Should I flirt with him or just tell him?

If you think I should flirt with the guy i like, How should i flirt?





If you think I should just tell him i like him, How should I say it?











I don't want short answers! Thanks,

Should I flirt with him or just tell him?
Flirting is like teasing. So, you tease with him, but you shouldn't just tell the guy. I used to like this guy, and basically, flirting is telling him that you like him. I think you should flirt with him, and wait for him to tell you he likes you. Let him do the dirty work, and you do the waiting. It may seem hard, but it's as easy as eating ice-cream! So, I suggest you not to tell him, but flirt. It works, and it's a very usful device.





American Heritage Dictionary - Cite This Source flirt (flûrt) Pronunciation Key


v. flirt·ed, flirt·ing, flirts





v. intr.





To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.


To deal playfully, triflingly, or superficially with: flirt with danger.


To move abruptly or jerkily.





That's the definition of flirting from the dictionary. It's the first one, so it should give you an idea of what flirting is.





I hope I helped you!


Good Luck!


Dann
Reply:Hey.


Good Questioon.Same happened to me.


If you dont know him then you have to become friends and flirt alot just to getr him to know you and know somethingis up.If you know the guy then flirt but not to much because if you know him very well he will deff. think that you are joking.after knowing the guy and doing your thing.spend some alone time.afterwards....you could call hm and ask about his relationships....ask him if he thinks of you more than a friend but tell him you were just wondering because it just popped in your head if he says yes you flat out tell him you liked him too and kind of himt you might still do.if he says no then just say..me niether..


another way is e-mailing.forward a message like one of those ones you see on myspace where its like..."if you like someone alot...but they dont know and you dont know if they like you backk thing then reply to this."


and then again you could just upright telll him.


Make sure he isnt taken though and dont be upset if he doesnt tell you right away or he shrugs it off,just keep asking...and joking alittle.((if he says youre a sister to him,let him know that isnt what you want in a way))
Reply:How you flirt depends on the guy that you like. Smile a lot and look at him a lot if you're in a group. Laugh at his jokes and talk to him a lot. Even if you just want to talk about something casual to get the conversation going, that's fine.





If you want to tell him that you like him, you should know him pretty well first. If you already know him well, go for it! If you don't, flirt with him and get to know him as a friend before you tell him flat out.





Good luck!
Reply:You don't ask you don't get.





Tell the guy, ask him for a drink, to the movies, whatever his and your interests might be.





The worst he can say is no and then at least you will know where you stand immediately, rather than dancing around the issue for weeks or months figuring out how the hell you're supposed to make him notice you and womdering if he's getting your signals.
Reply:Well first of all does he notice you at all, that's the first step,make sure he knows your around. Second flirting with someone you like is ok, it shows them that your interested in them, but it could also give them mixed signals like do you flirt with everyone, and most guys don't want a girl who is a flirt. My suggestion is to just let him know how you feel,being honest is always the best way to start out with someone,also make sure he's available. You can start a conversation with him and flirt alittle at the same time, this way it's directed right at him and not from across the room. Let him know your interested in getting to know him better, and if he would interested in going out sometime. Being straight forward usally gets you the answers that you want, don't be upset if he is involved with someone, just say well when you become available give me a call, and walk away gracefully.And if he's not interested then just move on, there will be other guys.Because sometimes flirting is just that and doesn't lead to anything, but if your straight forward you have a better chance of where you stand.