How to flirt with women maturely (women 21 and up only please)?

I'm 24. I hate flirting. It's not fun for me at all, because I find it very difficult. I'm a very direct person and wish I could just simply walk up to a woman and say "you look fabulous, I would love to get to know you better", but alas, most women these days recoil from something like that and assume you're a freak. I don't want to make a woman feel uncomfortable, but I don't want to pass up the opportunity to meet beautiful women either and maybe one special woman, because I have a lot to offer and none of them ever see that because I always screw it up before they can. *sigh* How does a guy really flirt with a woman appropriately without coming off desperate. Thanks in advance.

How to flirt with women maturely (women 21 and up only please)?
#1 chew gum, wear chapstick and some sort of after shave or cologne. NOT EXCESSIVLEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





#2 talk slower( not like your retarted but just like your really paying attention to them and your trying to draw her attention.)





#3 eye contact ( very important don't stair)





#4 take your time just because you talk to her doesnt' mean that she's gonna have sex with you.


--- you gotta act like your used to talkin to girls all the time so when you talk to her it's just like hey your cool whatever.


#5 tell her you like to talk on the phone. If you ask her for her # than she's gonna think that you want something. you like to talk on the phone%26lt; she likes to talk on the phone you talk on the phone.





#6 proximity is a factor if you try to stand too far away from her. Try to get close get a hug??





#7You gotta bring out qualities that are going to make her want you





#8 dont be desperate





#9 remember women value relationships and if you can establish a relationship that she knows and trusts then you move on to the hot and heavy stuff





#10 be truthful- if you want to know her as more than a friend..TELL HER! Shell love you for it GOOD LUCK!!
Reply:being a 21 year old woman, i can safely say that i love it when a guy teases me. not in a mean way, but in a flirtatious, playing hard to get kind of way. he has to be smart and bold but also cute and shouldnt act like hes all that. i get weak in the knees for smart guys.





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witty remarks are good as long as he can back it up with charm and a smile :)
Reply:Well, I know I really like it when my guy friend says things that just make me wonder what he is really thinking. Like, he will come up to me and smile and say "Hey, I saw you driving away yesterday...you were jamming to your music...it was cute." Make it seem casual, but throw in a compliment that'll make them wonder if it meant something more. Start doing it more often, and then ask them out.
Reply:i know im not a female but i want to answer question. i would suggest that you feel comfortable first. if you walk up to a girl and you look shy that will show that you are not serius. a nice way to meet a girl is by bumping on to her and start asking questions from there, this way it wont seem like you are a "freak" and that shes just another girl you flirt with. after that just ask her out. Peace Out.
Reply:Oh ok to my honesty i think that flirting is played out thats for younger people but if u would like to win a women to yourself is to be honest and forward about any and everything..........and remember u hate flirting so since u hate it then just let natural common sense play a major role to that special someone......if she has beautiful eyes then tell her, if she's wearing something stunning tell her say things like that to get two thumbs up exactly!!!!!!!





P.S. try not to be so much of a sexual person just be the person u was born to be and remember honesty counts!!!!!