maybe, maybe not I have friends who are girls, but i mostly have friends who are guys, in my opinion they are easier to talk to, they dont judge as much as girls do most of the time, they are alot of fun to hang out with !

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How do u flirt with a guy?

I have a class mate and he sits next to me in secound period and I really like him and my friends are telling me to flirt with him but I don't know how to flirt.

How do u flirt with a guy?
F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.





R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys don't know what girls like so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
Reply:I'm the same way!! Act ...well.... Kind of....BLOND!! Just talk about funny stuff that will make him laugh! Say something to him everyday using his nickname or something, giving him a hint that your interested in him! Throw things, paper, erasers, etc. (just not your chair!! lol) Just remember, try not to freak him out! Like actling like a loon!! Best of luck!! ^_^
Reply:smile at him, blink alot but dont act like your crazy, when you talk to him whisper so he has to lean in to hear, when you sit beside him sit so that your feet are facing him (this isnt flirting but it kinda drives guys crazy well it drove this 1 guy crazy when i did that) um......if you dont understand something ask him for help, poke him and play with your hair i hope this helps
Reply:do what feels right to you. Try smiling at him, touching him playing little games make it fun but at the same time kinda give some hints that your are interested in him. If he flirts back then casually ask him to go out with you and some friends.
Reply:haha


just talk to him about stuff that you like...


tease him, (play)throw stuff at him, pass him funny notes,


all of that good stuff.


trust me, it'll come naturally in time.


just dont be too obvious about it cause it can weird guys out.


hope i helped!!
Reply:show him your boobs


A GAY can FLIRT RIGHT??

I WANT TO FLIRT MY CRUSH....


ofcors hes a man...


im still young.... fresh and smooth...


and ofcors beautiful...


im a bootylicious....


im gay... can i flirt him... ?

A GAY can FLIRT RIGHT??
Yes U CAN, but SHOULD U?


... maybe/ maybe not !!
Reply:Flirt like you've never flirted before, love.
Reply:Yes a gay can flirt just like a straight person can too..but...you can only flirt with guys who want you to do that with them. You might offend if he not like that sort of thing, or he is a straight guy.
Reply:your wish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:No, it's against the law
Reply:Just be careful. Everbody is not so receptive to gay advances
Reply:you should flirt. This is how you will find out if you will be having sex or not with this other man.
Reply:Most gays flirt to the left, so you're odd in that also.
Reply:Ye but he may not like it.
Reply:Of course you can. Go for it
Reply:oh my, i didn't know there was such a handicap; just don't go barking up the wrong tree...you might get whacked by a branch


Sometimes i'll flirt with a girl by interfering with our leg space?

Sometimes i'll flirt with a girl by interfering with our leg space?


i won't make the first move





this is what she almost always does before there's any touching





she'll fold her leg towards my side and have her foot brush off my leg for a few seconds and be unapologetic about it or apologetic but not too sorry, like she had planned it





or





she'll take her coat off push up her breasts, put her fingers through her hair, and suck her tummy (if there is one) to make for an incredible look / apppeal





are these subconcsious flirting

Sometimes i'll flirt with a girl by interfering with our leg space?
yes
Reply:of course!


Compliment? flirt? or both?

if a guy told looked at u %26amp; smile, then hugs u and says "u smell good" i know its a compliment, but could it be a flirt too? (both)

Compliment? flirt? or both?
Yes, it would generally be considered a flirt. However, flirting doesn't automatically equal potential romantic interest...some people are just flirts...they'll flirt with anyone, it's second nature, and they don't give it much thought...don't take what happend TOO seriously, but if further flirting occurs, or other signs, ya might be on to something...
Reply:both he wants u
Reply:it's more of a complement
Reply:Sounds like both:)
Reply:if its flirting then its not that good


but its a good compliment





i think its a completment
Reply:both
Reply:he was probably flirting with you...(give the hug and him saying that) but please don't think everyone that tells you, you smell good is flirting with you...
Reply:yes it probably was both! go get him girl!!
Reply:Absolutely.
Reply:yeah!
Reply:It probably is both.
Reply:well compliment i think
Reply:Could be either one or both! Depends on the guy and the situation! How did it make you feel? Try it on him next time around and see how he reacts???

wisdom teeth

Why would someone flirt with you and lead you to think?

there could be "something" between the two of you, and when you ask him out, he's "in a relationship"





Do people flirt just to flirt, or with some hidden agenda?

Why would someone flirt with you and lead you to think?
This has happened to me SO MUCH.





I'll NEVER know the answer to this question. This question has ALWAYS been in my mind.





My guess is that they flirt to boost their ego, they flirt because they realize that they DO like you but are too scared to go after you, or they like you but find someone else or had someone else the entire time.





I think those are the best educated guesses I can make going through a lot of this myself.





Actually, the last part (they like you but find someone else or had someone else the entire time) can be true. It's happened to me. He had a girlfriend the entire time and eventually (years later) told me that he considered breaking up with her to be with me. And again, it happened with another guy.





Flirting is dangerous. I think it should only be done when you want to actually be with the person. Because a lot of the times, flirting can be hurtful in the end.
Reply:People flirt because they are stupid. It empowers stupid people.
Reply:As far as my knowledge is concerned about guy they are looking for hot chick to go around and have fun including sex. As psychologist say, guy give love to get sex back and girl give sex to get love back.





Thats the different of girl and guy. Some guys like Casanova will flirt and stay away when it get serious.
Reply:some people flirt because they are by nature a flirt.some because they like the person they flirt with and hopes something will come out of it. some people flirt because they are hoping they can take advantage of the weakness of the person they flirt with. just consider this. if a guy flirts at you, and you like him, ask him why.he might really like you and if so, your choice to move to a deeper level. but, if a guy flirts at you and you don't like him, ignore him.
Reply:yes, yes,yes
Reply:some guys like to flirst, I personally am a constant flirter but I would not lead someone on if I was in a relationship. Some guys need to make sure they are still "HOT" or attractive to keep up their self esteem. I mean if you knew others wanted you I'm sure it would be a self esteem boost!
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Reply:he might just want to play with u!...but he maybe fall in luv with u too, but...he cannot express it well!
Reply:Often, flirting is a way for people to validate themselves as still attractive or desirable to the opposite sex. Insecure people will often flirt a lot.
Reply:flirting is also a way to make friends.
Reply:people flirt cuz is challenging and dangerous. is also a reacquiring act towards most relationship, its animal instinct, and the intense feeling of having to be with another is over whelming it will change when the next stage of life comes alone. so live and learn try not to be one
Reply:well, basically they juz wan 2 prove they have charm.
Reply:people flirt for a number of reasons. my friends who are all married,say that they flirt to see if they have still "got it"! in other words to feel good about themselves,while i,on the other hand could not flirt to save my life!


you are definitely right,there is always an agenda.
Reply:i flirt with everyone i think most open and happy people do i have been married for 4 years and sometime we just want to know if we still got it i don't mean to hurt other people and most of the time i am open and honest about being with some one that i am just out there to have fun. my man is a very big flirt to but i know that he would never cheat so i don't sweat it. so to answer your ? yes some people just flirt to flirt, but on the other hand i think that some people have hidden agendas!!!


How can i flirt with my best friend's boyfriend?

i have a best friend and she goes out with a boy that i find very fun to talk to and i wanna flirt with him i'm sure she wouldnt care if i do because we do everything together i just need help on flirting with him and see what he will do

How can i flirt with my best friend's boyfriend?
You are a "true" bestfriend for heading to the direction of..DISASTER! first of all why would u flirt with him?just do some kind of experament to see what'd he'd do?!?!wow ............personally i have no flirting advice for someone like u!
Reply:you are a horrible best friend.......don't you know you don't flirt with your best friend's boyfriend???
Reply:u suck at life. way to be a bad friend
Reply:Well 1st of all u dont because that iz so mean how would u like it if she flirted with a guy u got with???
Reply:Della, think about it. She is your best friend. You can ruin this friendship you got with her. Why try to take her man? Thats plain dumb to do not to be mean. Don't flirt with him. Flirt with single boys and you'll saty out of trouble.
Reply:Don't flirt with him.


