Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Is it bad to flirt?

I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend for 16 months and I love him soo much, I wouldn't change him for the world. I still like to flirt with friends or co workers though. It's only ever flirting, nothing more.





Is this really bad? I think it's just my personality because I don't have any feelings for the people I flirt with.





For those of you who care about this stuff, I'm a Gemini.

Is it bad to flirt?
omg im completley the same, im 19 and been with my bf for 14 months and a bit of harmless flirtation is fine i think. i dont purposely go out to flirt with them, but its just the way i am and always have been lol. even if i dont fancy them, i come across as flirtacious, but never mind its not like im jumping in to bed with them lol x
Reply:Is it flirting, or teasing? If it's not something you'd do / say to them in front of your boyfriend, then you shouldn't be doing it at all. (I have male friends, so I know what you're talking about - and my husband knows them too.)





Bottom line: how would you REALLY feel if you caught your boyfriend doing what you do?
Reply:As long as your boyfriend is secure enough not to mind then I don't see a problem. Just make sure those you flirt with don't get the wrong idea.
Reply:Ok, you said you don't have the feelings for the people you flirt with...but your b/f might...so ask him or see if he minds...it's his feelings you should consider...and if you love him, then you have to respect his feelings and stop flirting........
Reply:Nothing wrong with flirting. Insanely good fun.





Aaaahhh... Geminis - gotta love you. So says the Sagittarius.
Reply:its not bad to flirt but some guys might take it as more....





do not do it in front of your man
Reply:yea, im gemini too, but yea flirting is bad when u got a lover cuz your bf will get jealous, so dont flirt unless u want make ur man jealous and mad
Reply:no it's not bad to flirt, it's who you are, but if you think it's affecting your boyfriend you should go reassure him that you love him and that he is the only one etc etc
Reply:Sign explains alot. You all are very friendly people.


I am pretty sure though that your man wouldn't like. And it is bad because you could be leading someone on. And you don't wanna make the wrong person mad.
Reply:Ermm....maybe you can check dictiontary my friend.The moment a male chat with a female is counted flirt.That is simple and flirting isnt bad provided your boyfriend trust you.However do not go overboard causing misunderstanding to your boyfriend.





You will understand what I mean.Your boyfriend will allow you to do so since everyone know we need freedom to make our own friends,buddy,colleages.





Dont think too much,just be yourself and stay happy. =)
Reply:Well i can understand how it can be your personality and I don't think it is bad to flirt with other people as long as there are no feelings behind it but I would try to stop because someone you might be flirting with may really like you and you may be sending them the wrong message and they could get hurt. I would also try to make it clear that you are in a relationship and that you are not interested in anybody right now except your boyfriend. Hope this helps!!
Reply:hell no im sure he flirts w/ other girls soo ya


I feel really dumb. i dont know what a flirt is and i dont know how to tell if a guy likes me. please answer!?

i know this guy, and hes not really my friend, but hes hot. my friend said everytime he talks to me, he flirts, but ive never noticed it cuz im not really sure what a flirt is. she also says i flirt when i talk to guys, but i dont realize im doing it cuz I DONT KNOW WHAT A FLIRT IS! i dont want to ask my friend because im afraid shell think im an idiot.


cuz this guy flirts with a lot of ppl my friend says, and i dont know if he likes me or not!!





so my question is


WHAT IS A FLIRT AND HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN A GUY LIKES YOU?

I feel really dumb. i dont know what a flirt is and i dont know how to tell if a guy likes me. please answer!?
A flirt is a way to engage a person in an informal way that usually leans on playful. Flirting can be sassy or sexual or naughty, etc. If he does it back, it doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you, but it means that he's interested in the banter and that eventually could lead to him liking you.
Reply:Most common flirt is touching, if he touchs you when he talks to you, he is probably trying to flirt with you.


If he call you late at night just to chat, he probably likes you.
Reply:guys flirt in different ways, but i understand your difficulty. If you're like me....it's hard to tell when someone is flirting because you don't intentionally do it yourself. If a guy makes it a point to bump into you here and there or if he keeps eye contact with you longer than is normal....little things like that can be flirting. other guys will touch you when they talk or try to tickle you, rough-house....you know, stupid boy things...like when you're really young and guys hit your or tease you to flirt with you.....they're all different. good luck with that, though....


What is Flirt ?

here is what hapend . there is the girl that is working with me ..so i tryed explain , but she doesn't wonna listen to me , and gets offended, think's it's negative! .. so need your help ...can somebody explane what doesit mean FLIRT.. why do people flirt ..?

What is Flirt ?
to flirt is to court triflingly or act amorously without serious intentions; play at love

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Is he a flirt or serious? How can I tell? Guys are very much appreciated to answer?

I like this guy who was totally flirting with me. He flirts with me a lot when we talk. But I'm not sure if he's just flirting to be a flirt or because he likes me. He knows I like him and he still flirted with me. He even told me(in a flirty way) to give him a hug at the end of the school day(2 of my friends gave him hugs and he was like 'y didnt you give me a hug when your friendz did').





1. How can I tell if he likes me for sure?





2. Guys, how do you act towards a girl you like?

Is he a flirt or serious? How can I tell? Guys are very much appreciated to answer?
see how he is around other girls (observing helped me a lot)





but if he asked you for a hug it seems like he does like you%26lt;3





answer minee: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:i think he likes you but there is a chance hes just a flirt


How do i flirt with girls?

ok, so im 16 %26amp; bi. i really want to be with a girl, but i don't know how to go about it. it sucks because its impossible to know if a girl is gay or straight. i really want to be with a girl though. i don't know how to flirt with girls though and if i do flirt with them..i don't know how to know if they are flirting back. so how do i flirt with girls? %26amp; how do i know if they're flirting back?


also if you're bi %26amp; around my age...e-mail me so we can talk...i wanna talk to some people who understand what im going through...you can go to my profile %26amp; send me an e-mail...kk thanks. :)

How do i flirt with girls?
cluless..
Reply:whatever you do, don't mistake being friendly with flirting.
Reply:I agree that it's hard to know which girls aren't straight. Like some of the others said, don't mistake being friendly with being flirty. You flirt with a girl the same way you flirt with a guy, but if you're not sure about her sexuality, keep it subtle. Instead of going right out and asking her if she's gay or bi, maybe drop subtle hints that you are. I used to wear a rainbow necklace and bracelet so that others could pick up on the fact that I was gay. Of course too, there's always a direct approach where you just come out and say it. Good luck :)
Reply:Flirt with girls the same way you flirt with guys. Does she know you're bi? Not all people your age are 100% sure or comfortable with their orientation yet, so just keep hanging out with her and you'll probably figure it out. If that doesn't work, just be forward with her and ask if she's into girls.
Reply:go to queer clubs... chat with other lesbians and bi girls on myspace and facebook... you will be able to find some in your town/city. You can usually tell when a girl is flirting with you.


Would girls flirt with you even if they don't want to date you?

There's this co-worker of mine who constantly flirts with me; and I think she really likes me.





Problem is, she already has a boyfriend, which makes me confused because now I'm getting her flirtatious behaviour as just friendly with no "more than friends" possibility behind it.





Would girls really flirt alot (always smiles at, sings your name, winks, talks about "hooking up with eachother") even if they don't think of you as more than a friend?

Would girls flirt with you even if they don't want to date you?
^Some women as well as men seem to flirt all the time, it's in their nature and they mean nothing buy it.





The fact she talks about hooking up might be more, be careful, the fact that she has a boyfriend, might mean she just playing with you and she might or might not realize that she is sending mixed signals.





Maybe she's having problems with her boyfriend and looking for another, rebounds very rarely work, and the fact that you work together it can get really sticky, just keep being friends for now. Good luck.
Reply:Yes, it's called being flirty. It's fine when you are single, but when you are in a relationship it is wrong.
Reply:Laughing and smiling is ok. Some people, like myself, are naturally smiley. But winking? and saying "hooking up?" If she really liked you, she wouldn't be winking or saying let's hook up.


Sounds like she's being intentionally flirty and needs attention. But it also signals that maybe not all's right in her relationship either.
Reply:well i flirt with my coworker with the intention of hooking up lol, so no i do not flirt just for "fun" theres a reason behind it..but yess i know a lot of girls i work with especially my friends they all have boyfriends but flirt with other guys like crazyy!! so yea u do have some of those girls out there who do that..it means nothing to them..unfortunately
Reply:Yes, some girls flirt or have a flirtatious behavior without thinking of actually hooking up with the other person. I have found that women who have been sexually abused in their past sometimes (not all of them though!) exert this type of behavior as a defense mechanism. She may be joking around just for the fun of it or she may be serious. Don't actually act on it unless you know she is single.
Reply:Sometimes girls and guy who are in relationships still flirt just to keep in practice and give themselves a confidence boost. Yeah, it's wrong, but doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Bottom line, it's not necessarily true that your co-worker wants to hook up with you.


How to flirt wiv a girl?

in the past i used to flirt wiv any girl i think is hot,i just used to do it in very childish way and people used to excuse me for my young age but now it became so hard for me to flirt wiv girls,i became so nervous and dont want to be rejected...any ideas how to get my confidence back wiv this problem?

