Help me flirt?

i don't think i am good at it


the thing is that i don't touch people as much as i see my friends.they hug


its just that in my family we don't hug a lot,


but i know flirting is a lot of touching his arm and stuff like that, i would love to do that but i can get my self to do that.


help me flirt, and i am 17 so in that age range i don't need a 12 year old telling me her ways

Help me flirt?
why you are stay young put your head in the book


flirt later
Reply:DONT DO IT
Reply:omg im having the same problem.. [but im a guy.] physically flirting is easy. but like talking. nope. not good at it either.[im not really sure what "flirting" in talking means.
Reply:just be yourself





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Reply:I'm 17 too! but im a guy but I can help you with your problem i know that when a girl hugs me it's all about the length of the hug. A short hug says "i just want to be friends", and a long hug says a bit more, but that is not what it all depends on make sure you smile. Also of course there is always playful hitting and always no matter what look happy to see them!
Reply:just be honest and be your self smile and be friendly to everyone. and do not allow anyone to be disrespectfull in any way .
Reply:Here's how to do it.





Bend over, flip the skirt up, wiggle and watch the guy behind start to wobble!





Be careful, and make sure the guy doesn't fall down.
Reply:F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.





R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys don't know what girls like so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
Reply:You don't have to "touch" a persons arm to flirt*.....Eye contact, a seductive smile/grin...show interest*
Reply:Try Watch lots of the FRIENDS comedy series and pay close attention to JOEY good luck
Reply:When you really meet someone you like, it will happen naturally.
Reply:dont go to far... maybe someday you will find someone who will love you because of your inner beauty... not being flirty is not always bad..
Reply:if you do that guys will think your easy. youll get plenty of one night stands but you wont meet a guy that will be willing to stay with you for life. most guys dont get a ton of attention so when they get a girl that does the touching and they know they have a craving for cocke (im not kidding here) they take the oppurtunity to get laid. sad fact but its true. my advice is be yourself but try and act really interested in the guys you are talking too and be kind of talkative, listen to him and dont talk over him, use sexy body language but NOT MUCH and don't touch, look him straight in the eyes, smile a lot, and realize guys are more scared of you than you are of them (should be quite a confidence booster).
Reply:The key is practice!


I know it sounds really dumb since we're talking about making physical contact. How can you practice touching people?


Easy. Start hugging your family. Touch people's hands when you're talking to them. Practice giving your friends pecks on the cheek when you say goodbye to them.





Yes, you will get weird stares in the beginning. You might even get somebody going "omg, what are you doing?" I can guarantee you 100%, though, that it gets easier each and every time you do it.





(okay, i am not talking so much about flirting as i am talking about getting you comfy with the idea of touching other people or being touched by others. flirting is one of its applications, but the entire scope is much larger)
Reply:It's not your fault but your parents for suppressing you socially, The good news is there's very effective technique's you can use to desensitize you. Corporation use these to great success in trusting your co workers. I think it could help you.
Reply:Flirting comes naturally...granted some girls overdo it. I love watching the girls who hang all over guys. The next thing you know...those guys are running for the lives!! You don't have to touch to flirt. It's in your eyes, your words, your facial expressions. Smiling helps. Never ever act like a ditz. That will throw your chances quick. Be yourself and the flirting will come naturally...smile! :)
Reply:Flirting isn't always about touching. Try a devious look with a wicked smile at the right moment. Doing anything with your hair while you're talking to a guy (as long as it's not too obvious) can work. Sexual innuendo is huge in the flirting game. It's all about eye contact, smiling, and laughing at his jokes.
Reply:if you want to flirt then you should begin with NOT being desperate