I know how to flirt but I wanna know how you guys flirt with people....so I can have ideas?
I;m not asking how you flirt I'm asking what do YOU (you)do when you flirt with someone??
Cuz i need more ideas
How do you flirt?
A) You complement them on there clothes, beauty, etc.
B) Caress them
C) Sweet talk
D) IMPORTANT: BE YOURSELF, DON'T BE A FAKE.
E) Brag a tinny bit about yourself and your achievements
F) Don't get pushy.
Reply:i make jokes play footsies or the guy i like puts his feet on my chair knock them off he puts em back ten i hold em
92%of teens would be dead if Abercrombie%26amp;Fitch said it wasnt cool to breathe post it if you are the 8%who would be laughing
(ha ha yea i may be a prep but Abercrombie is overrated and yea... lol)
Reply:dress to show off my curves without looking skanky or too conservative.
sense of humour, giggling at jokes.
confidence
good positive outgoing attitude, down-to-earth
lots of eye contact
standing a little too close, sometimes accidentally brushing by
being sweet and generous yet honest
willing to state my mind at any given moment
act interested in what they're talking about
Reply:idk. look into their eyes. giggle when u r around them
wisdom teeth
Sunday, November 20, 2011
How do I flirt!?
Ok, so to start things off...I wanna be able to be a good flirt. I'm a gay male also by the way so if other gay guys could answer this for me that would be great, but any advice from anyway is always appreciated.
Anyway, I'm the type of guy who's never really been a big flirt before so this is kinda new to me, but what do you all like when it comes to flirting? What makes a good flirt and what can I do? (Please no answer like "Get in his pants or bed" or something like that, lol.)
Thanks a bunch everyone! :)
How do I flirt!?
ok..be playful, try to kinda joke around, try to have some physical contact with the person like kinda touch on the shoulder or somewhere there...i dont really know much about gay males(coz i usually help straight guys and those stuff works) so..that's all i can think of..
Reply:that helped cool! Report It
Reply:Flirting. Be natural, and don't try and be someone you're not. Make casual conversation, eye contact (if you can without getting distracted), and lots of smiles. I think the most effective way of getting to know someone is just talking to them on a regular basis. If you know someone who you really like, try to see them more often, eg. bus stop every morning. That way you'll feel more comfortable around them, and flirting may come easier. Good Luck!
Reply:be yourself, but be your best self. show them who you are :)
and usually you physically closer to them haha.
im a girl tho, but when i flirt with a guy i usually play with their hands :D and then i tell them they are really big. hahah
Reply:ask them if you can touch their penis
Reply:take off ur clothes!
Anyway, I'm the type of guy who's never really been a big flirt before so this is kinda new to me, but what do you all like when it comes to flirting? What makes a good flirt and what can I do? (Please no answer like "Get in his pants or bed" or something like that, lol.)
Thanks a bunch everyone! :)
How do I flirt!?
ok..be playful, try to kinda joke around, try to have some physical contact with the person like kinda touch on the shoulder or somewhere there...i dont really know much about gay males(coz i usually help straight guys and those stuff works) so..that's all i can think of..
Reply:that helped cool! Report It
Reply:Flirting. Be natural, and don't try and be someone you're not. Make casual conversation, eye contact (if you can without getting distracted), and lots of smiles. I think the most effective way of getting to know someone is just talking to them on a regular basis. If you know someone who you really like, try to see them more often, eg. bus stop every morning. That way you'll feel more comfortable around them, and flirting may come easier. Good Luck!
Reply:be yourself, but be your best self. show them who you are :)
and usually you physically closer to them haha.
im a girl tho, but when i flirt with a guy i usually play with their hands :D and then i tell them they are really big. hahah
Reply:ask them if you can touch their penis
Reply:take off ur clothes!
I'm a married guy who'd like to flirt w/ pretty gals on my daily train.What do gals like in terms of flirting?