You'll ruin your friendship.


Stop while your feeling don't exsist or when they are very samll.


You can't share a boy/guy together.


That's wrong, that's not fair.





Hey there big boy.
Reply:Great way to lose a GOOD FRIENDSHIP-leave it alone
Reply:You're sure she wouldn't care. Sounds like you haven't asked her. I bet you are wrong! Cause once you start flirting, the ball has started rolling and you wont' be able to stop it.. And in the end you will be alone....cause the guy never stays forever and your friend will never speak to you again!
Reply:Um, if your best friend and you are so close and "do everything together" why the heck would you want to flirt with her boyfriend??





That's not very nice.
Reply:think first. what is more important? your friendship, or this boy?
Reply:well im sure you have won other awards in the jackass category but this the best of the best.





im pretty sure you know its wrong and if you do anythng stupid you deserve along with a swift kick in the ***!
Reply:uh...you should check with her first. flirting with your bff's bf is a recipe for disaster, sweetie. if its ok with her, what about hte poor guy?? hes going out with one girl, and another girl starts flirting with him, and the 2 happen to be best friends. talk about akward situation!!
Reply:Why not just walk up to him and kiss him.. Might get you a slap in the face.. hell if you and your best friend do EVERYTHING together she might like it to..





you've got one screwed up friendship..
Reply:sorry, did i just read this correct "YOUR BEST FRIEND" ,why on earth would you want to do that. go and get your own fella, or are you only looking for leftovers.
Reply:She genuinely likes this guy. You could wreck your friendship and the relationship between your friend and your friend's boyfriend. Lay off. I'm sure you didn't ask her if she would mind this flirting. You're just assuming she won't mind from your point of view. Even if you do everything together it doesn't nessacarily mean she will share your opinion. Don't just flirt with a boy and watch your friendship go down the drain.


What type of flirt do you do with a boy to do with eyes???!!?

Well is it a just friends


BF/GF


Something nasty


stalking??





I don't know that much about flirting to mush.


So what are some good ways to flirt in front of your parents??!!!

What type of flirt do you do with a boy to do with eyes???!!?
Look at him like you're a little interested- like a sort of sly, sweet smile. Let your eyes look over his face, over his body, but don't let them linger too long, and when he sees you seeing him, take another second, but only a second, then look away.


When you're talking to him, little gestures, like just a two-finger touch for a little second on the back of his hand or on his shoulder, are really sweet and flirty, yet sexy.
Reply:Just look at him and smile and bat those BIG BROWN eyes a couple of times and then smile again and turn your head slightly right and then left while looking at him KNOCK HIM OVER BIG TIME!!!!!! And if he can't look at you and stares down then ya got him!!!!
Reply:wink your eye and look at him in a sexy way


How do i flirt with guys.?

i am only 13 and in eight grade. i want to know a way to flirt with guys thats not slutty or anything and that does make look as if im trying to hard or something. also i am kinda shy and that doesnt really help anything.





i have heard the usually. smile at him. eye contact. copliment him, anything else.





i would really like it if boys in eight grade would answer this based on how they like girls to flirt with them and what really gets there attention. thanks so much.

How do i flirt with guys.?
try to let it come natural.
Reply:well im 13 and in eighth grade 2 and i just smile at my crush always look/stare and bat your eyes once in a while even when hes not looking and try 2 sit as close as possible 2 him and thats what i did and he got the idea even though i dont think he likes me in that way but if you do the things i listed above any guy will get the idea!!!
Reply:if hes near u, strike up a convo that you can both relate to. Be casual and random even..if he says something funny smile genuinely gently hit his arm and maybe lean in closer to say something funny about the teacher or reach across him and steal his pencil.....if he doesnt ask it back it gives u a reason to see him again or if he does want it back..just play around a bit...dont down right give it back..make em work girl!

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Why do men flirt with baristas so much?

I kind of find it offensive when I am at work and men, who are obviously older than me try and flirt. Why would they do that? Not only men, but women too, why do people flirt with people who are at work?

Why do men flirt with baristas so much?
because when a person is working, they cant walk away from you. sad, but true.
Reply:I'd like to know too, it's not like we can or should flirt back, that would be unprofessional.
Reply:Lighten up sweetie. Its just casual talking and flirting no harm done. If you really feel that strongly be your cold ol self the men will get the picture soon enough
Reply:u look good working
Reply:I am curious too!!
Reply:well it happens all the time. They find it a place to get to know other person and maybe even try to have some sort of sexual relationship or even some closer bond. Well it happens all the time in many places.
Reply:because they're there. really! it's not any more complex than that.


A girl is flirting with me and i know it! what should i do? should i flirt back?

i just got exspelled from a school and i am currently on prohbation in another catholic school. i just got here and i cant stop noticing this cute girl in my class. i have heard her saying she likes my name, she even tells me. i think now i have fallen into her friend section. how can i get her to notice me not as a friend, but as a boyfriend? P.S when she tells me she likes my name what should i flirt back? Tips: Black smooth hair, pretty smile, nice shoes, beutiful legs, and most of all, a nice personality and sence of humor

A girl is flirting with me and i know it! what should i do? should i flirt back?
If you really like her, you should go for it. There aren't many chances like that in life... so take them when you see them, otherwise you may regret for a lifetime...
Reply:If you like her flirt back. Play on the things you know she likes, she likes your name so tell her you like her name too. If she looks nice that day tell her, dont just use lines like you have great legs, say things you mean or that you noticed, like you hair looks good in that stye. Anything about her apperance or personality that impresses you.
Reply:Same thing is happening with me :)


I'm the girl anyways :( plus I think that he considers me as a friend,we go to the college together we go back home together (he lives quite near to my neighbourhood)....


I didnt say I like his name or staffs like that but deep inside I miss him! I guess I shall ask the question what shall I do :)


But in your case,if you find her nice tell her (first I thought that you're my classmate,cuz the description you gave is mine!!)


But i'm in college not at school..


Anyways,I'll wish you good luck,wish me the same :))


bye
Reply:For me,u should flirt her back because she like u and you like her too right?soo what are you waiting for...come on ask her out.!You also can tell to her that her hair is so smooth like the model in sunsilk.
Reply:uh...talk softy, don't show too much, don't over exert your personality and you don't want the person to know everything about you in a minute...mysteries good :) it keeps people interested.
Reply:You'll have to flirt back to get her to notice you. If you just ignore her, she'll think you're not interested.
Reply:tell her you have other attributes she would like more then wink at her
Reply:go for her!! she definetly likes u!


just play in with her and u will get wat u want!
Reply:If you like her, flirt back. If you want a relationship with her, ask her out!
Reply:You seem to like her and if you like her I think it's fine to flirt back but be careful you really do like her coz if you don't you could end up hurting her. Hope all goes well. =)
Reply:just ask her if she'd like to hang out just you and her for a few times and then just tell her you think she's pretty and hug her if you want, gove it a bit of time and then ask her out, hope this helps
Reply:Oh yeah, flirt back, or kick yourself. No guts no glory, alot of women appreciate a guy who is open about what they feel.
Reply:yes, if u have time


How do i flirt with this cute girl and eventually ask her out!! HELP PLEASE?

I need help... ive never had a gf but this girl is really cute how do i ask her out and flirt back with her it seems like she has been flirting with me

How do i flirt with this cute girl and eventually ask her out!! HELP PLEASE?
Well, you could start the conversation and try to flirt back, or you could ask her what shes doing this weekend and if shes not doing anything, then you can say somthing like "since your're not doing anything this weekend, u want to go to the movies?". So basically ask her on a date then you can ask her out.