How to flirt wiv a girl?
Aw, why are you freaking out?!As a girl who is unsure of whether she is a bisexual or not, a girl flirting with me would make me feel very comfortable and excited at the possibility of a new experience(;. Just relax! You most definitely have a great personality that many people may just be intimidasted by, but that someone with as equallly a great of a personality may fall in love with! give it a shot, just dont be rude or mean and you are set! From a young girl's opinion who is attracted to girls, can you please comment on my questions whicjh regards how a gril may feel about my appearence, and what she may either love or hate. the question is " Okay, here's the question. I am a female. What do ladies like/ dislike aboutmy appearence?"thankyou love and dont be nervous about flirting;; just go for it!
Reply:Ask questions and be interested in her answers. Laugh at any jokes but try to be a little restrained in your manner as very loud and rough behaviour is a turn off. Do not show off. Do not swear. Offer her a drink and talk about your jobs, your lives and what you like to do in your free time. Make eye contact and smile when she speaks. Do not fidget and try to let her finish her sentences before answering or changing the subject. Above all listen to what she is saying! Good luck!

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Do guys like it when girls flirt with them and do...???

Do guys like it when girls flirt with them, and, do married men like it when girls flirt with them?? Also what are the signs guys like it when the girl is/ has been flirting with thm??


info about girls flirting with guys?


thanks...xx

Do guys like it when girls flirt with them and do...???
yeah
Reply:EVERY GUY likes been flirted with- especially taken men- its a sort of ive still got it in me sign. Be carefull tho- u dont wanna be known as a d**k tease!! but flirting is a way of breaking barriers and having fun- just be carefull tho tho as harmless flirting can lead to more- then feelings get hurt.


just check out body language- when im flirted with i laugh alot and flirt back- try and push ya chest out when your talking- and watch eyes wander!!! ha ha.
Reply:I would think most guys like it. Anything to boost their confidence. If they don't make up excuses to get away from you than it's a good sign that they are interested in you or at least that they enjoy talking to you. Do they flirt back?
Reply:Guys like flirty women but married me should be off limits!
Reply:is the pope catholic?
Reply:We love it. We flirt back is how you know we like it. Us married guys like it too - although for obvious reasons we have to be a bit circumspect in our responses.
Reply:all players like it married or not!!!!!!!
Reply:Ya we ove it alot and youll now if i like you cause ill flirt back.
Reply:do u like it wen boys flirt with u?





i think so!
Reply:Of course they do, and if your lucky, you'll raise a smile - but stay away from the married ones - that can only lead to trouble!
Reply:Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Depends on the guy, it might increase their egos or irritate them
Reply:We love it when girls flirt.
Reply:Ok.


1. guys do like it


2. married guy might like it but his wife will get jelous


3. some guys get very shy and tell u 2 get lost there the ones who like it the most


4. Im a guy im used to it XD





hope i answered your question. Good look flurting XD.wise move
Reply:yes guy love when girl flirt with them , and even marrriage men too , because guy are player.
Reply:No, flirting is too much work.
Reply:sometimes i like it when girls flirt with me. but if i was married then no way, i'd think "what the hell is wrong with this girl? can't she see i'm married?"
Reply:You do know that this is an incredibly generalized set of questions, and that therefore you're going to get generalized answers, right?





You make it sound like all guys and girls are the same, that all married men act the same, that there are specific signs that are common amongst all guys.





That's sad.





Whether you're aware of it or not, it actually sounds like you're trying to get laid with as much men as possible.





Your questions simply can't be taken seriously.





Take your "xx" back please. I don't want your disease.
Reply:Guys like to know they are attractive.. What an ego boost!


Many times you can catch it in their eyes and body language


Married men also. Remember their not "out"there anymore.so it is nice to know they still "got it" I don'tthink there is an exception to this. It is part of being accepted and acknowledged
Reply:#1 thing you do when you want to flirt with a guy is look at their finger is there a wedding ring??? if there isnt go up to them start conversation let them know that you were noticing them! Stuff like that. But if you see that they are marrid stay away there is already a girl for them and you arent it i am sorry but thats how life goes and it isnt right to dis reapect the person they are marrid to!
Reply:yes, you can tell by the dribble
Reply:I'm a married guy, and no 'James Bond' so it's a pleasant compliment when girls who don't know I'm married flirt a bit. It's nice to feel like the rest of the world aren't completely oblivious to my presence. However, if I ever think there's any possibility of this girl misunderstanding my response, I always mention the wife within a sentence or two.





It's still nice to have had the extra glance or whatever. I know my wife gets more looks than I do, and she does something similar, I believe.
Reply:Most guys like it when you flirt with them IF they feel attracted to you.


Married ones like it too, but if you have even a little bit of respect towards other relationships you won't, and if he is engaged and he's flirting with you, he's not someone worth flirting with.





Signs they like it:


-Flirts back


-Pupils grow


-He takes more open stance (no crossed legs or arms)


-Smiling (not with the lips tight on each other, this means the opposite).
Reply:Im sure most guys like it when girls flirt with them
Reply:Most guys like it when girls flirt with them. Don't flirt with married men.
Reply:I love it personally.





Different guys will react differently I usually to keep them guessing but just give enough for them to wonder.





At least thats what I try to do... An old Girl mate told me thats the best way to get them interested. Seems she was right.





Yes it makes me feel attractive especially if they are attractive. Whats wrong with that.





I am married my wife loves it too gives us hours of fun and she does it too.


Should I flirt with him?

A guy I had the hots for when I was younger is back. He's very handsome but wasn't into settling down. Well, we were kind of seeing each other, but more like friends. Now that I'm divorced he is back in the scene and wants to flirt. He's also coming clean so to speak. He confessed that while he was sorta seeing me he was seeing other women. He also opened up about more personal things. Seems like he's settling down. He's also turning 40. While he's very handsome, I don't feel the same emotional stuff for him. But he's fun to flirt with, I guess. Should I let things proceed or is he just trying to take me for a ride again?

Should I flirt with him?
hell yah if i had a chance to be reaquantive with someone like that i would definatley let it ride and see where it could lead it isn't going to hurt nothing.maybe your destiny is no coming into play
Reply:How can he take you for a ride if you do not have those feeling so for him anymore? If you are not interested than just tell him so and see if you can remain friends.
Reply:He will only take you for a ride if you let him. He's your toy now. Play with him if you want of or let him turn to dust. Its your call.
Reply:well if all you are doing is flirting, then how can he take you for a ride? Does flirting mean sex in some language I don't know? You are older and wiser, and now know that in the past he was dishonest to you. So go out on a date, but don't allow it to go further, only time will tell if he is a changed man for the better, or still the same, but you don't have to give him your heart and body to find that out.
Reply:Sure. Life is short!


Alright. boys are a flirt? check out my sistuation pleasee.?

so i kinda like this guy. and when we are together it seems like he likes me too. and when we arent he says he misses me like crazy. but i hear that he also tells other girls this. and he rejected like 5 girls last year. and didnt have a girlfriend yet this year. and him and my friend are close. and they always flirt. but she says he flirts different with me. like more caucious. is it because he doesnt know me well enought yet? or he likes me? or hes just a flirt?

Alright. boys are a flirt? check out my sistuation pleasee.?
its funny bc there are certain guys who have no fear and flirt like crazy if they like you, and guys who are secretly insecure and are afraid to flirt bc they dont want to be rejected. he obviously wants you to make a move babe, but i do know how it feels to have a guy flirt with you at different times depending on who is there. it makes you feel like he doesnt like you but then he proves just one more time over and over that he does but will never admit it. you need to let him know that its ok for him to go for it.


and if he doesnt know what your talking about and doesnt like you then thats just one experience that you will learn from. at least you can say that you went for it, bc one year or even 6 months from now it wont matter.


%26lt;3 marge
Reply:you spelled cautious wrong
Reply:he sounds like a playa
Reply:I would say this guy is a D-bag forget about him, hes playing you, as a guy who has tried the John tucker manuever, I would advise you to just ditch this dude.
Reply:he is just a flirt
Reply:This is the most common doubt that teens get..





But friend, y r u bother if he doesnt know u enough yet or he likes u or he is just a flirt!!!??





Just be you, if he really likes you he will come to you., but i dont think the guy who dumped 5 girls in a year will keep u for more than an.. at most a year! r u ready to go with this guy!?





Just think seriously


Do you flirt with certain people here or are you just a flirt all the time?

me i only flirt with certain people.

Do you flirt with certain people here or are you just a flirt all the time?
um..its kinda of hard to flirt on the internet lol..but hey maybe this works...How ya doing hot stuff?
Reply:I usually only flirt with certain people that I have become comfortable with on YQ%26amp;A, but I have a flirty personality most of the time!
Reply:I'm pretty much a flirt everywhere..
Reply:I've been flirted with once....didn't think I could do much flirting on here....weird, as I'm a natural flirt!