I'm not looking to cheat on my wife, but would like to playfully flirt w/ all the pretty gals that ride on my daily commuter train. I'd be happy just talking to them and making friends. The problem is that I don't know what women prefer in terms of how to flirt. How do women want guys to let them know that they admire and have interest in them? Do women get 'creeped out' when guys flirt w/ them, or do they like it? How do you know if a gal flirts back?
I'm a married guy who'd like to flirt w/ pretty gals on my daily train.What do gals like in terms of flirting?
Show respect. Have some good manners. And if you do that, they will be the one who's going to flirt you.
Reply:IF YOU ARE MARRIED THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE FLIRTING AT ALL. HAVING FEMALE FRIENDS AND FLIRTING WITH THEM ARE TWO WAY DIFFERENT THINGS AND IN MY BOOK FLIRTING IS CHEATING SOOO... I WOULDNT DO IT AT ALL!!!
Reply:You have no business flirting at all! flirting is just an invitation, be wise and stop being a flirt! If there was a maried man flirting with me, the first thing that I'd think was I wonder how many times has he cheated on his wife? What a creep! sorry but this is true
Reply:Dude, i am telling your wife. Its me, u know me and i know your wife.
Reply:It's sad that you're flirting and you're married. Its gross and you should be ashamed of yourself. Instead of thinking if they like it, you should be looking for a marriage counselor. Sicko!!
Reply:If they know you are married they will creep out. You don't need to flirt. Be friendly and kind and talk about your wife and all the nice things you do for her. That leaves us women thinking wow what a lucky gal she is!
Reply:speaking as a woman, I'd prefer to flirt with a man that ISN'T married.
Reply:well if you're married, that constitutes cheating on your wife, right? if you love your wife, you shouldn't have to flirt with other women. if you want to flirt, flirt with your wife. i think guys who are married and flirt with me are creepy. and i know a lot of other women who have the same belief. Flirt with your wife. Send her cute messeges on her phone; give her a sexy stare at the dinner table; when you walk past her, purposly touch her somehow to show her you love her; tell her how sexy she is; treat her like the godess that she is. That's the things my husband does to me and it keeps our marraige fresh, and I love it. I'd rather be flirted with by my husband than any other hot guy i don't even know. But please, if you love your wife, don't flirt with other women...it may lead to mistakes if they flirt back with you..if you know what i mean.
Reply:You are so full of it! If you weren't interested in cheating on your wife, you would NOT being seeking out other women to flirt with or be friends with.
Reply:why don't you just flirt with your wife and call it good. Do you know how that will make her feel if she sees you flirting with someone else?? She is going to think that you are't attracted to her and it could lead her to believe that you are cheating and blah blah blah. You should just be faithful to your wife. To a women flirting is a form of cheating. Just think about it before you do it again........
Reply:flirting is how it starts,cheating is where it leads,DIVORCE is how it ends......
no repect for your wife.
Reply:Well, the first thing U have to know is that we don't like liar men and hypocrites, we got really scared when a man approach with no reason at all, just to "flirt" and we don't flirt back with strangers, and if someone does that it's because she is really a dumb ***!
Besides, U're a married man... why would U do such a thing??
Aren't you happy with your relationship??
I'm a married guy who'd like to flirt w/ pretty gals on my daily train.What do gals like in terms of flirting?
Show respect. Have some good manners. And if you do that, they will be the one who's going to flirt you.
Reply:IF YOU ARE MARRIED THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE FLIRTING AT ALL. HAVING FEMALE FRIENDS AND FLIRTING WITH THEM ARE TWO WAY DIFFERENT THINGS AND IN MY BOOK FLIRTING IS CHEATING SOOO... I WOULDNT DO IT AT ALL!!!
Reply:You have no business flirting at all! flirting is just an invitation, be wise and stop being a flirt! If there was a maried man flirting with me, the first thing that I'd think was I wonder how many times has he cheated on his wife? What a creep! sorry but this is true
Reply:Dude, i am telling your wife. Its me, u know me and i know your wife.
Reply:It's sad that you're flirting and you're married. Its gross and you should be ashamed of yourself. Instead of thinking if they like it, you should be looking for a marriage counselor. Sicko!!
