Why do married men flirt?

I go to karaoke every Thursday. One of the bartenders at the bar is really cute and I'm a natural flirt. Only catch is he's married. Nothing would ever happen due to that, but he's been flirting a lot more lately. He even sings for me and wants me to sing.


i know that married men are no no's but I can't help but think about him. Why do married men flirt and why do we respond?


Any ideas?

Why do married men flirt?
Baby, hes just trying to make money first, and if you happen to like him, then your just a victim of his charm.





Now if you like him, and he likes you, then maybe you guys can have an affair, but the first thing hes thinkin about is his making his money, the second is getting home to his wife and the 3rd is he may eventually sleep with someone like you
Reply:It's pretty simple. The concept of marriage goes against natural animal insticts. Humans are animals, and it is difficult for us to find and stay with one person our entire lives. It goes against our nature, but we do it anyways. That's why the divorce rate in this country is 50%
Reply:just because your married doesn't mean that the deal is sealed. many do believe that. i think it's wrong all around. in case, if he's an old guy it might make him feel young again. why do married women flirt (and quite openly i might add)? same reason...
Reply:some people who are married have been married for a long time.





maybe 5-10 years.





and when they get married they don't really listen to there vowels and the responsibility of being married.





some guys just can't stand the thought of being tied down.





and some guys need more excitment in there sex life that there wifes won't give them so they look otherwise to get it.





there could be many other reasons of why these guys cheat i don't really know why but that's what i've concluded.





love,


stef
Reply:Some people are just naturally flirty -- male or female, single or married -- even if they have no intention of "following through". Flirting is fun, and for the most part, harmless. The fact that this fellow is a bartender probably figures in the equation -- when you make someone feel good about themselves (by flirting with them), you tend to get bigger tips...
Reply:I'm sure this won't sound politically correct to many of you and that I'm gonna get a lot of thumb-downs but the truth has to be said; men ARE like that. It's in their genes.


Sorry guys but women have to know about it!
Reply:the attraction is wanting something you can't have,but in most cases they end up haveing and not wanting. do ya understand what i'm saying?
Reply:it is simple "Dont kick over the beehive if you want to gather honey" this is true in every relationship between humans, same is true with cpls, the females takes the males for granted and order them around or get more busy with the kids thinking that the house work and kids are more important in this the male feels not wanted and so to feel wanted he flirts and looks around so that he can have the feeling of security that he is wanted

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