Answer my question too please


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:just tell her how pretty her eyes are and stand tall ONLY DO IT WITH HER FRIENDS THERE it shows you have confidence and that you really like her alot it's best to do these things
Reply:uhm, make her laught tell her jokes.


compliment her and say "oh, i like your eyes, they're beautiful".





but don't say it out of the ordinary.
Reply:well if she has been flirting with you, than she is pretty much starting the conversations for you. When she starts another conversation try to get more involved in it and soon, when the time feels right, you two will feel for each other and that is when you ask her out.


Did he just FLIRT with me?

If I was teasing a guy that he was looking at an ole ugly girl and he replied "I was looking at you too!" ----Did he just FLIRT with me? And was the LOOKING at me a way to flirt?








The ole ugly girl was standing closer to him than I was, but he kept turning around and looking in my direction.

Did he just FLIRT with me?
hmm, i dunno. but i love your name. Go Florida Gators! lol

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How do I flirt with him HELP!asap?

Okay so I really like this kid who sits behind me and I wanna flirt give him some clues and come on easy to see if he likes me but how?! I don't wanna seem geeky cuz I have glasses and can sometimes be the shy type! But I also don't wanna make it too obvious and I don't wanna seem stupid. So plz how do I flirt??? Help me! You can email me trk92@yahoo.com OR even better u can AIM me my screenname is: smashedberrysyum





Thx soo much I need answers ASAP so anytime plz!

How do I flirt with him HELP!asap?
have some dignity. if he s not going to notice you just for being you, he s not worth it. its your desperation that most girls have , which is why they all end up with the wrong mean men in the future. walk with a brain, dont fall like an idiot.
Reply:i usually jsut laugh a lot..


complliment him subtley---like ooh hey i liek your shirt--or soemthign stupid like that lol


turn back to him for help in classwork--or if you dont want to look stupid to him, just turn back to connfirm answers with him...


just basically be his friend, make him feel like he ca't wait for that class so that he ca sit behind you and talk with you adn get to know you and stuff.
Reply:Hey if you want to flirt, I am an expert. I dont even mean to it just happens, even if I think they are idiots and I hate them. lol Um what you need to do it hang out with him more. Then find things he like and that you like, and talk to him about that. Trust me that will make you obvious, and maybe he will notice..... if he isnt an IDIOT!
Reply:mm well...i think that you should not purposely try and flirt. Just start a conversation ask for help with what you're doing in class. and smile a lot =] dress extra nice and find reasons to talk to him. just dont make it obvious


How do you FLIRT? How do you use these techniques in different situations( boys and girls can answer please)?

Well right now i'm single and LOVING IT!!


But i'm not really all that good at flirting, and it would be a great help to brush up on some skills that i can use throughout the summer in my pursuit of fun. ( dont worry its clean, i'm only 15)


i can be somewhat shy sometimes and i know a lil sum sum bout it but still anything yu have to offer will help


anywayzz, how do yu flirt? What REALLY attracts the attention of guys yet isnt slutty or hoe-ish?





all suggestions will be MUCH appreciated








yeah whut had happened was i deleted this question by accident cuz i was trying to figure out how to delete another resolved question i had but the other 9 answers i recieved. I wish i could give someone who wrote an answer before a best answer but i can't unless you repost the question.





(OH and if anyone knows how to delete a resolved question i'll give yu the best answer quick, remember; resolved isnt the same as open.)





Thanks people

How do you FLIRT? How do you use these techniques in different situations( boys and girls can answer please)?
Just relax and get all over the guy. Lots of touching and poking and hitting. Anything you can possible do to get this guy thinking about you and nothing else. Wear scandalous clothes, but only if you feel comfortable in them. Pretty much if you be yourself then you will attract people suited for you.
Reply:Talk a lot to a guy
Reply:OMG! u typed a lottttT! umm if ya wanna flirt just go with the flow and try to get the person talking a lot..and your starting to like get all yea. and i don't konw what does. probably the way you act. beauty NEVER matterZ!.haha :]]


How do you FLIRT w/ the oppposite sex?

IM JUST CURIOUS OF HOW PEOPLE (MAN or WOMAN) FLIRT...?





HOW DO YOU FLIRT, IN YOURE OWN WAY?

How do you FLIRT w/ the oppposite sex?
Joke with them, tease them and the big thing is to smile and be friendly.
Reply:Smile at the guy and make eye contact. Talk to him about sports and stuff that guys like to hear. I also tell him I like the way he dressed and that he smells really sexy to me.
Reply:why is that? you dont know how to flirt? well get close to that person and mess with them. i dont do that but they will eventually start first. look good too.
Reply:Compliment the guy does it every time!!!!
Reply:ya little nasty gross!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Reply:Well, you can tell someone is flirting, or you can flirt, when the person you like cracks a joke! Put your hand on his arm and laugh!! That's very flirty!! Also make sarcastic jokes and you'll snap him in the mouse trap!!
Reply:there is no set rule 4 flirting at a look a glance a smile and its the start of flirting


This girl..how long should i flirt?

Now that i've flirted with my crush, does that mean my crush is going to label me as "her proproperty". Will she expect me to flirt with her all the time. Last time, she looked at me and i didn't smile at her so she looked kinda confused or annoyed. How long should i keep on flirting with her before i make a move?.

This girl..how long should i flirt?
Learn about flirting here:


http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...


and rate the article if it help you :)
Reply:you can continue to flirt with her because she might think your someone who just like to flirt but when the time is right, just flirt your way to the top if you know what i mean
Reply:Make your move. Girls like it when you're direct.





Just go up to her or call her out and say, "I'd like to take you out sometime." See what she says. You've got to go for what you want. Take the leap!
Reply:2 weeks

teeth

♥ Cute Ways to Flirt ♥?

Does anyone know some cute ways to flirt with the guy I like that will get his attention? I sucessfully tried pulling his back pack while he was turned around and he started laughing and smiling, I also grabed his waist. If there are any other cute ways to flirt I would love to know. Thanks! =]

♥ Cute Ways to Flirt ♥?
If he has any classes with you, a couple of quick, noticeable glances will help (but look away immediately after he turns his head towards you) grab his attention a little bit. Be partners with him (if you can) if your teacher wants the class to work on a cooperative assignment (i.e. - pick partners). Try to get near him or talk to him whenever you can, try and be with him to show him that you're interested in him.





If you see him in the hallways, say hi to him, even if that means going out of your way to get to him. Hopefully he'll notice this and take it into consideration.





Stop by his locker before, during, or afterschool (right afterschool usually works, since he should be by himself...unless he has a bunch of friends following him everywhere) just to say hi or start a quick conversation with a funny remark or something of that nature.





When you are able to talk to him, even if it's a brief conversation, remember some of the little things and bring it back up in a later conversation - it shows that you're definitely interested in him.





Eye contact and smiling/grinning or laughing while talking to him should send him a signal as well. For me, if a girl begins to smile a bit and keep eye contact (not in a freaky way...more like she's actually paying attention and actually interested in what I have to say), it's definitely a turn-on and good signal that she's interested.





All the little things will help. Just remember that these things take time and patience, so don't try and rush it, otherwise you may screw up. Eventually, he should open up a bit more and you can talk to him easily. It's always getting started that's the frustrating part, though.





More physical contact seems to be all right, he doesn't seem uncomfortable with it, so continue to do so.





Hope this helps a bit.
Reply:You just talk to them and then you can touch them or tease them
Reply:in my personal opinion i want to make the guy notice me. so like if you walk past him in the hallway and hes facing the other way.. casually walk by and brush his arm with yours.. or kind of walk by and tap him on the back a bit while walking and keep walking and wait a second and turn your head and give him a sweet but cute smile. thats what i try. but sometimes flirting comes best when your being yourself and not thinking about it too much!. good luck tho!
Reply:Touch his arm when you talk and take down your hair and kinda swing it around,take off jewelry,or an piece of clothing. I know it sounds wierd but this "undressing" sends a subconcious message to guys telling them you like them. I've tried it and it works. Good luck flirting!!
Reply:depends how old you are. Idk.
Reply:haha thats cute, i dunoo just be yourself talk to him cheekily but not in a nastty way .. yu knoww when yur speaking to him flick your hair strut when you know hes watching you ahah all that kinda thihng i bet he wants you anyway by the sounds of it!


