Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Is it wrong to flirt with girls you won't date, AT ALL!?

I had to clear that question up. I flirt because I like to make people laugh and when I'm flirting with girls they giggle and blush, I like that! I flirt with about 6 different girls but I won't date them(don't say tell'em that takes the joy out of it). I'm not a "playa" because I'm not leading them on, is it wrong?

Is it wrong to flirt with girls you won't date, AT ALL!?
I flirt with girls I wouldn't date all the time. It's good for the self-esteem to get a positive reaction out of them. They probably have no intention of dating you either, but flirting and reciprocating makes people feel attractive, and sometimes that's all people need.
Reply:If your just telling jokes, no, but if you get handsy then yes, its not black and white in this matter, there are shades of grey
Reply:nope it is not wrong i do it all the time lol
Reply:Well, yes and no. It's wrong if they think you're actually interested. But if you're just flirting to flirt because it's fun, and you both know nothing's going to happen then it's fine. I flirt with guys I'd never date, but I make sure they understand I'm not really interested.
Reply:The way I see (and practice) it is that there are two types of flirting: mutual, and friendly. Mutual flirting is when you both go at it, in large or small crowds, basically gettign as much attention from each other as possible. Friendly, however, is just doing it to, as you said, make them laugh. Just don't get too intimate, but if you're like that with a lot of girls, there shouldn't be too much trouble because they should understand.
Reply:primary reason girls don't like flirts. never know what you are up to. Do you ever get laid is my question.
Reply:well in a way its wrong because maybe the girl really likes u and ur jus messin w/ her head.....well i kno how u feel and i kno how the girl may feel because i love to flirt but it doesnt mean im a Wh0re so as long as u dont play the girl out
Reply:NOPE! There is nothing wrong in flirting. Flirting is what makes life fun!!
Reply:If you're asking this question, maybe you think it is wrong and you're looking for justification to clear your conscience. I'm a flirt, but I don't take it far enough to leading one to believe they have a shot. I'm a sports girl anyway, so I have a lot of guy acquaintences, only natural to joke and flirt I guess.
Reply:yes and no...it dependss on the girl ...if she's he type who takes things seriously its best u don't flirt cuz it'll cause some misunderstandings...other than dat i think its fine...
Reply:it all depends on the degree or to the extent that you are flirting with them. don't give them false hope but it's ok to talk and make them smile just don't go overboard. why is it that you won't date them? that might be a contributing factor as to why you are questioning if it is wrong.
Reply:no. flirting is fun and silly. nothing has to come out of it. but just watch yourself you can break a lot of hearts that way. and i know this because they all come on to yahoo answers and posts things like " he flirts with me all the time, does he like me?" and what not, so just make sure its only friend flirting.
Reply:YES IT'S WRONG TO FLIRT WITH GIRLS YOU WON'T DATE BECAUSE GIRLS MIGHT GET THERE HOPES UP AN THE FINDS OUT THAT YOU DO NOT WANT HER SO IT IS WRONG STOP DOING IT.
Reply:why bother unless u getting laid in the end
Reply:kidding around and having fun is one thing, don't lead them on making them think you're interested in them when you're not, thats wrong.


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