*wink*
Reply:I only flirt with certain people.
Reply:I'm Just a flirt all the time%26lt;3
Reply:Yeah I think she flirts with certain one's as well as u. lol.
Reply:Well I'm pretty sure I would flert with you.
Reply:well, I am certainly not going to flirt with an ugly cow. I am good looking so I flirt with good looking, sexy women...or more so, they flirt with me.
Reply:I flirt all the time, it's fun!
Reply:certain people i like..just to be playful
Reply:I love to flirt. It makes me feel sexy, and I'd like to think it makes the people I'm flirting with feel the same way.


Awesome pic by the way.
Reply:Only with you babe - and thanks for the ten points, the boat leaves Sydney next Saturday - can you make it?
Reply:I'm a hoe anytime anywhere I admit it!
Reply:All the time, but never touch(.)(.)!!
Reply:Until I met my fiance I would flirt with anyone, now I guess I flirt without even knowing that I am flirting, I try not to flirt because I don't want to upset my fiance, I have a very out going personality and I guess it can be confused with flirting, because that is the last thing I want to do is flirt with someone on purpose and give them the wrong message.
Reply:yes. I flirt with certain people all the time. ;-)





although I crack wise with everyone...
Reply:Nah, I'm just am a nice guy ,don't do much flirting but she do like to put a smile on someones face..
Reply:Yes I doi
Reply:i flirt all the time.
Reply:That's really none of your business nor should one want to flaunt that about one's self.
Reply:I tend to flirt alot...but I'm starting to narrow it down some :)
Reply:niether
Reply:I flirt with certain people
Reply:I don't even know anyone here so I suppose I don't flirt with anyone.


I'm probably older than most of you anyway.
Reply:i don't flirt with anyone. that's my story and i'm sticking to it.
Reply:i flirt wit ppl dat r hot~!!!!!! (bois)
Reply:I never flirt with people on Yahoo.
Reply:I only flirt with certain people, like Kialjfdo, Juebie, whatever, and DBM, and JudasRabbi, and Dato and War sucks, and , ohfuck, private correspondence.
Reply:only certain people
Reply:I flirt with people I like. not just anyone.

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How to Flirt?????????

Well...This is maybe weird,but this is my homework...I am a student an we are doing one project..


My professor find funny topics..I like this topic the most,but i do not know anything about this...I am very bad with the flirting..So tell me me,how to flirt??

How to Flirt?????????
okay, You go near the boy you like and say hey and touch his arm





%26lt;3 G 'luck
Reply:no professor would tell girls to go flirt





lol we are not stupid








but if you want to know how to flirt, then talk to them seductively like mention sex ever now and then, act like you want to f@ck the man.





thats filrting
Reply:Well in your introduction you could include the phrase "It takes two to flirt"--It doesn't neccessarily but then again it kinda does. Flirting is just complimenting another person, or teasing another person. It is totally wacky in all common sense, but it mainly involves a lot of laughing or smiling.
Reply:I think teacher is a child molester. You should call the cops.
Reply:its your homeword or you using it as a disguise to know how to flirt?
Reply:hahahaha


there's no manual


its just out of instinct


there's not a script that says


'after he says this, you giggly then flip hair.'


its like our second nature.


it one of those things that us females use in our favor


--we do it best.


How to flirt with guys?

i need serious help with flirting with a guy!! i mean i flirt but only when i feel like to !!! im 12 n need help any ideas?

How to flirt with guys?
yes, i agree, you are a bit young. if your asking for help on flirting with boys and your uncomfortable. then i think there is a reason you uncomfortable. your to young.


i hate when people say that to me but...its what i think....
Reply:Hun you're too young to be flirting with horny boys, you're only asking for trouble:)
Reply:give him the sexy eyes... always works.. look at a guy u think is cute and kinda smile and look away he's gonna wanna know more about you and might stop to talk to you
Reply:Smile a lot. Be friendly. Just listen to their every word, and care about the topic.


It's really easy if you can just BE yourself.
Reply:dress like a slut
Reply:play with his hair or pull his ear.
Reply:WELL JUST GO UP TO HIM AND JUST START TALKING TO HIM AND MAKE HIM LAUGH JUST TRY TO DO DAT EVERY DAY


How to flirt to get guys interested???

I need some tips on how to flirt please help!!! What catches a guys interest tastefully??? What are som specific flirting techniques???

How to flirt to get guys interested???
How to flirt w/ a guy you like:





1) Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.


2) Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.


3) Play with your hair or clothing.


4) Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.


5) Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.


Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.


6) Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.


7) Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. Don't pretend to be a sports type when you're really a poet.


8) Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)


9) Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname, so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too!


10) End it by saying "I have to go but maybe I'll see you around soon." or something else you feel comfortable with. The point is make it clear that you're leaving, but if he's interested, he's welcome to pursue you...if you're feeling bold, you can give him your number, or even get his.


.....best of luck, and I'm sure you'll get guys to be interested in you!


-Alinn
Reply:Anything lowcut where at least you get a hint of cleavage. Talk to him with your head tilted to the side a bit and give him "the eyes". Laugh at his retarded jokes. That usually does it.





Or get him drunk.


Girls who flirt with millions of guys?

It really annoys me how other girls can just flirt with a million guys and play with their feelings. Like, it's really sad. I'm not jealous (I already have a boyfriend). But it makes me wanna hate the person for some reason then the other part of me doesn't. How can you not notice your not flirting? And if you do notice, why the hell you keep doing it?

Girls who flirt with millions of guys?
They keep on doing that because it's interesting!!! (I know) Try it...
Reply:I hate them too they just keep flirting and flirting and they pick the "hottest" guy and when the others ask them out they're "sorry I'm taken ;]" it totally leaves the guys thinking "wtf she was totally flirting though..."
Reply:well, some girls are just really friendly

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How to flirt?! please help!!?

I'm a really shy girl and have a friend who is always complainning about how all these guys like her and flirt with her... its kinda old but i want to know her secret! but she tells me she doesn't know what i am talking about!!


HOw Do I Flirt and NOT get really nervous!?! Please, i am a senior in highschool and i want to go on some dates!


Thanks!

How to flirt?! please help!!?
Smile a lot, touch the guys arm every once in awhile. Don't let the flirting be too obvious. PLay hard to get, some guys like to do the chasing. Ask him to hang out with you one weekend.
Reply:Try to find a way to intrest him in you. You shouldnt try to do things that make you appear like a slut. Just stay clam while your with him and treat him diffrent from how you treat others.


Dont completely forget about your other friends so you dont stifle your relatioship with them.
Reply:uhmm get a life get off the internet for stupid flirting things
Reply:wink your eye while you talk
Reply:just smile when you look at each other and keep looking off and on at him each you do smile that is worth lot of words a lone
Reply:Go to barnes and noble or any bookstore, and pick up a "how to flirt" book in the self help section, there are hundreds


How to flirt???

Okay..this is going to sound a little dumb..but I don't really know how to flirt or stop being shy around guys.....so I wanna know how to flirt and just be cool and relaxed when around guys. I'm 16.....and I have never had a actual boyfriend......although I want one. So if anyone has some tips on helping me be more guy friendly that would be great. I don't what what else to do and I do not get much attention from guys and when I do I act shy and not interested even though I really am very much interested.......PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!

How to flirt???
start hanging out with more guys. i used to be like you, but then i went to a party and i hung out with guys and i got alot more confident. as for flirting, you no how to when you get around a guy u like and have the confidence to talk to him!





hope i helped!!!!











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Reply:jus work with wat u hav and it should work
Reply:Oh My Gosh!! I have the same problem!!! It's like whenever I am around a really hot guy I start acting like someone else... lol!!! I try to get to know them a bit first and when I go around them I'll go with a friend until I get used to them and that usually helps me.
Reply:i cant really help but im 12 and had lots of gfs
Reply:okay...i'm 18 and i HAVE ACTUALLY BEEN IN YOUR SHOES BEFORE.....you need to just be yourself, but make em' work for you at the same time....

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How to flirt with her??

I've know this girl for a while and I'm starting to get feelings for her I was wondering what can i do to flirt with her as in what should I say to her so she knows I'm flirting with her. And if I do this what would be a reply from her to know that shes not freaked out by it

How to flirt with her??
This is just me but~ I personaly have always loved when a guy says something unexpected about me. One guy once told me 'thats the same pair of shoes you wore when i first met you'. Honestly I never forgot that lol. Compliments about her natural beauty are sure to make her blush!





You don't have to be touchy feely to flirt. The way to a girls heart is thru words. But like I said thats just me, she on the other hand might like to be touched. So if you go that route give this a try~ playfully take her wrist and measure your hands together, like to see who's fingers are longer. And when you do this, look right at her and smile a little, a little!!





This should make her blush. If she pulls her hand away and smiles while not making eye contact, then you've succeded! However if she rolls her eyes, raises an eyebrow, or brushes the entire thing off like no big deal then she isnt down with the idea.
Reply:be funny; touch her arm; look her in the eye; pay more attention to her than your other girl- friends


My girlfriend is the worlds biggest flirt!?