You flirt with this one guy...?

then he becomes your boyfriend, do you still flirt with him, still do the same things you already did. Like I hugged him and smelled his cologne all the time, would it be weird if i still do that?

You flirt with this one guy...?
yes, you should keep flirting with him cause it will keep making him feel important. If you still do that it is not weird cause your showing him you are still interested. He went out with you because, the way you are, and the way you do things.YOUR UNIQUE IN HIS EYES!
Reply:NO PROBLEM!!!!


*GOOD LUCK!!! Report It

Reply:OF COURSE you still do these things. Being affectionate and giving compliments shouldn't stop just because the 'chase' is over and you are now in a relationship. It's these little things that keep you bonded.





K.
Reply:I don't think so. It depends on your personalities, and what the relationship is like.
Reply:no it wouldn't be weird....go for it
Reply:Not only yeah, but heck yeah! One of the big reasons relationships fail is because we stop doing what ever it was that attracted them to us in the first place. You may even want to turn it up a notch!
Reply:no u don't stop. its wierd not to flirt with the person u like.
Reply:no if that s what you did to get him keep it going


How to a flirt wit a guy online?

okay theres this guy i like and we went out. but we broke up but im so so sure we still like eachother! We flirt all the time. We also call and talk online 24/7. i want him to know that im still intrested and i want to be a better FLIRT wit him ONLINE %26amp; IN PERSON! Got any tips?

How to a flirt wit a guy online?
Tell him he writes sexy.... lol. Meet people in real life...
Reply:online? do it in person, you pansy.
Reply:yeah what alison said


Tough Flirt Question?

How do you flirt with a guy who you think might be gay, but then again might be straight, like how do you lead him on (if gay) but not make him feel uncomfortable? (if straight)

Tough Flirt Question?
Tell him you are Gay and ask him if he is too. NO muss no fuss. Direct and to the point is best If he says he is not gay then back off and if this someone at work DO NOT ask at work could be considered sexual harrassment. If this an everyday person out side of work flirt away!!!! once they say they are gay of course!!!

teeth grinding

How do I flirt?

I am confused how to flirt and I don't know how to show the sexy side and also how can I flirt with having him know that i like him!

How do I flirt?
Well you can just flirt and have fun don't let any of the nervs take over!!
Reply:Start simple with a tight t-shrt with a deep cut. Oh, and eye make-up.....Lots of eye make-up.
Reply:You know what's even more successful? Actually saying what you mean. You can flirt, beat around the bush and hint all you like and still not get your message across.





In fact I know many guys who simply refuse to respond to any type of flirting because it's a waste of time. You can never tell if the person is truly flirting or what their intention are.
Reply:You should 'nt need to flirt to show him , Be yourself if that dose'nt work it should no be sorry
Reply:Well, you could talk to him and you know laugh and be like oh my gosh, are you serious. and giggle and all.
Reply:just do it
Reply:BE YOURSELF!!!


A guy has to like you for who you normally are!


Flirting is just showing who you are in a show-offy way.


Jus talking to him would help, starting conversations.


Do you purposely flirt with other guys to prove to your man youre still attractive/wanted?

Sometimes i flirt with other guys then tell my bf about what happened because he has a real hard time complimenting me/saying nice things to me like other guys can





It even started a fight between us once where i said "TONS of guys tell me how pretty i am all the time, but the one i actually WANT to hear it from, doesnt!" He said i was right %26amp; that he would try to change





Sometimes i feel like i flirt with people just to get some attention. Not because i want to cheat, but just to feel pretty.





Does anyone else do this?

Do you purposely flirt with other guys to prove to your man youre still attractive/wanted?
NO, that's silly. My man gives me all the attention I need. While I do still get attention from other guys, I certainly don't go "asking" or "looking" for the attention. And I would not even try to go looking for that kind of attention because that would be DISRESPECTFUL to my husband.
Reply:Not like that, but yes I do tell my boyfriend if someone chats me up and I'm not averse to getting a little extra attention from a nice man in front of my beloved...
Reply:yes....i feel guilty afterwards but we deserve 2 be complimented!!!
Reply:You're a low self-esteem attention whore. You need to be reminded constantly how good you look because you're to weak to accept yourself for who you are. You need the constant reassurance from everyone else that you're okay because you don't believe yourself to be okay.





Long story short: You've got more baggage than a fat lady on a ValuJet.
Reply:Sounds like you may be fishing for some needed attention. This really is not a respectful way to treat your boyfriend though. Sit down with him and tell him what you need from your relationship. You'll both be a lot happier once you're on the same page!
Reply:No, thats pretty harsh. How would you feel if your boyfriend flirted with other girls all the time the bragged to you about it.
Reply:My wife does it and I love it.





It gets me really worked up to see the interest guys pay in her.





I reckon it is ok, just enjoy yourself and hopefully your bf will learn to relax.
Reply:Grow up-if he is still with you he must like something about you. playing childish games just to get you attention is so 2nd grade.
Reply:I'm guilty of this at times, and I have to tell you that my husband is the same way. Since he doesn't change I go on enjoying compliments from other men and wish it was my hubby!
Reply:this behavior are for immature men.
Reply:I'm not a girl.


But don't do this. It might get you into a lot of trouble.


Yes, a lot do this.
Reply:A woman who does this is clearly an immature ittle girl and is not by any means attractive. Mind games shows a lack of maturity and lack of the willingness to communicate.





Grow up and get over yourself. Flirting with other guys is cheating if you're exclusive with someone.





In order to deserve to be complimented, you need to earn it. This goes for both genders. And by your actions, you clearly don't deserve to get complimented when you're trying to get attention from any guy who gives it to you.
Reply:you're just gonna put a huge gap between you guys.. stop doing this and just be upfront with him.. tell him about how you crave for compliments from him...
Reply:Guilty! : )
Reply:no that childish it show that u want attention.whats the point men are just crazy they see what they wanna see and here what they wanna here its not u as long as i kept my self up and i know i look good it wouldn't matter to me whether or not he ever payed me a compliment some men dont like for that stuff to go to women's head. i wouldn't even tell my X. sum times he would happened to run up on a guy giving me one and i would say hey do get mad at cuz he gave me a compliment cuz its not like im ugly or some thin. that would irritate him more just to know ok its other guys saying this to u and ur not tell me or what are u saying to them and y wouldn't u just say hey i have a man. and i would say yea i do hav a man but y would i lie to them and say u shouldnt give me compliments cuz that would upset my boyfriend NOT ??? it would eat his ego up everytime
Reply:you sound like a horable girlfriend, glad your not mine.


Do girls like it when guys flirt with them?

Im 14 years old, attractive male, and honestly I dont like to flirt with girls. I dont like to flirt with girls becuase if I do it will make me just like the rest of the guys and I wont be unique. Do girls like it when guys flirt with them?

Do girls like it when guys flirt with them?
just flirt with the girl you like. you'll still be unique because all the other guys flirt with every girl in sight.





we like it usually (especially if we like the guy)
Reply:1it alway depends on who it is . 2 it depends on wat the convesenon is about ( dont just go up to a girl and flirt start a convo first then u kinda r flirting with her)3 it depends on if u like the girl .4 dont jsut flrit with any girl becase then girls will think u r a pig
Reply:It depends if your hot or not. If your like repulsive...then dont flirt because it will make the girl feel uncomfortable or start convulsing...If your hot, then you should go ahead because girls do like when hot guys flirt with them. ( There's no reason NOT to) just dont flirt like all the other guyss if you want to be unique...Treat her like a lady if flirt like that, you'll be unique AND get a girl.
Reply:I think some girls like it when guys flirt with them, but not too much. But then other girls hate it when guys flirt with them. Some girls just like the guys that are off in the corner who is shy. I guess it just depends on the girl you are with.


