Flirt or actual feelings?

There's this guy, and I have feelings for him, and he talks to me a lot and tickles and teases me. However, our mutual friends tell me things like he's a flirt, and that he "gets a lot of girls". I went to this thing with him and I caught him looking at me a few times, he would usually just smile and I'd look away, he also played footsie with me a few times as well. They all seem like he likes me, and I'm inviting him to a party, is there a way I can "test" to see if he really likes me.

Flirt or actual feelings?
Sounds like this guy is a flirt - and because you say that he smiles at you and YOU always look away, my guess is that he is not shy and you are the shy one here. Be careful! If he is not shy, it could mean that it's because he doesn't really have feelings for you - otherwise he would act shy himself!! Think about it - when you REALLY like someone, you are often too overwhelmed by your feelings to play footsie and constantly flirt with them. It sounds too casual for me....Good Luck
Reply:Don't worry girl! Guys flirt to SHOW their feeling for you, but just in case enjoy the fun and test him to see if he's really sincere and true. I'm glad that you're really careful about this guy! :)
Reply:Greetings,





Your friends are giving you the clues as to what kind of person he is. If he "gets a lot of girls", then chances are you're one of his numbers on his list. Guys like that are often trouble......yes it's flattering to have someone pay attention to you and the like, but don't let your flattered heart rule over your brain. If this guy were your husband one day, chances are with a character like that you'd probably be separated or divorced.





Be wise, don't be hypnotized by foolish glitter.





Good day,


TCL
Reply:If he's a known flirt, probably not. I pride myself in being a good judge of character and even I've been taken in by these guys (my best friend is one btw). Have fun, but don't get emotionally caught up. Much as I hate to say it, he's probably just having fun with you and doesn't intend a serious relationship. The only way you can know for sure is talk about it if you have a close enough and open enough relationship. Worked for me, but we were also close friends. Otherwise, wait and see if he asks you out, but don't get your hopes up too high.
Reply:theres no way until you try.


what i sugest is dating him [if hes willing] but not putting out to him. see what he does
Reply:First off don't listen to everything your friends say, though take in account whether or not he dose date alot of women. Be open with him on a friendly level and tell him how you feel, ask him everything appropriate question you have in your mind. But keep in mind your still just trying to create a relationship so keep it on the flirty side.