My girlfriend will not stop flirting with other guys constantly. At work she is always working side by side with a male coworker, she flirts with all my friends. and she lies about text messages and convos with them.. I am not a jealous person. but i feel that she is blatantly flirting with these guys! And what makes matters worse is that she thinks i flirt with everyone (girls) too. So if i say something its like an hour long fight that gets no where. but i've had convos with my friends as well as her friends and they all seem to think that she is way more over the top. And just to add my paranoia, she cheated on an ex several times before me and her actually started dating!! please help!

My girlfriend is the worlds biggest flirt!?
(This is not a healthy relationship so find a new girl)





To start off, ask her friends to hang out with her more. At work, call her and say you love her. Take her to dinner and sweet talk to her. If her parents know that you are dating her, they will help you.


Is it wrong to flirt with girls you won't date, AT ALL!?

I had to clear that question up. I flirt because I like to make people laugh and when I'm flirting with girls they giggle and blush, I like that! I flirt with about 6 different girls but I won't date them(don't say tell'em that takes the joy out of it). I'm not a "playa" because I'm not leading them on, is it wrong?

Is it wrong to flirt with girls you won't date, AT ALL!?
I flirt with girls I wouldn't date all the time. It's good for the self-esteem to get a positive reaction out of them. They probably have no intention of dating you either, but flirting and reciprocating makes people feel attractive, and sometimes that's all people need.
Reply:If your just telling jokes, no, but if you get handsy then yes, its not black and white in this matter, there are shades of grey
Reply:nope it is not wrong i do it all the time lol
Reply:Well, yes and no. It's wrong if they think you're actually interested. But if you're just flirting to flirt because it's fun, and you both know nothing's going to happen then it's fine. I flirt with guys I'd never date, but I make sure they understand I'm not really interested.
Reply:The way I see (and practice) it is that there are two types of flirting: mutual, and friendly. Mutual flirting is when you both go at it, in large or small crowds, basically gettign as much attention from each other as possible. Friendly, however, is just doing it to, as you said, make them laugh. Just don't get too intimate, but if you're like that with a lot of girls, there shouldn't be too much trouble because they should understand.
Reply:primary reason girls don't like flirts. never know what you are up to. Do you ever get laid is my question.
Reply:well in a way its wrong because maybe the girl really likes u and ur jus messin w/ her head.....well i kno how u feel and i kno how the girl may feel because i love to flirt but it doesnt mean im a Wh0re so as long as u dont play the girl out
Reply:NOPE! There is nothing wrong in flirting. Flirting is what makes life fun!!
Reply:If you're asking this question, maybe you think it is wrong and you're looking for justification to clear your conscience. I'm a flirt, but I don't take it far enough to leading one to believe they have a shot. I'm a sports girl anyway, so I have a lot of guy acquaintences, only natural to joke and flirt I guess.
Reply:yes and no...it dependss on the girl ...if she's he type who takes things seriously its best u don't flirt cuz it'll cause some misunderstandings...other than dat i think its fine...
Reply:it all depends on the degree or to the extent that you are flirting with them. don't give them false hope but it's ok to talk and make them smile just don't go overboard. why is it that you won't date them? that might be a contributing factor as to why you are questioning if it is wrong.
Reply:no. flirting is fun and silly. nothing has to come out of it. but just watch yourself you can break a lot of hearts that way. and i know this because they all come on to yahoo answers and posts things like " he flirts with me all the time, does he like me?" and what not, so just make sure its only friend flirting.
Reply:YES IT'S WRONG TO FLIRT WITH GIRLS YOU WON'T DATE BECAUSE GIRLS MIGHT GET THERE HOPES UP AN THE FINDS OUT THAT YOU DO NOT WANT HER SO IT IS WRONG STOP DOING IT.
Reply:why bother unless u getting laid in the end
Reply:kidding around and having fun is one thing, don't lead them on making them think you're interested in them when you're not, thats wrong.


Why do married men flirt?

I go to karaoke every Thursday. One of the bartenders at the bar is really cute and I'm a natural flirt. Only catch is he's married. Nothing would ever happen due to that, but he's been flirting a lot more lately. He even sings for me and wants me to sing.


i know that married men are no no's but I can't help but think about him. Why do married men flirt and why do we respond?


Any ideas?

Why do married men flirt?
Baby, hes just trying to make money first, and if you happen to like him, then your just a victim of his charm.





Now if you like him, and he likes you, then maybe you guys can have an affair, but the first thing hes thinkin about is his making his money, the second is getting home to his wife and the 3rd is he may eventually sleep with someone like you
Reply:It's pretty simple. The concept of marriage goes against natural animal insticts. Humans are animals, and it is difficult for us to find and stay with one person our entire lives. It goes against our nature, but we do it anyways. That's why the divorce rate in this country is 50%
Reply:just because your married doesn't mean that the deal is sealed. many do believe that. i think it's wrong all around. in case, if he's an old guy it might make him feel young again. why do married women flirt (and quite openly i might add)? same reason...
Reply:some people who are married have been married for a long time.





maybe 5-10 years.





and when they get married they don't really listen to there vowels and the responsibility of being married.





some guys just can't stand the thought of being tied down.





and some guys need more excitment in there sex life that there wifes won't give them so they look otherwise to get it.





there could be many other reasons of why these guys cheat i don't really know why but that's what i've concluded.





love,


stef
Reply:Some people are just naturally flirty -- male or female, single or married -- even if they have no intention of "following through". Flirting is fun, and for the most part, harmless. The fact that this fellow is a bartender probably figures in the equation -- when you make someone feel good about themselves (by flirting with them), you tend to get bigger tips...
Reply:I'm sure this won't sound politically correct to many of you and that I'm gonna get a lot of thumb-downs but the truth has to be said; men ARE like that. It's in their genes.


Sorry guys but women have to know about it!
Reply:the attraction is wanting something you can't have,but in most cases they end up haveing and not wanting. do ya understand what i'm saying?
Reply:it is simple "Dont kick over the beehive if you want to gather honey" this is true in every relationship between humans, same is true with cpls, the females takes the males for granted and order them around or get more busy with the kids thinking that the house work and kids are more important in this the male feels not wanted and so to feel wanted he flirts and looks around so that he can have the feeling of security that he is wanted

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Should i flirt w/ the guy i like even tho he has a gf???

i want to let him no i still like him but he does have a gf soo would it be wronge to flirt w/ him when i see him even tho he does flirt w/ me all the time?

Should i flirt w/ the guy i like even tho he has a gf???
Nothing wrong with flirting. But I know you want more than just to flirt. You want his sausage huh? You little devil you =)
Reply:No its not good to flirt with him he has a girlffriend but if you say he flirt with you then he might just like you.Just think if you was in his girlfriend shoes and he was flirting with another girl how would you feel???I say just wait untill his singel.
Reply:boys are like that but girls are not! you are going to make his gf hate you. do you want the boy to know and the gf to hate you? or


do you want no one to know and the boy still flirting with you and the gf friendly with you????
Reply:well.... no i mean really would you like it if some girls were flirting with your bf? well i wouldn't and i mean t's okay if you've done it cuz everyone does but how would you feel in the gf's shoes?
Reply:ONLY IF YOU LIKE DRAMA AND TROUBLE. PLAY IT KOOOOL, N SEE WHAT HAPPENS? THEN AGIN IF YOU DONT MIND BEING HIS SIDE CHICK N PLAY IT LIKE THAT. WHAT EVER YOU DUE DUE NOT GIVE YOUR CONTROL OF SELF AWAY TO HIM UNLESS YOU LIKE TO BE TRATED LIKE A KILNGON HOE.
Reply:i've always said there is nothing wrong with flirting..


but he's got a gf so you can't have him right now.. (at least)





so as long as the flirting is harmless.. and you don't do it right in front of this chicks face.. nothing bad should come of it
Reply:no i don't think it would be a good thing..if you had a good boyfriend would you wnat the same thing to happen to you..would you like it if some girl did that to you..he not your boyfriend any more..so push on and give it up..the past was the past let him have his time and if anything happen they break up then go after him
Reply:it depends on alot, age how long in relationships,(other people involved?)if you send out a respectfull (!!!!) inquire and he responds why not!
Reply:Sure why not
Reply:well... if you just like him and not love him, then don't. what if someday when you already have a boyfriend then some girl is flirting him? how bad would you feel about that? so please, don't. be a good girl, ok? there are a lot of boys and i'm sure out of those boys, one is patiently waiting for you...
Reply:I say, harmless flirting is healthy. It gives a boost to everyone's ego. Go ahead if you feel right about it.
Reply:No it is not wrong. You can flirt with him and try your best to wrench him from her. 'All is fair in love and war'. But you must win. Don't have a guilty conscience, you are only strutting your stuff, if he falls, is it your fault ? And the rule in this world is 'someone's loss is your gain', all can't gain. There is only one boy.


Why do boys always flirt with me?

Everytime I meet a guy he's always trying to pull some corney jokes to make me laugh or asks me random questions to make small talk and stuff!! I just wanna be friends and i hate it when guys flirt with me! Maybe I just can't tell the difference between nice and flirtatious,idk? idk what it is but i dont want to think of getting a boyfriend right now..i just like being friends, but I'm tired of all this flirting. Even if some of my friends are with me they talk to my friends normally then if I say something all of a sudden a twinkle in their eye comes on and that flirtatious mode is on. I found a way to avoid it though..don't look at guys straight in the eye or laugh at their corney jokes (evn though it's hard!lol) because they'll think they're on a roll and keep going..but still can someone answer my question "WHY DO THEY ALWAYS FLIRT WITH ME?!?"