Hope that helps. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!
Reply:only when its the guy they like...
Reply:I think girls like it when guys flirt with them. It makes them feel special that a guy like them. If a guy did that, i would feel flattered and appreciate that the guy had the nerve to do that. It's okay if u don't want to do that. If you want to do something else and be unique just ask them out on a date or something.
Reply:YES. IT'S NICE TO FEEL WANTED.
Reply:Yes but they don't like the ones that go too far. Best thing is to be yourself. It should feel natural. If you feel like you are having to work too hard to get a girl to like you, it's not worth it.
Reply:i think the guy thats shy and cute about it is better then the one who is cocky who and will come and try to talk my pants off but hey thats just me


How do you FLIRT? How do you use these techniques in different situations( boys and girls can answer please)?

Well right now i'm single and LOVING IT!!


But i'm not really all that good at flirting, and it would be a great help to brush up on some skills that i can use throughout the summer in my pursuit of fun. ( dont worry its clean, i'm only 15)


i can be somewhat shy sometimes and i know a lil sum sum bout it but still anything yu have to offer will help


anywayzz, how do yu flirt? What REALLY attracts the attention of guys yet isnt slutty or hoe-ish?





all suggestions will be MUCH appreciated








yeah whut had happened was i deleted this question by accident cuz i was trying to figure out how to delete another resolved question i had but the other 9 answers i recieved. I wish i could give someone who wrote an answer before a best answer but i can't unless you repost the question.





(OH and if anyone knows how to delete a resolved question i'll give yu the best answer quick, remember; resolved isnt the same as open.)





Thanks people

How do you FLIRT? How do you use these techniques in different situations( boys and girls can answer please)?
Just relax and get all over the guy. Lots of touching and poking and hitting. Anything you can possible do to get this guy thinking about you and nothing else. Wear scandalous clothes, but only if you feel comfortable in them. Pretty much if you be yourself then you will attract people suited for you.
Reply:Talk a lot to a guy
Reply:OMG! u typed a lottttT! umm if ya wanna flirt just go with the flow and try to get the person talking a lot..and your starting to like get all yea. and i don't konw what does. probably the way you act. beauty NEVER matterZ!.haha :]]

teeth bleaching

How do you FLIRT w/ the oppposite sex?

IM JUST CURIOUS OF HOW PEOPLE (MAN or WOMAN) FLIRT...?





HOW DO YOU FLIRT, IN YOURE OWN WAY?

How do you FLIRT w/ the oppposite sex?
Joke with them, tease them and the big thing is to smile and be friendly.
Reply:Smile at the guy and make eye contact. Talk to him about sports and stuff that guys like to hear. I also tell him I like the way he dressed and that he smells really sexy to me.
Reply:why is that? you dont know how to flirt? well get close to that person and mess with them. i dont do that but they will eventually start first. look good too.
Reply:Compliment the guy does it every time!!!!
Reply:ya little nasty gross!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Reply:Well, you can tell someone is flirting, or you can flirt, when the person you like cracks a joke! Put your hand on his arm and laugh!! That's very flirty!! Also make sarcastic jokes and you'll snap him in the mouse trap!!
Reply:there is no set rule 4 flirting at a look a glance a smile and its the start of flirting


This girl..how long should i flirt?

Now that i've flirted with my crush, does that mean my crush is going to label me as "her proproperty". Will she expect me to flirt with her all the time. Last time, she looked at me and i didn't smile at her so she looked kinda confused or annoyed. How long should i keep on flirting with her before i make a move?.

This girl..how long should i flirt?
Learn about flirting here:


http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...


and rate the article if it help you :)
Reply:you can continue to flirt with her because she might think your someone who just like to flirt but when the time is right, just flirt your way to the top if you know what i mean
Reply:Make your move. Girls like it when you're direct.





Just go up to her or call her out and say, "I'd like to take you out sometime." See what she says. You've got to go for what you want. Take the leap!
Reply:2 weeks


♥ Cute Ways to Flirt ♥?

Does anyone know some cute ways to flirt with the guy I like that will get his attention? I sucessfully tried pulling his back pack while he was turned around and he started laughing and smiling, I also grabed his waist. If there are any other cute ways to flirt I would love to know. Thanks! =]

♥ Cute Ways to Flirt ♥?
If he has any classes with you, a couple of quick, noticeable glances will help (but look away immediately after he turns his head towards you) grab his attention a little bit. Be partners with him (if you can) if your teacher wants the class to work on a cooperative assignment (i.e. - pick partners). Try to get near him or talk to him whenever you can, try and be with him to show him that you're interested in him.





If you see him in the hallways, say hi to him, even if that means going out of your way to get to him. Hopefully he'll notice this and take it into consideration.





Stop by his locker before, during, or afterschool (right afterschool usually works, since he should be by himself...unless he has a bunch of friends following him everywhere) just to say hi or start a quick conversation with a funny remark or something of that nature.





When you are able to talk to him, even if it's a brief conversation, remember some of the little things and bring it back up in a later conversation - it shows that you're definitely interested in him.





Eye contact and smiling/grinning or laughing while talking to him should send him a signal as well. For me, if a girl begins to smile a bit and keep eye contact (not in a freaky way...more like she's actually paying attention and actually interested in what I have to say), it's definitely a turn-on and good signal that she's interested.





All the little things will help. Just remember that these things take time and patience, so don't try and rush it, otherwise you may screw up. Eventually, he should open up a bit more and you can talk to him easily. It's always getting started that's the frustrating part, though.





More physical contact seems to be all right, he doesn't seem uncomfortable with it, so continue to do so.





Hope this helps a bit.
Reply:You just talk to them and then you can touch them or tease them
Reply:in my personal opinion i want to make the guy notice me. so like if you walk past him in the hallway and hes facing the other way.. casually walk by and brush his arm with yours.. or kind of walk by and tap him on the back a bit while walking and keep walking and wait a second and turn your head and give him a sweet but cute smile. thats what i try. but sometimes flirting comes best when your being yourself and not thinking about it too much!. good luck tho!
Reply:Touch his arm when you talk and take down your hair and kinda swing it around,take off jewelry,or an piece of clothing. I know it sounds wierd but this "undressing" sends a subconcious message to guys telling them you like them. I've tried it and it works. Good luck flirting!!
Reply:depends how old you are. Idk.
Reply:haha thats cute, i dunoo just be yourself talk to him cheekily but not in a nastty way .. yu knoww when yur speaking to him flick your hair strut when you know hes watching you ahah all that kinda thihng i bet he wants you anyway by the sounds of it!


You flirt with this one guy...?

then he becomes your boyfriend, do you still flirt with him, still do the same things you already did. Like I hugged him and smelled his cologne all the time, would it be weird if i still do that?

You flirt with this one guy...?
yes, you should keep flirting with him cause it will keep making him feel important. If you still do that it is not weird cause your showing him you are still interested. He went out with you because, the way you are, and the way you do things.YOUR UNIQUE IN HIS EYES!
Reply:NO PROBLEM!!!!


*GOOD LUCK!!! Report It

Reply:OF COURSE you still do these things. Being affectionate and giving compliments shouldn't stop just because the 'chase' is over and you are now in a relationship. It's these little things that keep you bonded.





K.
Reply:I don't think so. It depends on your personalities, and what the relationship is like.
Reply:no it wouldn't be weird....go for it
Reply:Not only yeah, but heck yeah! One of the big reasons relationships fail is because we stop doing what ever it was that attracted them to us in the first place. You may even want to turn it up a notch!
Reply:no u don't stop. its wierd not to flirt with the person u like.
Reply:no if that s what you did to get him keep it going

Racing Shoes

How to a flirt wit a guy online?

okay theres this guy i like and we went out. but we broke up but im so so sure we still like eachother! We flirt all the time. We also call and talk online 24/7. i want him to know that im still intrested and i want to be a better FLIRT wit him ONLINE %26amp; IN PERSON! Got any tips?

