Why do guys think its okay to flirt with other girls but they get mad when a girl they like does it too??

I like this guy in my class %26amp; he likes me too and I've been waiting for him to ask me to be his girlfriend because one of his best friends said he wants to ask me. Well we were talking tonight and he told me that he doesnt really wanna date yet cuz he's gotten hurt in a lot of his past relationships and i told him that i would never cheat on him or anything cuz i'm really not the type of girl to do that and he knows it but he said that he needs time. And i mentioned his flirting problem and he said that i do it too but i dont flirt with guys in front of him nearly as much as he does it to me. He said that he knows he's a flirt but he hates it when i flirt with guys in front of him. He also said that he doesnt want to stop talking to every girl just to be with me and I told him thats not i'm expecting him to do but he just doesnt get it. I think he might even be mad at me but i dont know what to say to him. I just dont understand why he thinks its okay for him to flirt but i cant do it

Why do guys think its okay to flirt with other girls but they get mad when a girl they like does it too??
Ok, I'm going to be Brutally honest. It's because guys are hunters. Yes that's right, we're hunters. Most guys are horny and are looking for sex. That nice guy that you're talking to? He's picturing you naked and within 5 seconds he's having sex with you in his mind. Honest to god truth, I don't care how nice this guy is, unless he's gay he's mind raping you. Even if you're not his "type" he'll have sex with you, I gurantee it. If you ask he will do it. BUT! with girls it's different, you guys are much more reserved for the good sake of humanity. The chances of ANYTHING happening when a guy flirts with another girl is just as bleak as it can get. If we ask for sex we'll get a smack or even a kick in the groin. Girls are "looking" for guys, they'll then research and analyze him before doing anything but as for guys? We might be looking for a girlfriend but like I said we're HUNTERS it's in our genes to have sex first then analyze later. THAT IS THE TRUTH! Oh and even if you have a boyfriend he gets jealous because he knows the other guy is going to try and chip away at your relationship, he knows this because he did the same thing when he was single. Conscientiously or subconsciously, we hunt single and taken girls constantly!





Ok, I can't say all guys are like this but the ones that aren't are thinking on a much higher plane of thought, they're in control of themselves but don't let it fool you, even they can lose control. Caveman genes really, Guys look for many partners and protect the ones they already have. We're so primitive!
Reply:Guy's know it is ok to flirt with other girls because they have alot of seeds to spread, and they get mad when a girl they like is flirting with someone else because that means less seeds to spread for them. That is the technical answer.
Reply:That's a really good question!!!...guys, answer pleasee!!!! it's killin me tooo right now! :(
Reply:guys are selfish. they dont see how much it annoyes the girl but when they do it to them they get pissed.


but honestly, not all guys are like that. most like flirting with other girls, even though they dating or like someone else. they re just liek that. the only thing that u can do is trust him. if you cant tehn it s not worth it.


my girlsfriend used to jsut let guys flirt with her and she wud just go with it. but she wud never do/never did anything.


anyways, it really depends on the person.


and maybe he doesnt see that somtimes talking to a girl means flirting, maybe that not his intention at all.
Reply:i dont know. same reason guys sleep with whole town and are the hero, while if a girl does it she's a slut. same reason guy fart and laugh, we fart and get told we're gross....





lifes not fair, u deal with it
Reply:well to me honestly, its pretty much a habit to me because i would always flirt with my friends that are girls, i would joke around, mess around, poke them all of that sort of stuff. but now that i have a girlfriend, i stop all of that flirting habit and get serious with my girlfriend.
Reply:I know what your talking about, ive been in that same exact situation and it sucks 2 b waiting around 4 them. I think u should try 2 move on, if things continue 2 b like this....it wont go nowhere. It sounds 2 me that he just wants 2 have fun, flirting with girls. Lets say he finally wants u 2 b his girlfriend, like u said he doesnt want 2 stop talking 2 every girl, trust me that is gonna bug u later in the relationship, cuz if hes a flirt (like u say) he'll continue flirting with them.


Also, it should b fair, either u cant flirt and neither can he, or he can flirt and so can u (in a relationship ofcourse). It also sounds like he wants 2 make u jealous...y? idk, guys play does games 2. Girls should never b the 1s after the guys, they should b after u.


GOOD LUCK :)
Reply:guys are usually more insecure and have that fear of being replaced or seen as lesser than some other guys. the only way they see that not being a problem is if girls don't talk to, especially flirt with, other guys. if things aren't going their way in that respect, and many others, they get upset. the only problem is, that that's just a way of life. people are naturally going to flirt with the people they are attracted to and people they may not even be attracted to.
Reply:what? how can you suffer such a ridiculous thing? c'mon, he's so selfish, think for yourself..there's no tight between you and him, do what you like!