Why do boys always flirt with me?
Probably like your personality, and since you're being natural, they like you even more. It might also be because you may be attractive to them.
Reply:Maybe they flirt with you cuz' you're pretty or something! They like your looks! Tell boys straight up that you want to just be friends! Like if you are talking with your friends to a boy tell them "hey I'm looking for a guy but just as a friend to hang with!" Maybe they'll react differnt! Hope I could help!
Reply:you probably flirt without knowing or you are provocative, or maybe you hang on guys or they think you are easy. who knows!
Reply:they think your pretty and can impress their guy friends and/or make other girls jealous
Reply:Sounds like you are able to relax and have fun, and that's why guys like you. You sound like you are being yourself. If you have them ask you out directly, you are going to tell them you are not interested, but unless they actually speak up, just continue being yourself. Way to go! Most people have the opposite problem; they don't know how to relax and be themselves...Good luck!
Reply:uh maybe they like you
Reply:may be because they like u for ur personality and they want to try and ask u out


or


u just look too sexy as in s luty looking
Reply:ur prolly hot...really hot if EVERY guy u meet flirts wit u


Why girl flirt ?

does girls flirt with other guys to make a guy( she may have crush or she may hate him) jealious in front of him..


when she flirt more when he like the guy or when he hate the guy...

Why girl flirt ?
This only occurs when he has shown interest in her. She is showing it back..the mirror effect.
Reply:girls are diabolical, girls r well down right unbelievable when it comes 2 being them u c its been like this since the dawn of time girls will make guys jealous by any means possible, i knw its happened to me and ive been the guy getting some 2 make the guy jealous so girls will flirt for both i would think, depends on the situation if she just got off a relationship and it ended on a sour note and she starts hitting on u especially when he is around be prepared brother ur being used


Is it Ok to flirt while in a relationship?

I think its one thing to flirt, but another to make it SO in your face... I think its disrespectful, rude and unfair to the other person and the relationship in your life to be so overtly sexual, passionate or affectionate while being involved in an emotional relationship with someone else. Everyone knows when they are being innocent and when they are being Intentional..., but people lookiing in from the outside do not have the insight into another persons feelings and it can be looked at and construded as Intentional when it is innocent.... Only the person doing the flirting knows for sure in what way and why they are flirting, and its up to that person to be true to themselves and other people close to them in their lives INCLUDING the person they are fllirting with to make it clear. Friends I think will be flirtatious and kid %26amp; joke around with one another, but its a delicate balance between being subtle and being overtly rude and disrespectful, also even if it is harmless fun,

Is it Ok to flirt while in a relationship?
Paragraphs are you friend seriously. I couldn't be bothered to read it all because the lack them. I will say this however.





Every relationship has its own rules depending on whom you are with. You have only 2 choices. You can either say 1. I am whom i am and I'm a flirt, no man/woman or relationship will change that. Or 2. I will respect what my SO feels about it and follow what is ok in THIS relationship.





Relationships in the second category last the longest. The people in the first category are single a lot or jump between a lot of relationships.





Communicating what is OK in a relationship is a must. Respect each others boundaries and all will be well. Some don't mind flirting some do. Nothing is set in stone that applies to all people
Reply:oh yea theres nothign wrong about it, im sure your girlfriend flirts a lot too.
Reply:No
Reply:Seems to me that you answered your own question.
Reply:Flirting is fine as long as





A) the person youre with doesnt know, and


B) you dont end up kissing or sleeping with the person you're flirting with.
Reply:flirting is okay when ever where ever, its you having harmless fun
Reply:I agree 100%. Really, the only person who views it as unintentional is the person doing the flirting, cuz even the boyfriend/girlfriend would not be okay with the flirting and would on the side wonder why this person is doing it at all. I just don't think it's necessary to flirt, but I guess that's where the true test is. If I'm in a relationship I'm not gonna flirt with anyone because in my mind I'm with the only person I want to flirt with that's why I got him. I admit in the past I have flirted with my gay male friends, even in front of a guy I actually like, but it was more loving in a friendship way above anything else.





I don't flirt with anyone anymore because I'm about finding the real deal. It's that simple for me.
Reply:Couldn't agree more.

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What is flirting? and how can i flirt with a girl?

i know this may sound stupid but i SERIOUSLY don't know how to flirt...T.T

What is flirting? and how can i flirt with a girl?
be super nice and ask her for a hug and stuff and compliment her
Reply:Flirting is like giving subtle clues that you like a person. Anyone can flirt, girls, guys, singles, even people who are going out flirt with each other. As for how to do it, I'm sure there are plenty of websites online that give you lots of ideas and pick up lines. However, being a girl (14) that has gone through some of that I can tell you that most of it is cheesy crap. My advice is to just go with the flow of the situation and if you really like a girl it will come naturally.
Reply:Flirting is a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest in the other person. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact.








Eye contact, batting eyelashes, etc.


"Protean" signals, such as touching one's hair


Casual touches; such as a woman gently touching a man's arm during conversation


Smiling suggestively


Winking


Sending notes, poems, or small gifts


Flattery


Online chat, is a common modern tactic as well as other one-on-one and direct messaging services


Footsie, the "feet under the table" practice


Teasing


Consistent meeting
Reply:Look everyone knows how to flirt so don't say that.You can flirt by giving comments like this "i like your hair it looks nice today i have a friend that would need some help with a make over from you" you can comment a lady about her lips,figure,style and hair some ladies will be please while some will be aggressive but i guess you won't know until you try.
Reply:Have fun with the girl. If she says something you can spin into a joke that makes her feel good then do it. If you have a chance to compliment her, sincerely, do it.


You can also be more forward and try some stuff like using metaphors and items as props to help you say you're interested in her.


Oh yeah, you have to take it seriously. flirting is not something you do one night and then have mastered. it took me years of practice before I got comfortable enough to find the type of flirting that I can make work. {Debonnaire suaveness: Perfect Examples: Jimmy Stewart and Frank Sinatra}


How to flirt?

How do you get a girl to know u like her without you telling her?%26gt; i hurd girls can sense when you like them or not. so how can i deliver the msg that i like her, without me telling her?%26gt; flirt?%26gt; but how to flirt?

How to flirt?
Its true, girls CAN sense when you like them. theres only one trick to letting her know, BE OBVIOUS. we girls do the same thing. basically, you just do little things for her that let her know. (ex. always find excuses to talk to her, have a signature movement everytime you see her [poking her, tickling her, tugging on her hair, GENTLY], and just smiling and keeping eye contact) Of course there is a shortcut, tell your friend that knows her friend, he'll tell her friend, and obviously, she'll tell her! this works really well but is really hard to pull off depending on her personality because girls like hearing it for themselves, not passed down from person to person. also, if all else fails, smile at her ONCE whenever you see her, and kind of ignore her for the rest of the day. this will create interest and she will pursue you because she likes guys chasing her and shes wondering why you stopped. Hope this helps you get your girl, Good luck!
Reply:Smile at her, look into her eyes, show off you're arms, slight touch on her back if you know her (Not a creepy touch) show interest, be sweet, care, listen, so something special, most of all be you're self.








Man well I don't know but they know something. I was in a restaurant and the hostess real attractive any wayz I was checking her out and she had no idea and their was no way she would have known, then all of a sudden real fast she turned her head and caught me. idk it is like they got a 3rd sense or something.
Reply:Smile every time you look at her =) Be as sweet as you can to her. Talk to her, about nice things. NO SNOT OR BUGS OR WHATEVER YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT. Poke her once, and smile. See what she does. Look at her 24/7, if she catches you dont look away. Have a moment in wooowooo land. Stroke your hands through your hair when she is looking. Stretching is cute. You might wanna try putting your arm on her.No sweat
Reply:Just talk to her as much as you can try to make her laugh but don't try too much and just be really sweet to her
Reply:Make alot of eye contact , try to talk to her some, talk to some of her friends and get some info about her.Hope i Could Help!:)
Reply:smile is the best arm to defeat anybody
Reply:Just tell her! It will probably make her day!
Reply:Read some useful flirting tips and more on this site to help you with it


How to flirt?

i have this friend.


i think he likes me.


i sure know i like him!


our first time we hung out there was deff chemistry!


but now on our phone convos we never flirt really. no sex jokes even!








so how do i flirt liek that with him?


what shud i say?

How to flirt?
look him in the eyes and talk about anything
Reply:How old are you???