How to a flirt wit a guy online?
Tell him he writes sexy.... lol. Meet people in real life...
Reply:online? do it in person, you pansy.
Reply:yeah what alison said


Tough Flirt Question?

How do you flirt with a guy who you think might be gay, but then again might be straight, like how do you lead him on (if gay) but not make him feel uncomfortable? (if straight)

Tough Flirt Question?
Tell him you are Gay and ask him if he is too. NO muss no fuss. Direct and to the point is best If he says he is not gay then back off and if this someone at work DO NOT ask at work could be considered sexual harrassment. If this an everyday person out side of work flirt away!!!! once they say they are gay of course!!!


How do I flirt?

I am confused how to flirt and I don't know how to show the sexy side and also how can I flirt with having him know that i like him!

How do I flirt?
Well you can just flirt and have fun don't let any of the nervs take over!!
Reply:Start simple with a tight t-shrt with a deep cut. Oh, and eye make-up.....Lots of eye make-up.
Reply:You know what's even more successful? Actually saying what you mean. You can flirt, beat around the bush and hint all you like and still not get your message across.





In fact I know many guys who simply refuse to respond to any type of flirting because it's a waste of time. You can never tell if the person is truly flirting or what their intention are.
Reply:You should 'nt need to flirt to show him , Be yourself if that dose'nt work it should no be sorry
Reply:Well, you could talk to him and you know laugh and be like oh my gosh, are you serious. and giggle and all.
Reply:just do it
Reply:BE YOURSELF!!!


A guy has to like you for who you normally are!


Flirting is just showing who you are in a show-offy way.


Jus talking to him would help, starting conversations.


Do you purposely flirt with other guys to prove to your man youre still attractive/wanted?

Sometimes i flirt with other guys then tell my bf about what happened because he has a real hard time complimenting me/saying nice things to me like other guys can





It even started a fight between us once where i said "TONS of guys tell me how pretty i am all the time, but the one i actually WANT to hear it from, doesnt!" He said i was right %26amp; that he would try to change





Sometimes i feel like i flirt with people just to get some attention. Not because i want to cheat, but just to feel pretty.





Does anyone else do this?

Do you purposely flirt with other guys to prove to your man youre still attractive/wanted?
NO, that's silly. My man gives me all the attention I need. While I do still get attention from other guys, I certainly don't go "asking" or "looking" for the attention. And I would not even try to go looking for that kind of attention because that would be DISRESPECTFUL to my husband.
Reply:Not like that, but yes I do tell my boyfriend if someone chats me up and I'm not averse to getting a little extra attention from a nice man in front of my beloved...
Reply:yes....i feel guilty afterwards but we deserve 2 be complimented!!!
Reply:You're a low self-esteem attention whore. You need to be reminded constantly how good you look because you're to weak to accept yourself for who you are. You need the constant reassurance from everyone else that you're okay because you don't believe yourself to be okay.





Long story short: You've got more baggage than a fat lady on a ValuJet.
Reply:Sounds like you may be fishing for some needed attention. This really is not a respectful way to treat your boyfriend though. Sit down with him and tell him what you need from your relationship. You'll both be a lot happier once you're on the same page!
Reply:No, thats pretty harsh. How would you feel if your boyfriend flirted with other girls all the time the bragged to you about it.
Reply:My wife does it and I love it.





It gets me really worked up to see the interest guys pay in her.





I reckon it is ok, just enjoy yourself and hopefully your bf will learn to relax.
Reply:Grow up-if he is still with you he must like something about you. playing childish games just to get you attention is so 2nd grade.
Reply:I'm guilty of this at times, and I have to tell you that my husband is the same way. Since he doesn't change I go on enjoying compliments from other men and wish it was my hubby!
Reply:this behavior are for immature men.
Reply:I'm not a girl.


But don't do this. It might get you into a lot of trouble.


Yes, a lot do this.
Reply:A woman who does this is clearly an immature ittle girl and is not by any means attractive. Mind games shows a lack of maturity and lack of the willingness to communicate.





Grow up and get over yourself. Flirting with other guys is cheating if you're exclusive with someone.





In order to deserve to be complimented, you need to earn it. This goes for both genders. And by your actions, you clearly don't deserve to get complimented when you're trying to get attention from any guy who gives it to you.
Reply:you're just gonna put a huge gap between you guys.. stop doing this and just be upfront with him.. tell him about how you crave for compliments from him...
Reply:Guilty! : )
Reply:no that childish it show that u want attention.whats the point men are just crazy they see what they wanna see and here what they wanna here its not u as long as i kept my self up and i know i look good it wouldn't matter to me whether or not he ever payed me a compliment some men dont like for that stuff to go to women's head. i wouldn't even tell my X. sum times he would happened to run up on a guy giving me one and i would say hey do get mad at cuz he gave me a compliment cuz its not like im ugly or some thin. that would irritate him more just to know ok its other guys saying this to u and ur not tell me or what are u saying to them and y wouldn't u just say hey i have a man. and i would say yea i do hav a man but y would i lie to them and say u shouldnt give me compliments cuz that would upset my boyfriend NOT ??? it would eat his ego up everytime
Reply:you sound like a horable girlfriend, glad your not mine.

teeth cleaning

Do girls like it when guys flirt with them?

Im 14 years old, attractive male, and honestly I dont like to flirt with girls. I dont like to flirt with girls becuase if I do it will make me just like the rest of the guys and I wont be unique. Do girls like it when guys flirt with them?

Do girls like it when guys flirt with them?
just flirt with the girl you like. you'll still be unique because all the other guys flirt with every girl in sight.





we like it usually (especially if we like the guy)
Reply:1it alway depends on who it is . 2 it depends on wat the convesenon is about ( dont just go up to a girl and flirt start a convo first then u kinda r flirting with her)3 it depends on if u like the girl .4 dont jsut flrit with any girl becase then girls will think u r a pig
Reply:It depends if your hot or not. If your like repulsive...then dont flirt because it will make the girl feel uncomfortable or start convulsing...If your hot, then you should go ahead because girls do like when hot guys flirt with them. ( There's no reason NOT to) just dont flirt like all the other guyss if you want to be unique...Treat her like a lady if flirt like that, you'll be unique AND get a girl.
Reply:I think some girls like it when guys flirt with them, but not too much. But then other girls hate it when guys flirt with them. Some girls just like the guys that are off in the corner who is shy. I guess it just depends on the girl you are with.


Hope that helps. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!
Reply:only when its the guy they like...
Reply:I think girls like it when guys flirt with them. It makes them feel special that a guy like them. If a guy did that, i would feel flattered and appreciate that the guy had the nerve to do that. It's okay if u don't want to do that. If you want to do something else and be unique just ask them out on a date or something.
Reply:YES. IT'S NICE TO FEEL WANTED.
Reply:Yes but they don't like the ones that go too far. Best thing is to be yourself. It should feel natural. If you feel like you are having to work too hard to get a girl to like you, it's not worth it.
Reply:i think the guy thats shy and cute about it is better then the one who is cocky who and will come and try to talk my pants off but hey thats just me


Can anyone give me advise how to flirt with a girl. I learn how to make a first move now i need to flirt thx?

for example to make a first moie to have on your T shirt that look interesting to girl and strike a conversation or come up with a subject. now i need advise hot to flirt i only know couples of them but want more flirting skills if you can help thank you advise. only good advise no flake flirt plese thank you.

Can anyone give me advise how to flirt with a girl. I learn how to make a first move now i need to flirt thx?
U can tell them she/he is very cool... and ask them to hang out?





When they look at u .. look at them witha smile..





Play a game... ask her/him what the hottest/cutiest person it...





U go first and u choose them...





They go next and they will most likely choose u





Then they might ask u out after u get to know them a lil bit better...





so enjoy..





good luck -.-


U
Reply:F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.





R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =)





good luck!





love,


stef
Reply:just be nice, compliment her, be yourself, and make her laugh


My friend is a big flirt?

