How to flirt lol......?

there is a girl that i fancy and she says she will go out with me if i flirt with her but i cant flirt.....


i dunno how


help me please


I really love her


If you help i will always remember you lol

How to flirt lol......?
Well first, you fancy her and don't love her. If things don't work out, don't freak out, since there are going to be so many other girls you're going to like in your lifetime. Anyways:





Some things you can do to flirt with her, or show her you're interested is by paying attention to her, talking to her alot; like coming up to her and starting conversations, touching her, like on the arm, joking around and teasing her, and when I say teasing don't be mean, but just joke around.





You can also follow your friends lead. Follow what he does, how he talks to her.





Girls love it when you remember things in the conversation, and you can compliment her every once in a while, but be sincere and don't over-do it.





Then when you've talked to her alot, and whatever, and feel comfortable in asking her out, just go for it!





Okay, and quick signs that she likes you back, is interested, whatever you want to call it:





- Eye contact. She'll look at you. When you talk to her, look in her eyes. Also, if you're in class, or wherever, and she looks at you, then when you notice and look at her, and she looks away that's a sign too. Especially if this happens alot.





- She laughs at your jokes. Even the unfunny ones. And she teases and jokes with you back.





- She touches you. On the arm, shoulder, just casually in the conversation.





- She seems to be around where you are. Like, she is behind you in line. She keeps showing up in the places where you are, etc.





- She joins your group. If you're talking with your friends ina group, and she joins and just talks with you guys, she is probably interested in one of you. Especially if she does it alot.





One big, big giveaway, is if she tells her friends, and then her friends always look at you when you come in a room, or poke her or whatever, or laugh and then look at you. That's completely obvious, lol.





Okaaay, I hope that helped. :D I'm in highschool, and I'm a girl, and I know these things! And remember, when you talk to her be confident, but not a jerk.





Oh, and one thing you should know" even if she doesn't like you now, most girls, including me I have to say, will begin to like guys who show interest in them. And if she knows you like her, she might start to like you back. It's a girl thing, I don't know, but yeah. It's not always the case but sometimes. Like once, there was this guy I didn't really notice, I knew his friend pretty well, but he started talking to me alot, and then we went out.





Just thought you should know. So don't get discouraged right away. But if she is showing obvious signs that she doesn't want to be around you, then back off a little.





Alright?? Hope everything goes well!!!


Luvs, blondie =]
Reply:There are tons of ways to flirt... I don't know if I can give you a flirting lesson, but I will try to give a few examples...





Some people are natural flirts and no matter what they do or say it tends to come off that way...


I am a huge flirt and it's a good thing and sometimes it's not so good..





Here is one example:


There was this woman at the hair cuttery. Very Beautiful. I would come there and ask for her by name. She could not cut hair very well but I didn't care. While in the chair I would make small talk. Ask her about what she is doing... How long she has cut hair etc etc... Always smile when i see her. Sometimes I would tease her and make jokes with her.


One time I came in there and she wasn't there... so the Next time i made it a point to let her know I missed her.


This is Playful flirting...





Notice small details about her... if she has a new hair style or New hair Color... If she is dressed nice that day..





To be more serious... you can look into her eyes when you speak to her and when she speaks to you... Good Eye contact is a must... then you give her the Look and hold....





This is where you look into her eyes and hold your eyes there. She'll look away and glance back.. Make sure you are still looking at her her eyes will dart away again and back then you smile and look away....


(just make sure it's a warm look and not likt you are trying to undress her with your eyes save that for later)





1) be interested in her and her life what she is doing


2) Good sense of humor is key


3) Smile (no Koolade Cheeses)


4) Notice her from across the room.


5) make it a point to say hi or address her when you see her. even if you have to go out of your way for 2 sec to do it...





RELAX, have self Confidence (but not *********)


Be sure of your self....





Good Luck
Reply:hold her hand, put your arms around her, blow her kisses, wink at her, give her hugs, make her laugh......
Reply:hold her hand when your walking, touch her hair, smile all the time.
Reply:just see n smile at her..............but u should not look at her en she is looking...........inform ur frnd n suddenly take leave........if she likes u then she will be upset on tat day.........
Reply:why on earth would she say that she'll go out with you if you flirt with her? you seem such a nice guy... - this is flirting. Just take what she gives you... she wants you to flirt with her, she doesn't want you to hold her hand, she wants you to be sexy. So just say she looks great, smile when she's around but not like you're happy...like you know she's going to be yours and she can't resist, pull her closer to you whenever you want to talk with her, like it's so much noise you can't hear her...notice the small things she does, surprise her...


TELL HER YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH HER!!
Reply:Okay first thing first. when I want a guy to flirt with me I start it, but since this is different let me try...


Okay when you see her walk up to her and give her a hug, or when your "buddy" puts her head on his lap tell him to get his own girl, I would love it if a guy did that. um.. when she rejects you keep trying don't let it stop you if you love her you will keep trying. try when you hug her don't have your hands on her butt but just above it, or when you guys walk beside each other put your arm around her waist. make comments on how her hair looks or if you like what she is wearing tell her you like it and see what she does then...
Reply:tell you think she look buteaful and sexy
Reply:tell her that you get lost in her eyes.