Act all cute and have fun
Reply:Well start off by saying the little things like I'm lonely, i have no one to cuddle with, or either things that get you to towards another date.
Reply:first get to know'im more and then jus play with words
Reply:Tell him the truth. Okay, don't be so blunt about it. Definitely laugh with him and keep up a conversation. Eventually you'll get into the comfort zone of the conversation and start bringing up weird, somewhat sexual things. Again, don't be so obvious, but make sure he feels comfortable talking about stuff with you. You could disarm him and ask him stuff like, "So how many girls have you dated?" or "When are we going out again?" Y'know, just stuff to imply that you like him, but be playful, otherwise he may react weird, freak out, hang up the phone, and swear off girls until he's ready. When in doubt, get closer and closer to telling him how you feel - after all, if you can't be truthful with the person you want to be with, who CAN you be truthful with? Good luck!
Reply:Just be yourself. Don't try to hard and talk to him like you would any other friend. Leave the flirting for when you go out in person. You can then turn on the charm and he will melt in your hands.
Reply:just chat with him like about anything u could. u know if ur on a date just like order an extra large drink and like drink out of the same thing with 2 straws. try to dress up casual. guys like me like mininskirts so try it on put a tight fitting belly shirt on top
Reply:hey you should say to him like... "OK listen i really like you and i have been trying to keep it a secret but it is now really hard to keep, just please tell me that you like me and if not then lets be REALLY good friends"... ( don't get under presser ) just be your self.





OK how you flirt is you just look at him all the time and like turn red so he will get a little feeling that you like him so maybe he would ask you out.
Reply:Your cute...





Good luck Sweety ;)





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2 Points!
Reply:first of all how old are you? second of all you need to learn how to spell. and lastly if you are older than 18 then you know how to flirt.
Reply:You seem too young to be flirting, by the way you spell. When you are ready to flirt you will.
Reply:Ha-ha. I had this similar situation happen to me a while back. I liked him and I got small signs that he was interested too. We'd chat online till all hours of the night. Call each other when we were out late partying with friends. We even hung out a few times with total chemistry. he has even invited me to hang with his friends. They all even started asking him and I (seperatly) if we were dating or if we had ever dated. It was a weird situation cuz we would flirt but it was that super sarcastic flirting way. (we are both sarcastic). also, from the moment I realized I liked him, I told him. Great thing about this guy was that it didn't go to his head. I simply said, "I have t tell you that I have a major crush on you" it didn't even phase him, he gigled and said, it's just a crush, you'll get over it and continued along with our conversation as if I never told him. when his friends asked him if we were dating, he would avoid the question. when one of his friends asked him if it was okay that the friend ask me out... he sort of gave this... do whatever you want but I am not giving you permission, kind of answer. anyway, if you want to "flirt' without being scary, try the sarcastic joking approach, key is to plug it in at the right times, that timing... i wouldn't be able to tell you. why not ask him out casually? In the end... if you have to think about it so much, it's probably not the right time. Let it come to you naturally.
Reply:well how old are you first of all? just start getting closer with him and see how he reacts to it


How to flirt with a kid at your school that you kinda like?

Theres this boy at my school and i kinda like him and hes in all of my classes and he like asks me are you a virgin and im like yah and hes like nice. How do i like FLIRT FLIRT with him to find me attractive?

How to flirt with a kid at your school that you kinda like?
smile laugh and ask him out,say like,those pickup lines liike,are u a parking ticket because there is fine written all over you,hold his hand and touch his arm alot

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How do guys (boys) flirt?

how do you flirt with a girl you like and feel comportable around .do you make eye contact,make her laugh,tell her personal stuff like private pains?how do you flirt and how can i tell if a boy is flirting with me?

How do guys (boys) flirt?
Well when boys flirt it is way different from when girls flirt. Guys like to annoy girls instead of being nice to them. They will annoy the crap out of you. But in the end you will probably be able to tell if they like you or not.
Reply:Slip her a roofie.
Reply:ask him


Should I flirt with him or just tell him?

If you think I should flirt with the guy i like, How should i flirt?





If you think I should just tell him i like him, How should I say it?











I don't want short answers! Thanks,

Should I flirt with him or just tell him?
Flirting is like teasing. So, you tease with him, but you shouldn't just tell the guy. I used to like this guy, and basically, flirting is telling him that you like him. I think you should flirt with him, and wait for him to tell you he likes you. Let him do the dirty work, and you do the waiting. It may seem hard, but it's as easy as eating ice-cream! So, I suggest you not to tell him, but flirt. It works, and it's a very usful device.





American Heritage Dictionary - Cite This Source flirt (flûrt) Pronunciation Key


v. flirt·ed, flirt·ing, flirts





v. intr.





To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.


To deal playfully, triflingly, or superficially with: flirt with danger.


To move abruptly or jerkily.





That's the definition of flirting from the dictionary. It's the first one, so it should give you an idea of what flirting is.





I hope I helped you!


Good Luck!


Dann
Reply:Hey.


Good Questioon.Same happened to me.


If you dont know him then you have to become friends and flirt alot just to getr him to know you and know somethingis up.If you know the guy then flirt but not to much because if you know him very well he will deff. think that you are joking.after knowing the guy and doing your thing.spend some alone time.afterwards....you could call hm and ask about his relationships....ask him if he thinks of you more than a friend but tell him you were just wondering because it just popped in your head if he says yes you flat out tell him you liked him too and kind of himt you might still do.if he says no then just say..me niether..


another way is e-mailing.forward a message like one of those ones you see on myspace where its like..."if you like someone alot...but they dont know and you dont know if they like you backk thing then reply to this."


and then again you could just upright telll him.


Make sure he isnt taken though and dont be upset if he doesnt tell you right away or he shrugs it off,just keep asking...and joking alittle.((if he says youre a sister to him,let him know that isnt what you want in a way))
Reply:How you flirt depends on the guy that you like. Smile a lot and look at him a lot if you're in a group. Laugh at his jokes and talk to him a lot. Even if you just want to talk about something casual to get the conversation going, that's fine.





If you want to tell him that you like him, you should know him pretty well first. If you already know him well, go for it! If you don't, flirt with him and get to know him as a friend before you tell him flat out.





Good luck!
Reply:You don't ask you don't get.





Tell the guy, ask him for a drink, to the movies, whatever his and your interests might be.





The worst he can say is no and then at least you will know where you stand immediately, rather than dancing around the issue for weeks or months figuring out how the hell you're supposed to make him notice you and womdering if he's getting your signals.
Reply:Well first of all does he notice you at all, that's the first step,make sure he knows your around. Second flirting with someone you like is ok, it shows them that your interested in them, but it could also give them mixed signals like do you flirt with everyone, and most guys don't want a girl who is a flirt. My suggestion is to just let him know how you feel,being honest is always the best way to start out with someone,also make sure he's available. You can start a conversation with him and flirt alittle at the same time, this way it's directed right at him and not from across the room. Let him know your interested in getting to know him better, and if he would interested in going out sometime. Being straight forward usally gets you the answers that you want, don't be upset if he is involved with someone, just say well when you become available give me a call, and walk away gracefully.And if he's not interested then just move on, there will be other guys.Because sometimes flirting is just that and doesn't lead to anything, but if your straight forward you have a better chance of where you stand.


Should I flirt with him??!!?

I hav a crush on this guy but he is my ex bfs best mate.... and my ex still has feelings for me... my crush and i are flirt and get along pretty well but he said he wouldnt do anything with me if my ex still had feelings for me. Me and my ex are still very close friends is it wrong to flirt with my crush while my ex still likes me more then a friend?? wat should i do? We also hav our ball cumin up this term would it be to mean if i went with my crush?

Should I flirt with him??!!?
Hay stay away from any EXBF's EX or any EX that has to do with anybody you know!!!! You may like them but it only leads to trouble in the end!
Reply:your ex is your ex for a reason and that reason is so that you can both move on and like other people so i think u should do lots of flirting with ur crush
Reply:since you dont like yur ex,


jus flirt with him!


its not like you like him so yea


yur not really doing something wrong if yur flirting with another guy that you like.


it might hurt yur ex but like he should move on since you dont like him.


%26amp;wen yu flirt make sure he doesnt know or see js so that he wont get butthurt!
Reply:hes your ex for a reason...so go ahead and flirt away!


I feel really dumb. i dont know what a flirt is,and i dont know how to tell if a guy likes me? please answer!?

i know this guy, and hes not really my friend, but hes hot. my friend said everytime he talks to me, he flirts, but ive never noticed it cuz im not really sure what a flirt is. she also says i flirt when i talk to guys, but i dont realize im doing it cuz I DONT KNOW WHAT A FLIRT IS! i dont want to ask my friend because im afraid shell think im an idiot.


cuz this guy flirts with a lot of ppl my friend says, and i dont know if he likes me or not!!





so my question is


WHAT IS A FLIRT AND HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN A GUY LIKES YOU?

I feel really dumb. i dont know what a flirt is,and i dont know how to tell if a guy likes me? please answer!?
most people flirt by teasing or looking at you a certain way. just watch to see if he teases you or touches you when its not necessary, then youll know.
Reply:Shouldn't you be in school?
Reply:so lets get this straight, he flirts but you don't know what a flirt is.. ok here goes





a flirt is someone that acts like they don't know what flirting is and hopes that by playing a dumb flirt that acts like they don't know what a flirt is will get them what they want.





it never works. if you can't tell if a guy likes you then he doesn't like you, you like him and are afraid to say anything.

shark teeth

How to flirt with a girl on myspace?

