He is probably the biggest flirt ive ever seen....?

i like this guy, matt who is a year older than me. i dnt kno if he likes me because its like one day hes SUCH a flirt and the next days its like w/e. i like how he acts with me %26amp; always makes me feel soo special %26amp; he walks me to a bunch of my classes. we had 5th period together %26amp; he sat behind me. id always wear his jacket %26amp; 1 time he was walking behind my desk and stopped right behind me put his hands on my shoulders started massaging me and said "anna i love you" i was like "awww i love you too" and that same day he was like "hey lets pretend 2 be boyfirend %26amp; girlfriend" and we were holding hands and it was the best feeling ever. then on the last day of school he came %26amp; hugged me and i was so happy. but sometimes he ignores me and pays attention to other people and acts like im not there. i cant get him out of my head! hes soooo cute and funny and nice and flirty but its like he flirts with everyyyybody so i dnt know if im special or just some other girl he flirts with. help!

He is probably the biggest flirt ive ever seen....?
I'll let you in on a little secret: big flirts who flirt with everyone are nothing but players. And it's not like you don't know it because they flirt with everyone under the sun. Bet he doesn't have a girlfriend, does he? And do you know why he would rather flirt than have a girlfriend? I'll tell you why: because he either doesn't want to be tied down in a relationship or he just doesn't want to deal with all the stress and drama that a lot of girls bring to a relationship.





There's one thing you can be sure of: he does want all the fuzzy feelings that come along with being in a relationship. "Lets pretend to be boyfriend and girlfriend" while he holds your hand and snuggles all close. And at the end of all that, he goes his way and you go yours. No drama, no hurt feelings, no commitment, no problems. Thing is there are some crushed feelings. I mean, look at you: you care about him more than you're telling him and he's content with flirting than actually being in a relationship with you.





Let me clue you in on something else, Anna my dear: you deserve much better than some guy who only wants to use you for some fuzzy feelings for all of thirty minutes. If you're really interested in him, why don't you just tell him so. It will be hard to bear your soul, but the way he retaliates determines the kind of guy that he is. And I'm telling you now, if he's more content with just flirting than being in a relationship with you, or he avoids you like the plauge, then dude just isn't worth your time.
Reply:I tried. lol You'll always be a top contributor to me, too. And you're right, this advice is easier said that done. But, most matters of the heart are. lol Keep asking those questions, though!!!!! Report It

Reply:maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him how youfeel
Reply:sounds like he thinks your pretty special too, dont worry so much about himn giving other people attention too
Reply:And you like him because??? All of the lovey dovey stuff sounds great and I know that you felt soooo special, but at the end of the day he's not really a guy who is available. Real guys don't play boyfriend/girlfriend, so if you're not his girl in the real world, then you're just some girl he flirts with. Giant flirts are just people who are too insecure or afraid to have relationships so they go around pretending to be something that they are not. Reeling girls in with their charm and sweetness, getting you all wrapped up in liking him, only to crush your heart in the end.





You're a great girl, why are you wasting your time on someone who flirts with the entire school? This summer get out of the house and find a guy who will make you feel really special because you are really special to him.
Reply:The ""hey lets pretend 2 be boyfirend %26amp; girlfriend" thing suggests he was trying you out for girlfriend material which may be promising.





But to me he looks like a big flirt and you should go out with someone else. Then you'll see how he really feels about you.
Reply:I think he is entitled to talk to other people besides you, I mean you talk to other people besides him right. I think he likes you, there is no question about that, since that is the case you are special to him, but he may just be a social person, and likes to talk to people. And flirting and conversing are two different things. I would just back off a little bit and realize he is just conversing. I can tell you from experience that being jealous and acting weird around him will turn him off to you. If you play it cool and let him be him, he will love you for it. Hope this helps.





-Ty
Reply:Why don't you ask him? It sounds like maybe you're just getting jealous that his attention isn't on you all the time so it seems like he's flirting with other people...





Or.. he really is a huge flirt...





Best thing to do is just ask him how he felt about you because you don't want to think there was something going on when there isn't. Just tell him, "I think you're really cool, but I need to know if you're just having fun flirting with me or are you really into me? I don't want to get caught up in some fantasy and get my feelings hurt."

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