How too flirt?

okay im 15 male and I don't know how to flirt and im shy! My friend and I were at a wrestling state tournament and wen we were at the motel we were by the pool then this hot chick walked past us and my friend said "hey she said hi then he asked if she wanted too come sit by us" she did then he flirted with her some and he kinda looked at me and was like come on join in. I couldnt even say 12 words too her cause im so shy towards girls and wanna break this and learn how too flirt.








i have always been shy towards females idk why. I can't even start up a decent conversation so please help me!





how can i start up a good conversation with a girl and when do u start flirting?

How too flirt?
This is actually a common problem for most guys. They are shy towards girls, but waht they dont realize is most girls get intimidated by guys who come on really fast. A lot of girls like a shy guy, not a guy who comes on to them really fast and starts flirting right away. I'm not saying all girls feel this way but most do. I think what you need to do is get some advice.... Such as figuring out topics that are both gender related issues. So if you ask her a girl related subject she won't feel like she has to spill her feminine opinion and it might be personal. And if you want to join in and comment you don't look gay by answering to a female question. Something that is casual. Such as... favorite restaurant. Name a good retaurant until you have one in common. Then talk about favorite food there... why its your favorite. Keep it going. Girls don't want a guy who starts a conversation and can't keep it going, it leaves too many awkward moments in between and she might leave just to escape the total awkwardness. And about the whole flirting thing... if your new at it... Don't over due it. It coudl really scare her and make you think your inexperienced. Just play it cool and smile every once in a while when she's talking. Listen, be polite and don't stare at her boobs. Ahaha good luck! Hope it helped...
Reply:don't go straight to flirting if you don't know her! save that for a date or at a party. just let loose, and talk to her like you would anyone else, except pay her more attention and as time goes on compliment her a little more and more. girls don't like shy guys because that shows lack of confidence. if you do it once, you won't ever have a problem. one win gives you the confidence to do it again and again, etc. just don't think about getting laid like most guys do. get to know a girl and listen to her. the conversational ability will increase over time. trust me on this.





once you do want to flirt, ask her things she likes from a guy, and just compliment her. a little touching isn't too bad either, but don't over do it.