Reply:If they know you are married they will creep out. You don't need to flirt. Be friendly and kind and talk about your wife and all the nice things you do for her. That leaves us women thinking wow what a lucky gal she is!
Reply:speaking as a woman, I'd prefer to flirt with a man that ISN'T married.
Reply:well if you're married, that constitutes cheating on your wife, right? if you love your wife, you shouldn't have to flirt with other women. if you want to flirt, flirt with your wife. i think guys who are married and flirt with me are creepy. and i know a lot of other women who have the same belief. Flirt with your wife. Send her cute messeges on her phone; give her a sexy stare at the dinner table; when you walk past her, purposly touch her somehow to show her you love her; tell her how sexy she is; treat her like the godess that she is. That's the things my husband does to me and it keeps our marraige fresh, and I love it. I'd rather be flirted with by my husband than any other hot guy i don't even know. But please, if you love your wife, don't flirt with other women...it may lead to mistakes if they flirt back with you..if you know what i mean.
Reply:You are so full of it! If you weren't interested in cheating on your wife, you would NOT being seeking out other women to flirt with or be friends with.
Reply:why don't you just flirt with your wife and call it good. Do you know how that will make her feel if she sees you flirting with someone else?? She is going to think that you are't attracted to her and it could lead her to believe that you are cheating and blah blah blah. You should just be faithful to your wife. To a women flirting is a form of cheating. Just think about it before you do it again........
Reply:flirting is how it starts,cheating is where it leads,DIVORCE is how it ends......
no repect for your wife.
Reply:Well, the first thing U have to know is that we don't like liar men and hypocrites, we got really scared when a man approach with no reason at all, just to "flirt" and we don't flirt back with strangers, and if someone does that it's because she is really a dumb ***!
Besides, U're a married man... why would U do such a thing??
Aren't you happy with your relationship??
How can i flirt with a girl?
i'm bi but she doesn't know and i would like to flirt with her but not so obvious. just like playing or something like that.i want to flirt with her at the movies.p.s if you know how to help a friend come out... can you tell me because i think she is but idk HELPPP plez
How can i flirt with a girl?
lol you too huh?
Reply:okay the fact that you are bi is not acceptable to most cultures but i think it's okay if you like it. to your question, just talk about anything. and please tell her that you are bi!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Ok, I think being Bi is gross but thats not what you asked. So I would just tell her that ur bi and u like her.
Reply:I know it is hard but you could flirt with me and you would know that I would like you because I like you already so lets talk. Just tell her and if she does not hear you out I will
Reply:Give her a massage or offer to. Ask her is she has ever thought about it or you could do the noble thing and just tell her straight that you are bi and attracted to her. This way she will not feel betrayed if she ends up finding out or figuring it out.
People have to "come out" on their own time. There are so many issues and so much to consider when you think of telling the world that you are bi or gay. Be honest with her and hopefully she will trust you enough to then be honest with you.
How can i flirt with a girl?
lol you too huh?
Reply:okay the fact that you are bi is not acceptable to most cultures but i think it's okay if you like it. to your question, just talk about anything. and please tell her that you are bi!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Ok, I think being Bi is gross but thats not what you asked. So I would just tell her that ur bi and u like her.
Reply:I know it is hard but you could flirt with me and you would know that I would like you because I like you already so lets talk. Just tell her and if she does not hear you out I will
Reply:Give her a massage or offer to. Ask her is she has ever thought about it or you could do the noble thing and just tell her straight that you are bi and attracted to her. This way she will not feel betrayed if she ends up finding out or figuring it out.
People have to "come out" on their own time. There are so many issues and so much to consider when you think of telling the world that you are bi or gay. Be honest with her and hopefully she will trust you enough to then be honest with you.
Mad cause i "flirt with every guy"??
my bestfriends have recently gotten extremely mad at me because im friends with a ton of guys and they immediatly asume i flirt with every one of those guys. we play bball together and joke and laugh around. they r friends with most of the guys to and like some of them. is it just them or do i really flirt with all of them?