Yea, I want to flirt with this hott girl on myspace( since i cant directly do it at school) shes soo hott that i just cant aproach her normally





i have her added as a friend( did that yesterday) and i havent chatted with her yet.





I dont have a clue of what to say to her, and im afraid of completly messing up. now we're only in High school, so i cant post anything to sexual or she'll think im a creep.





someone help? fast.





oh and if ur gonna say comment on her looks, yea how do i follow up on comments like that. NOT REALLY A GOOD FLIRT YEA KNOW!!!!





help PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PZL PLZ PLZ.

How to flirt with a girl on myspace?
first thing, read her profile, REALLY READ IT, commet something about her profile and let her know u aint just looking at the goodies ;) after complementing open an conversation with a simple question, dont over-do the message short precise message with an open question that could lead to a conversation, does she have anything on her profile that you could comment? reading a myspace profile is the key to getting someone's attention, BY THE WAY, do not use a generic subject she would dismiss it. and dont be too open about urself, have her ask the questions instead of you going on and telling her everything about you.





This is my first answer in yahoo, I hope you find this useful. NOTE: most of the people in myspace will find weird a guy txting them for no apparent reason, so always give a reason as why are u texting other than "i just wanna be friend"


Flirt or Crush???

I know all of you guys hate it when someone asks "does he like me?" well don't get mad at me! but (i'm in 6th grade btw) a 7th grader i met like three years ago seemed as if he was flirting with me. Anyway he . . .


-he put his arm around my neck (i held his hand in a friend type of way)


-called me his "lil mama" and "baby girl"


-smiles alot


-first time he saw me after a year he stared alot at my chest area


-asked me for a ride home


**while we waited his friend asked if i was his girlfriend and when i said no he was suddenly quiet





And i think that's it . . . but i've seen him flirt with sooo many other girls before! and it's not likely that a middle schooler would date someone in elementry(since my school makes 6th part of elementry school)





Sorry but my question is ..Is he just flirting for fun? or does he really like me??


Serious answers please and no comments like you are too young to be thinking about that! i know im real young but im just really curious thnxxxx

Flirt or Crush???
According to what you put in the info box, you should just wait and see what happens.


Pro: His friend asked you if he was his girlfriend, he acts really calm around oyu and he likes to playfully hit you etc.


Con: He flirts with other girls. This is really important...
Reply:he's just being a guy. it's nothing serious. sorry.
Reply:wow yr in 6th grade im in 8th i dont want one srry didnt read the last part yahe likes you and he thinks yr hot oh and i think he wants u 2 be his girlfriend
Reply:He's just flirting.


Because you said he does with every girl.


FLIRT with gay guy (10 POINTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)?

This sounds a bit weird but I do like gay guy. I especially attracted to the way they speak and their cologne. There is a guy that I know and it happens that he is gay but the problem is he is my career advisor at my college. I kinda like him and I want to flirt with him, but I dont really wanna make it sounds weird. Sometimes, we communicate through emails but not too often.





He is gay and hes kinda a feminine too. Sometimes I dress like a butch coz I am tomboy girl. I dont expect a relationship with him, I just wanna have fun and flirting with him. I am 21 yo and I guess he is around 30-ish.





What do you think will be the better way to flirt with him???


Please answer my qz and I will give 10 points for the best answer. many thanks

FLIRT with gay guy (10 POINTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)?
To me it doesnt really sound weird. Well cause the fact that he is gay, Maybe you can just be great friends instead. Or maybe you can try to get him to like girls- what my sis says. And if you do want to flirt maybe you shouldnt now my sis says you should act like a boy but a little pinch additude of a girl. A.K.A.tomboy. Hang out with him more. Then get as close to you as you can. Maybe he wont be gay anymore. Good luck. I wish the best for you.
Reply:its ok to like a gay guy and u can flirt wid him too but u should take care that he doesnt feel hurt.he is gay and u r flirtin so it may look like u r tryin to make fum of him.its not that gay guys dont wanna flirt wid girls,some times they like to flirt wid girls!!!
Reply:well no duh u will give 10pts for best answer u have to, r u a lesbian!!!!!
Reply:ok doesn't matter if he is a gay boy or what else, unless he's too nice and be good for you. just flirt. go out with him do some sexual action, lol =) if he is nice, (gay always like that) he will like you and you guys will have fun!
Reply:tell him how much you like his outfit and hair! :) dont start crushing on a gay guy cuz u aint gonna get him, because he likes men
Reply:i think your mind is messed up ( mixed up ) and no one will hold that against you --- but you have some problems that only you can solve ( and don't go to this "flirting " thing ) as an excuse --- a lot of women see a "gay " man as a "get out bet " for a lot of their troubles --- women are inclined to enrapture themselves around homosexsuality because something in their life is " not quite right " !


correct me if i am wrong --- i am a straight hetrosexsual male --- and proud of it .


good luck .
Reply:Just jump him when he's not expecting it. You could change the whole course of his life.
Reply:Well you most becareful so he don't loss his job, even if your "just flirting" But if your going to be flirty flirt the way you would with anyone else, I am a flirt sometimes and don't even relize it,
Reply:That is the stupidest thing i ever heard
Reply:noooo leave him alone get a young guy and have fun wit him
Reply:Be nice, suspose it were you some guy wanted to make fun of.
Reply:I'd adivse against it, unless the two of you talk it over and come to an agreed upon understanding prior to any flurtations are expressed. I am sure that the last thing you desire to do is hurt another human being's feeling and emotions, no? Thus, get together and seek his permission, agreement, understanding, and thoughts about it.


Have fun.
Reply:He may be bi? why not give it a go??
Reply:some of my guy mates are gay and they hate it when girls flirt with them, so leave him alone and flirt with someone else (preferably straight) or he could get really uncomfortable.
Reply:smile a lot. and try touching him when u get the chance too thts wot i know bout flirting lol and make eye contact
Reply:Girl, girl, girl...gay guys love being FRIENDS with cool girls that know the score. Don't expect anything out of this other than friendship or you are going to make him uncomfortable. Just like you enjoy lunch with your girl friends, etc., that is how gay guys enjoy being with women...like all us girls enjoy being together, they like being included...but if you put moves on them it is going to feel like one of your girl friends put a move on you.
Reply:I don't know about flirting...


but gay guys make good friends!
Reply:Hand him a note. The note says, "Steve, I think that I'd like to get to know you better. I understand that may present some difficulty for you. here's my e-mail address, drop me a note?"
Reply:Sounds like a waste of time to me.
Reply:You cant convert a gay guy to straight move on
Reply:make it so he like chicks, not dudes
Reply:"Flirt" implies a sexual attraction, which you indicate you are not interested in. If you are attracted to him as an interesting human being, why not just try to develop a true friendship that is comfortable for each of you -- and skip the flirtation?
Reply:You could tell him how you feel about him and see what he says


or u can become gay or bi or somthing becuz you would be like a guy- and gay guys like guys so yeah





but i would just keep it cool and stay friends with him
Reply:wow i dont know wat to tell u just kiss him and show him your hot body then he would fall in luv wen u naked


Is it wrong to flirt.....?

okay so i have a bf but before we started going out i was a flirt addict and i still am!!! we've just been going out for a bout 31/2 weeks but we known eachother for 7months i dont know wen i flirt i dnt kno that im flirtin at all it juss comes but im scared that im going to flirt at the wrong at the wrong time because we both go to the same school!!! and theres this boy in this afta skool program and hes soo kute and i flirt with him but i just cant help it i would hold his hand put my leg on his leg but its like i cant help it i dont makeout with them i just flirt....and while thats happenin my bf in the skool bc he has football practice but its not slutty bc i dnt do anything but flirt.. what should i do o yeah and were in highschool

Is it wrong to flirt.....?
flirt with your boyfriend! give him some extra special attention. be your sexiest around him. whenever you feel the urge to flirt with another guy, remember: you have a boyfriend, you don't need other guys to like you. bring up a casual topic with other guys: last night's homework, a test, a football game, etc., until you can simply talk to a guy without getting all giddy and flirty.





maybe you just aren't ready for a bf. flirting is fun, so if you don't wanna stop, only go on casual dates- no commitments!





don't stress... i flirt a lot too. we're still young so who cares? still, be fair to your bf. if you really like him you can get your excessive flirting under control. if not, say bye bye to him!
Reply:Sounds to me that you like this other guy from your after school program. Innocent flirting is one thing but when you want to hold his hand and rub legs with him that crosses the boundaries of innocent. Maybe you need to rethink about who it is you really like. If you like this other guy more than your bf, than you owe it to your bf to cut him loose so he can find a girl that likes him as much as he likes her.
Reply:goodness gurl, u dont deserve bf.
Reply:Its not bad to flirt, its a way of making u r self better feeling that u still "got it"... but also with more u like to flirt that says about u r true feelings about u r bf, and its OK, u don't have to force u r self in any how. One day you will meet the person who will give u just what u want and u wont need to flirt. It has to come natural, so do what u feel.
Reply:what your doing is f'ed up how would you like to know that hes doing the same thing

teeth whitening

How to flirt with a guy you like?

