there is this really cute guy on my bus stop, he gets off at the same stop also and so he takes the same route to school since we go to the same school. i know that a lot of prettier girls like him. how can i flirt with him so that i wont be embarrased the next time i see him?
p.s. flirting isnt really my thing
How to flirt?
Start with a smile when you see him and later on strike up a conversation about something simple that you have in common like school, or the busdriver, it can be stupid just anything. Be sure to smile and be friendly!
Reply:sorry hun, i don't know what to tell you but flirting really is something that just comes natural. whenever i flirt i don't even realize it until i see that the guy i'm "flirting" with takes interest in me or other people tell me i was flirting. just be yourself, because whoever you end up with will be with you for who you are, not how good of a flirt you are.
Reply:All your life you were taught to keep your hands to yourself. You been taught manners cause kids don't know enough to stay safe without rules to follow..now you got a situation where as long as you use common sense and keep your wits about you then anything goes. This is a quantum shift for sure. The rewards are great when the risks are so paramount. You got a chance for alot to go on. I say jump in with both feet. Be the most confident you have ever been,,odds are he will enjoy you so just do what you feel..even if its wierd or odd..just start talking to him and touching, smiling. Its all chemistry and signals. Act as if you were already on the greatest if terms so be comfortable..then he can too . Its refreshing!
Reply:ok well first off is he worth? second there is no book on how to flirt or any certain way everyone is different, i can tell you what i do to flirt and some guidlines to follow becaquse i am an exotic dancer so i flirt for a living. well when you talk to him just keep smiling and playing shy. look him in the eyes when you talk to him as if you saw hearts(you dont have to love him to have the love eyes)when you both talk just like laug and touch his arm, hand or etc in a playful way. then everythuing else should come naturally. but dont shower him with compliments cuase guys think thats a turn off if a girl is chasing . flirt and make him chase you. men always want what they cant have. even if it dont work out be happy as friends and it could grow to something more
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