My friend is a big flirt. SHe flirts with almost all the boys possible, and a lot of girls dislike her for that reason.


I like my friend, but sometimes her actions and flirty ways really annoy me. It seems like she's desperate for attention, but when I try to talk t her about it, she denies it and says she's natural like that.





She's starting to annoy me. Because honestly, she's taking everyone's attention. I'm not going to THROW MYSELF OUT THERE and flirt shamelessly like she does, but sometimes I wish I could get the attention she does with boys...





Please give serious advice as to what I can do. Thank you

My friend is a big flirt?
i hear you! my friend does the exact same thing. because of that we've grown distant. she's so touchy with other friends' boyfriends, everyone is starting to be annoyed with her. let her be, if she really annoys you, distance yourself from her and find new friends.
Reply:what is her phone number? LOL
Reply:Be yourself...........Someone does notice you and you dont have to advertise..................
Reply:I have been accused of being a flirt and too flirty by men and women alike. I am a naturally flirty person, I guess. You should let her know that you want some attention, too, and maybe when she is talking to guys she could include you in the convo more. If she is a hater and really does want all of the attention to herself, or you are just a hater and don't want to get yourself out there and be pissed at her because of her personality then maybe you guys shouldn't be friends.
Reply:Focus on the one you want not the entire room. That's her thing not yours.
Reply:Most intelligent guys see right past her and will not even pay attention. Flirting is for girls that have low self-esteem and use it to boost there ego. They are usually not the brightest ones either.
Reply:Well, it's called 'prick-teaser'. There are a lot of women like that and as far as I am concerned I don't find them attractive at all as they will flirt with anyone at all, but many man do-or think they have to to comply with social male stereotypes and the like.


Relax, your man will come along sooner or later and it will be more special as he'll be attracted to you the way you are so dont commit the mistake of trying to copy your friend just because she seems to be more popular amongst men. Be yourself!
Reply:You can not change anybody, if you are not very comfortable with her fine other friend because if you are going to be with her everybody will think you are just like her.
Reply:why do you want to get attention with boys? get attention with the right guy, mr. right. and dont TRY to get attention. be yourself, and if you have the right amount of inner beauty, you'll attract boys the right way.


Flirt-A-licois?

Ok im kind shy and the guys talk to me but i dont talk back. So any advice on ways to be outgoing and flirt. Example I sit behind a HOTT boi in a class and i want to be able to talkto him but im too shy to say ANYTHING! please help

Flirt-A-licois?
Ah, it's easier than you think. Just be yourself. I know that's what everyone says but it's true. The reason you're too shy to say anything is because you're feeling the pressure of putting on a performance that will get him interested. That's always fake and wont get you what you want. Be natural. Talk to him like a friend. Of course you can amp it up a bit to let him know that you're into him more than just that....but that's my advice. You'd be surprised at just how naturally it can flow if you relax and just be yourself. Good luck.
Reply:write it on your shoes and then put your feet on him or just play with his hair or something he will do the rest.
Reply:guys like to feel smart and needed. ask him questions about homework. make them feel like you need them, they will open up. talk to him about what hes interested in, even if it bores you to tears. thats what i do when my girlfriend talks about purses and shopping, i listen (and cry inside)

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Flirt or actual feelings?

There's this guy, and I have feelings for him, and he talks to me a lot and tickles and teases me. However, our mutual friends tell me things like he's a flirt, and that he "gets a lot of girls". I went to this thing with him and I caught him looking at me a few times, he would usually just smile and I'd look away, he also played footsie with me a few times as well. They all seem like he likes me, and I'm inviting him to a party, is there a way I can "test" to see if he really likes me.

Flirt or actual feelings?
Sounds like this guy is a flirt - and because you say that he smiles at you and YOU always look away, my guess is that he is not shy and you are the shy one here. Be careful! If he is not shy, it could mean that it's because he doesn't really have feelings for you - otherwise he would act shy himself!! Think about it - when you REALLY like someone, you are often too overwhelmed by your feelings to play footsie and constantly flirt with them. It sounds too casual for me....Good Luck
Reply:Don't worry girl! Guys flirt to SHOW their feeling for you, but just in case enjoy the fun and test him to see if he's really sincere and true. I'm glad that you're really careful about this guy! :)
Reply:Greetings,





Your friends are giving you the clues as to what kind of person he is. If he "gets a lot of girls", then chances are you're one of his numbers on his list. Guys like that are often trouble......yes it's flattering to have someone pay attention to you and the like, but don't let your flattered heart rule over your brain. If this guy were your husband one day, chances are with a character like that you'd probably be separated or divorced.





Be wise, don't be hypnotized by foolish glitter.





Good day,


TCL
Reply:If he's a known flirt, probably not. I pride myself in being a good judge of character and even I've been taken in by these guys (my best friend is one btw). Have fun, but don't get emotionally caught up. Much as I hate to say it, he's probably just having fun with you and doesn't intend a serious relationship. The only way you can know for sure is talk about it if you have a close enough and open enough relationship. Worked for me, but we were also close friends. Otherwise, wait and see if he asks you out, but don't get your hopes up too high.
Reply:theres no way until you try.


what i sugest is dating him [if hes willing] but not putting out to him. see what he does
Reply:First off don't listen to everything your friends say, though take in account whether or not he dose date alot of women. Be open with him on a friendly level and tell him how you feel, ask him everything appropriate question you have in your mind. But keep in mind your still just trying to create a relationship so keep it on the flirty side.


Flirt question?

OK so i have this really good frend thatd id like to go out with really bad, and i know she wants to go out with me too :)





but she has a boyfrend and me and her still flirt round ALOT


does anyone think thats wrong? cuz i dont want to hurt her bf cuz hes a pretty cool guy...

Flirt question?
Okay so she wants to go out with you? Then why is she still with the other guy? That doesn't sound right.


Well it is wrong that you guys flirt because she does have a BF!! But i mean if you guys flirt and know you like each other then you should go out.


Just make sure you don't do it behind the other guys back because that's just mean.


~Hope this helps!
Reply:hmmmm...so what`s the question...
Reply:Yeah that is kinda wrong cause she still have a boyfriend!


tell he if she wants to be with you than break up with her bf!


Flirt help ?

i NEED help to pick up a girl before christmas so can somebody give mee some flirt tips please.











P.S Thanks alot

Flirt help ?
From a girl's point of view, chat with her during class, do a project with her. I would not think that excessive staring is appropriate because she might think you are judging her or just looking, however in moderation it can be charming and get her excited to have the attention. But actually talk to her after she has busted you for looking. If you don't know what to talk to her about talk about the professor or the class. If she is not into you one can usually tell. If you are talking to her during class maybe ask for the email or aim before asking her for her number, asking her for her number might be a tad to strong.
Reply:Ok... at school:


In Gym: If you do you units, and you are a captain make the girl you like FIRST!!! Not your best friend.


In Class: Try to sit next to her


~ Stare at her


~ Try to do projects with her.





Outside of school: Get her aim, email and number!


In a serious relationship is it okay to flirt with other people?

Some people do but dont even consider themselves to be flirting. So think about it and be honest. Some people may flirt but their spouses never find out or they think its innocent when they do it but bad when their partners do it. Or do couples just flirt with others and keep it to themselves. Is the case different when your married?








Sorry I didnt mean to sound like I was flirting. I have caught my boyfriend flirting thru his cell phone email. He asked this girl to send him a pic and wrote back that she was cute and then he asked when he would get another one.

In a serious relationship is it okay to flirt with other people?
He is wrong. That's beyond flirting.


A person in a relationship should limit flirting to maybe a wink at the WalMart cashier while saying thank you (that's not really a flirt, but that's my point). I just don't believe in it. If I caught my girl flirting, there'd be some guy with a whooped butt and I would probably split with her. I've been cheated on, and flirting is stage one as far as I am concerned.