Mad cause i "flirt with every guy"??
Stop acting like a cheap skank and save your dignity.
Reply:im a guy and i have the same "flirting" problem
its somthing you have to work on,
just dont be silly, alot of people count being jumpy and silly flirty,
Reply:You already know the answer to this. Why ask strangers. Need more attention?
shark teeth
Mad cause i "flirt with every guy"??
Stop acting like a cheap skank and save your dignity.
Reply:im a guy and i have the same "flirting" problem
its somthing you have to work on,
just dont be silly, alot of people count being jumpy and silly flirty,
Reply:You already know the answer to this. Why ask strangers. Need more attention?
shark teeth
How do I flirt with this guy?
Okay, so there's this guy who rides my bus, and I really like him, but he's an eighth grader, and I'm a seventh grader. So, he always talks to his eighth grade buddies instead of to me. How do I flirt with him without making it obvious that I like him? How do I flirt with him without my best friend (who also rides my bus and HATES him) finding out that I like him?
PLEASE HELP!!!
How do I flirt with this guy?
To look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a long sleeve and some ripped jeans to seem casual with flip flops with colored toenails, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof. Or if youre an emo/goth, wear your best band t-shirt and skinny jeans when going for the deep, sensitive, hot drummer.
Say Mississippi once in your head before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]
Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.
Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.
If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile!(Hold this stare for at least 3 seconds.) But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.
Practice everything in a mirror.
Try to be unique.
Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.
Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
When he is around his only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
Don't ever lie to him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is wrong, he'll become more open and you will feel more comfortable around him.
Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
Give him small things, like a stick of gum, or a pencil.
Hint about a movie you'd like to see.
If you do hint about a movie get more friends to go so it's less awkward.
See something scary so you can grab him at the scary parts of the movie. He'll feel manly and needed.
Find out what his favorite band is, then when you are around him, casually hum one of their songs. Instant convo.
If you think he's into you, flirt so it's kinda obvious you're crushed by a crush, otherwise,just tell him
Make sure you are constant with your actions, if you just stop interacting with him for a few days he could think you're not interested
It's very important to look amazing not just for him but, because the sad truth is, EXAMPLE. You guys are hanging out at a carnival, flirting, kissing etc...but if a hot girl walks by, sadly, he probably will look at her, guys are guys, so don't get offended or do something stupid like be provocative to get him back in your hands, that just makes you look retarded and stupid.
Bite your bottom lip from time to time guys love it. (We really do!)
Sometimes we guys can be extremely dense. If you're getting the impression he's keeping your conversation at a friendship level try ONE very obvious flirt and gauge his response. It might take a second dose for him to shift paradigms and see you for the sweet thing you are but use it sparingly. When doing this you're making it more likely for him to risk returning your flirtations because you're shifting some of the rejection risk to yourself.
When you are talking on the phone, respect him and have mostly an equal limit of talking. you do not want one person talking and the other one just listening because it is most likely just the "yeahs" and the "mhms". Talk in short terms and be concise! This way both of you will be listening and he is sure to like you even more.
When you bite your lip, make sure you don't leave a dent. When you're at home, make sure you find ways to soften your lips for that special moment.
Try to make a joke when your with him, but don't make it a stupid joke either. Guys always like a good laugh.
.........................................
Reply:first off what difference does it make if she doesnt like him? if you guys hookup then she'll find out about it eventually... right. anyway.. when he sits on the bus go sit next to him and start a conversation.... be bold... in life if you really want something then you have to go after it because you never know he could be thinking the same thing about you.
Reply:Hmmmm.. Interesting question.. Perhaps start out by dropping something in front of him and see if he stops to help you out. That will tell you if he even knows you exist.. Then you can go from there! You know.. "Thanks... I'm __________" Just some simple conversation.
PLEASE HELP!!!
How do I flirt with this guy?
To look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a long sleeve and some ripped jeans to seem casual with flip flops with colored toenails, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof. Or if youre an emo/goth, wear your best band t-shirt and skinny jeans when going for the deep, sensitive, hot drummer.