I dont want to make it tooo obvious that I really like him, but I want to give him the flirting impression, and the "hey im interested and if your interested too, nows the time to meet me half way" kinda thing.... how do I flirt with him?

How to flirt with a guy you like?
I know at 35 I am getting old but my advice is pay attention to him. Make eye contact and smile. If you are interested he will know it with out you doing something specific. Oh and if you want to be a little more obviious touch him when you talk to him. Not grab him or anything. Just his sholder or something. You know what I am talking about.... If that does not work just ask him to lunch or something. We get tired of making the first move. Hope that helps
Reply:many girls don't know this
Reply:call him often for a chat
Reply:Why not just knock him out cold and drag him back to your home?





Hehe, sorry. But if he's single chances are he'd be in for a fun night anyway.


Just invite him for a cup of coffee at some distro, cafe, whatever.


Or use a corney, typical male come-on line.


"Did it hurt?" (most likely he recognizes it already and starts laughing.


"When you fell out of heaven?"








...


This must be my worst answer....





ever.
Reply:just go up to him, just talk and laugh at his jokes. not a huge and laugh but a giigle/ laugh if ya know wat i mean. walk by his desk and drop your pencil and act like you did it on accident and if he does not pick it up, w well, but if he does and he looks straight into your eyes, he oves you right back.





x.o.x.o,





mariah( hope i helped) =)
Reply:lolz at first ii didn't know how too...but then when ii want to flirt..it just comes out ...ii don't know how lolz


HELPPPPP!!! do ALL guys EXPECT you to flirt on the first date?? I NNEED advice?

help i think a guy dumped me because on the first date i did not flirt with him even though people say i looked really good that day i am a bit quiet. but he never even told me i was pretty he just kept talking and talking. i thought he was a guy who was conservative who didnt flirt. Then my friend told me he flirts. what is up?? please tell me how to learn how to flirt with guys so i can meet someone. Please can you teach me how to flirt? HELP!!!

HELPPPPP!!! do ALL guys EXPECT you to flirt on the first date?? I NNEED advice?
How old are you?
Reply:men r after ejaculatory orgasm all the time they have no time 4 frills specially if they have just started sexing. EMOTIONLESS ill say
Reply:Flirting is not the answer be yourself. Don't pretend to be something that you are not. Be true to who you are if he likes that great if he doesn't move on. There are a ton of fish in the sea. A guy should like you for you not for who he wants you to be.
Reply:Well it shows a sign of interest. Obviously he is interested or he wouldnt ask you out. I odnt know too many guys that go out on dates that dont have interest.
Reply:Yes and be good at it too or your else!





Hell no just be yourself and if thats not good enough then move on.
Reply:Flirting especially in women just comes naturally due to the level of attraction. Anything else is just an act and can make you come off flaky or something your not. When there is a chemistry between you and another guy it just happens naturally, that's how you know its right. Just wait and be yourself and you will find someone that you have those kinds of sparks with.


-NmD!
Reply:well if he is that flirting type than forget him move on and god you dont need to flirt alot be your self they should like you for yourself not the flrity side of you and if they dont then move on and forget him!also you said he likes to flirt and he never told you, you look pretty that is so concided and stupid of him GOD!..well if you want to know how to flirt just when you find someone cute or specail go up to him get to know him make him laugh and make him like you!! that works for me even thought i was born to be a flirt lol
Reply:i think you just have to be yourself. you don't have to flirt if you don't feel like flirting. don't force yourself to do something you don't want to do. this guy who dumped you? he doesn't know anything. in a date, guys don't talk too much. it must be a conversation, not a one-way monologue. how to flirt? give him your sweet smile.
Reply:that's like 3 questions in one... anyway...some people like quiet girls, some people don't. if you want to flirt but don't know how...the best advice i can give you is to have a few drinks before you go on the date. that'll loosen you up. and if you still can't do it, you probably won't even care. haha! anyway, i like quiet girls so hit me up if you want to talk(i'm kind of shy myself) =)


How to flirt lol......?

there is a girl that i fancy and she says she will go out with me if i flirt with her but i cant flirt.....


i dunno how


help me please


I really love her


If you help i will always remember you lol

How to flirt lol......?
Well first, you fancy her and don't love her. If things don't work out, don't freak out, since there are going to be so many other girls you're going to like in your lifetime. Anyways:





Some things you can do to flirt with her, or show her you're interested is by paying attention to her, talking to her alot; like coming up to her and starting conversations, touching her, like on the arm, joking around and teasing her, and when I say teasing don't be mean, but just joke around.





You can also follow your friends lead. Follow what he does, how he talks to her.





Girls love it when you remember things in the conversation, and you can compliment her every once in a while, but be sincere and don't over-do it.





Then when you've talked to her alot, and whatever, and feel comfortable in asking her out, just go for it!





Okay, and quick signs that she likes you back, is interested, whatever you want to call it:





- Eye contact. She'll look at you. When you talk to her, look in her eyes. Also, if you're in class, or wherever, and she looks at you, then when you notice and look at her, and she looks away that's a sign too. Especially if this happens alot.





- She laughs at your jokes. Even the unfunny ones. And she teases and jokes with you back.





- She touches you. On the arm, shoulder, just casually in the conversation.





- She seems to be around where you are. Like, she is behind you in line. She keeps showing up in the places where you are, etc.





- She joins your group. If you're talking with your friends ina group, and she joins and just talks with you guys, she is probably interested in one of you. Especially if she does it alot.





One big, big giveaway, is if she tells her friends, and then her friends always look at you when you come in a room, or poke her or whatever, or laugh and then look at you. That's completely obvious, lol.





Okaaay, I hope that helped. :D I'm in highschool, and I'm a girl, and I know these things! And remember, when you talk to her be confident, but not a jerk.





Oh, and one thing you should know" even if she doesn't like you now, most girls, including me I have to say, will begin to like guys who show interest in them. And if she knows you like her, she might start to like you back. It's a girl thing, I don't know, but yeah. It's not always the case but sometimes. Like once, there was this guy I didn't really notice, I knew his friend pretty well, but he started talking to me alot, and then we went out.





Just thought you should know. So don't get discouraged right away. But if she is showing obvious signs that she doesn't want to be around you, then back off a little.





Alright?? Hope everything goes well!!!


Luvs, blondie =]
Reply:There are tons of ways to flirt... I don't know if I can give you a flirting lesson, but I will try to give a few examples...





Some people are natural flirts and no matter what they do or say it tends to come off that way...


I am a huge flirt and it's a good thing and sometimes it's not so good..





Here is one example:


There was this woman at the hair cuttery. Very Beautiful. I would come there and ask for her by name. She could not cut hair very well but I didn't care. While in the chair I would make small talk. Ask her about what she is doing... How long she has cut hair etc etc... Always smile when i see her. Sometimes I would tease her and make jokes with her.


One time I came in there and she wasn't there... so the Next time i made it a point to let her know I missed her.


This is Playful flirting...





Notice small details about her... if she has a new hair style or New hair Color... If she is dressed nice that day..





To be more serious... you can look into her eyes when you speak to her and when she speaks to you... Good Eye contact is a must... then you give her the Look and hold....





This is where you look into her eyes and hold your eyes there. She'll look away and glance back.. Make sure you are still looking at her her eyes will dart away again and back then you smile and look away....


(just make sure it's a warm look and not likt you are trying to undress her with your eyes save that for later)





1) be interested in her and her life what she is doing


2) Good sense of humor is key


3) Smile (no Koolade Cheeses)


4) Notice her from across the room.


5) make it a point to say hi or address her when you see her. even if you have to go out of your way for 2 sec to do it...





RELAX, have self Confidence (but not *********)


Be sure of your self....





Good Luck
Reply:hold her hand, put your arms around her, blow her kisses, wink at her, give her hugs, make her laugh......
Reply:hold her hand when your walking, touch her hair, smile all the time.
Reply:just see n smile at her..............but u should not look at her en she is looking...........inform ur frnd n suddenly take leave........if she likes u then she will be upset on tat day.........
Reply:why on earth would she say that she'll go out with you if you flirt with her? you seem such a nice guy... - this is flirting. Just take what she gives you... she wants you to flirt with her, she doesn't want you to hold her hand, she wants you to be sexy. So just say she looks great, smile when she's around but not like you're happy...like you know she's going to be yours and she can't resist, pull her closer to you whenever you want to talk with her, like it's so much noise you can't hear her...notice the small things she does, surprise her...


TELL HER YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH HER!!
Reply:Okay first thing first. when I want a guy to flirt with me I start it, but since this is different let me try...


Okay when you see her walk up to her and give her a hug, or when your "buddy" puts her head on his lap tell him to get his own girl, I would love it if a guy did that. um.. when she rejects you keep trying don't let it stop you if you love her you will keep trying. try when you hug her don't have your hands on her butt but just above it, or when you guys walk beside each other put your arm around her waist. make comments on how her hair looks or if you like what she is wearing tell her you like it and see what she does then...
Reply:tell you think she look buteaful and sexy
Reply:tell her that you get lost in her eyes.