But, that's just me.
Reply:Flirting is okay just dont take it any farther.Look but dont touch.The grass is always greener on the other side until you get there.People get hurt so be careful not to go too far.Know when to draw the line,your partner has feelings,respect them.
Reply:it is human nature to flirt. My motto you can look at the menu as long as you come home for dinner !!!!

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Is he just a flirt? His facebook comments are usually from girls...?

We go to different schools %26amp; talk on facebook. He usually doesn't initiate it, but he always replies. When I go to his wall, there's usually only posts from girls. He's friendly/flirty %26amp; social; we've hung out a few times these past two months, though we met last November and it was random.


There's 1 girl who always comments him. I don't know if they like each other or are just good friends; they flirt but neither has tried to pursue a relationship. A few times he said they should really stop flirting, but they send each other funny and flirty bumper stickers. [I know people are gonna call me a stalker, but I just want to know if I should move on or try to get the guy.] He flirts with me %26amp; sends me bumper stickers too, but he flirts or is quite friendly with any girl who is friendly/flirty back. Does this mean he's just really social %26amp; open or a big flirt?


I know for a fact that he thinks I'm "hot"; my friend asked him if he liked me and that was his reply. Is he playing hard to get?

Is he just a flirt? His facebook comments are usually from girls...?
when a guy like a girl for their appearances, yea...we do say...ur hot. but when we like you for who u are, we say ur cute.
Reply:He's either a really good flirt or he's gay.
Reply:He's flirting, you said it. There's nothing serious about it until his facebook status says so, lol.
Reply:it sound like your really desperate and he's an ***


Guys That Flirt Just to Flirt?

If you truly like a girl, will you flirt AND stare at her? But if you flirt just to flirt with her, do you still stare at her?

Guys That Flirt Just to Flirt?
I WOULD STALK HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN FLIRT ALL THE TIME. BUT ONLY STARE WHEN SHE AIN'T LOOKING!!!!!!!!!


How too flirt?

okay im 15 male and I don't know how to flirt and im shy! My friend and I were at a wrestling state tournament and wen we were at the motel we were by the pool then this hot chick walked past us and my friend said "hey she said hi then he asked if she wanted too come sit by us" she did then he flirted with her some and he kinda looked at me and was like come on join in. I couldnt even say 12 words too her cause im so shy towards girls and wanna break this and learn how too flirt.








i have always been shy towards females idk why. I can't even start up a decent conversation so please help me!





how can i start up a good conversation with a girl and when do u start flirting?

How too flirt?
This is actually a common problem for most guys. They are shy towards girls, but waht they dont realize is most girls get intimidated by guys who come on really fast. A lot of girls like a shy guy, not a guy who comes on to them really fast and starts flirting right away. I'm not saying all girls feel this way but most do. I think what you need to do is get some advice.... Such as figuring out topics that are both gender related issues. So if you ask her a girl related subject she won't feel like she has to spill her feminine opinion and it might be personal. And if you want to join in and comment you don't look gay by answering to a female question. Something that is casual. Such as... favorite restaurant. Name a good retaurant until you have one in common. Then talk about favorite food there... why its your favorite. Keep it going. Girls don't want a guy who starts a conversation and can't keep it going, it leaves too many awkward moments in between and she might leave just to escape the total awkwardness. And about the whole flirting thing... if your new at it... Don't over due it. It coudl really scare her and make you think your inexperienced. Just play it cool and smile every once in a while when she's talking. Listen, be polite and don't stare at her boobs. Ahaha good luck! Hope it helped...
Reply:don't go straight to flirting if you don't know her! save that for a date or at a party. just let loose, and talk to her like you would anyone else, except pay her more attention and as time goes on compliment her a little more and more. girls don't like shy guys because that shows lack of confidence. if you do it once, you won't ever have a problem. one win gives you the confidence to do it again and again, etc. just don't think about getting laid like most guys do. get to know a girl and listen to her. the conversational ability will increase over time. trust me on this.





once you do want to flirt, ask her things she likes from a guy, and just compliment her. a little touching isn't too bad either, but don't over do it.


Thursday, August 19, 2010

Do you flirt more with who you have feelings for or do you flirt more with friends?

for some reason, this doesn't make sense to me but i flirt more with my friends than with those i like.


i've always had a problem telling the people i like that i like them and i get very shy around them for the first few weeks..then gradually warm up to them and slightly flirt but its sooooo much harder to flirt with ones i like than with friends. i'm unbelievably flirtatious with my friends!





hows it with you?

Do you flirt more with who you have feelings for or do you flirt more with friends?
I am too shy to flirt.
Reply:omg same here!!


hah idk i think its because you know their your friends


and your more comfortable with them other


than your crushes cus, they're scary O_o





haha
Reply:with friends





mainly caus i spazz out when its the real deal
Reply:I do the exact same thing that you do. My guy friends, it's just innocent flirting. I don't really expect anything to happen.





But when it comes to someone that I like, I have a harder time flirting with them because I'm so nervous to how they'll react.
Reply:I like flirting with all types of women...and my wife knows I'm a big flirt. I give compliment to my wife, female friends and female strangers...i'm always searching for a smile...and it usually makes a woman's day just to hear something nice said to her.
Reply:for some reason, i tend to flirt with [some] of my guy friends more than i do with the guy[s] i actually like...it is kinda weird, lol :).
Reply:I flirt with every male I see.
Reply:I am the opposite I flirt with who I like, I don't flirt with my guy friends at all, even if they try I clam up. Flirting is fun whispering in a guys ear and saying sweet somethings and making sure they feel your breath slightly on their ear~!

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How not 2 b a flirt anymore???lol?

Ok all my friends and even my boifriend says I flirt 2 much....A couple of my friends says that I flirt without noticing it,its like when I talk 2 a boi or sumthen I flirt...but what can i do 2 stop this???and dnt write nun smart cuz i will snap bac...hahahaha

How not 2 b a flirt anymore???lol?
I've been married for 14 yrs love my wife to death, but i will flirt with anyone, i don't care how old they are i used to flirt with this lady who was well into her seventies %26amp; when ever my wife saw her she would tell her that her boyfriend said hi. It is just fun thats all, its nice to havesomeone pay attention to you %26amp; think your hot so if you like to flirt, go for it, but if your just flirting make sure the other person knows that you have a boyfriend %26amp; your really not interested in anything but a friendship.
Reply:be more serious when u talk....try not to be touchy or move or play around to much....and that should be enough!!!!
Reply:dont have screen names like "sextaurus"


dont giggle at everything that comes out of a boy's mouth,


be more serious.


Edit: and type correctly. "boi" isnt a word and its not that difficult to type "to" instead of "2".
Reply:you sound totally like my girlfriend. i tell her that it is a gift so she can get hot guys like me. it may be that you have that same gift


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Flirt Ideas? I need some ideas to let a guy know I like him?

I really like this guy and I don't know how to show it. I am kind of shy and need some other ways to flirt besides just eye contact and smiling. Can anyone help???

Flirt Ideas? I need some ideas to let a guy know I like him?
Give him a little touch,say a lil something
Reply:Get dressed really pretty and walk by him really sexy. Say something that will leave him confused and thinking about you.
Reply:just tell him! life goes by too fast you wait too long you might lose him.
Reply:First get know of him. Try join any club or society or any activies that he also joining it.
Reply:I like it when the opposite sex tells me, "Hey whatcha been up to", or even asking if I'd like to join them for dinner and a movie. I also like it when I am touched on my arms and shoulders. Also another thing I really like is when they sit next to me alot.
Reply:i really don't know...i've been asking that question a lot 2. people just keep telling me to go talk to him.


FLIRT in the POOL !!!!?

how do u flirt with guys in the pool u dont know very well, and who are a year or two older than u ???? and totally hot !!! and keep in mind, im 14 so dont say anything like, flash them !!!!

FLIRT in the POOL !!!!?
talk to them first! lol and just play around like tag or marco polo i know it sounds childish but it gets really silly sometime which can start something
Reply:First; you are 14.





Second; you should not be worried about flirting with guys a few years older than you.





Third; enjoy time with friends.