Say Mississippi once in your head before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]
Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.
Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.
If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile!(Hold this stare for at least 3 seconds.) But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.
Practice everything in a mirror.
Try to be unique.
Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.
Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
When he is around his only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
Don't ever lie to him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is wrong, he'll become more open and you will feel more comfortable around him.
Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
Give him small things, like a stick of gum, or a pencil.
Hint about a movie you'd like to see.
If you do hint about a movie get more friends to go so it's less awkward.
See something scary so you can grab him at the scary parts of the movie. He'll feel manly and needed.
Find out what his favorite band is, then when you are around him, casually hum one of their songs. Instant convo.
If you think he's into you, flirt so it's kinda obvious you're crushed by a crush, otherwise,just tell him
Make sure you are constant with your actions, if you just stop interacting with him for a few days he could think you're not interested
It's very important to look amazing not just for him but, because the sad truth is, EXAMPLE. You guys are hanging out at a carnival, flirting, kissing etc...but if a hot girl walks by, sadly, he probably will look at her, guys are guys, so don't get offended or do something stupid like be provocative to get him back in your hands, that just makes you look retarded and stupid.
Bite your bottom lip from time to time guys love it. (We really do!)
Sometimes we guys can be extremely dense. If you're getting the impression he's keeping your conversation at a friendship level try ONE very obvious flirt and gauge his response. It might take a second dose for him to shift paradigms and see you for the sweet thing you are but use it sparingly. When doing this you're making it more likely for him to risk returning your flirtations because you're shifting some of the rejection risk to yourself.
When you are talking on the phone, respect him and have mostly an equal limit of talking. you do not want one person talking and the other one just listening because it is most likely just the "yeahs" and the "mhms". Talk in short terms and be concise! This way both of you will be listening and he is sure to like you even more.
When you bite your lip, make sure you don't leave a dent. When you're at home, make sure you find ways to soften your lips for that special moment.
Try to make a joke when your with him, but don't make it a stupid joke either. Guys always like a good laugh.
.........................................
Reply:first off what difference does it make if she doesnt like him? if you guys hookup then she'll find out about it eventually... right. anyway.. when he sits on the bus go sit next to him and start a conversation.... be bold... in life if you really want something then you have to go after it because you never know he could be thinking the same thing about you.
Reply:Hmmmm.. Interesting question.. Perhaps start out by dropping something in front of him and see if he stops to help you out. That will tell you if he even knows you exist.. Then you can go from there! You know.. "Thanks... I'm __________" Just some simple conversation.
How can you flirt with someone in a professional envioroment?
Ok, so I have a crush, but I dont know how to flirt with him ,because . . . . hes my doctor??? Its silly, but its major. I dont think there are any rules regarding a relationship , but how can I find out if the feeling is mutual without becoming an idiot or embarassing myself? And how do I flirt without being too obvious or stupid?
How can you flirt with someone in a professional envioroment?
first off do some research and find out if he is married through his nurse or someone that would know...then just simply flirt and drop hints how it would be great to see him in another setting and if he is interested I promise he will let you know.....
Reply:Saaaaantaaaa clawwwzzz izzzz commmminnnn, 2 toooooowwwwwnnnn!
Reply:The first thing you should do is get a new doctor because it's not appropriete for a doctor to date/have a relationship with one of his patients. If you think that there's a possibility he could also be interested then it's important that you don't hurt is career by having a relationship with someone he's treating.
That's the most important thing if you in anyway care for him.
How can you flirt with someone in a professional envioroment?
first off do some research and find out if he is married through his nurse or someone that would know...then just simply flirt and drop hints how it would be great to see him in another setting and if he is interested I promise he will let you know.....
Reply:Saaaaantaaaa clawwwzzz izzzz commmminnnn, 2 toooooowwwwwnnnn!
Reply:The first thing you should do is get a new doctor because it's not appropriete for a doctor to date/have a relationship with one of his patients. If you think that there's a possibility he could also be interested then it's important that you don't hurt is career by having a relationship with someone he's treating.
That's the most important thing if you in anyway care for him.
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