I'm a compulsive flirt. What should I do...?

Okay, so, I'm kind of a "compulsive flirt." That's just my thing. It's what I do. I'm not even flirting with guys- I guess it just seems like I am. I get all giggly and smile and touch their arm or whatever whenever they're talking to me. I can't really help it. The words "Baby" and "Sweetie" are just a part of how I talk. Thing is, I have a boyfriend and he just doesn't understand. He actually gets mad at me when I "flirt" with other guys. I've told him that it's not really something I can control but he's just like, "Wow. No, I really think you can." Is anybody else like this? Do you know how to "control" it or whatever. I mean, it really is just what I do. GOSH. LoL! Thanks.





Love Always-- Summer Hampton*

I'm a compulsive flirt. What should I do...?
Quit being so insecure and needy.





And why dont you put yourself in your boyfriends place. I bet you wouldnt like it if he was doing it to you.
Reply:Flirting is a natural occurence that can be controlled. It simply takes awareness. Flirting while in a relationship is the lowest one can go to make their significant other feel worthless. Your flirting is hurting. Your man or woman in your life, is your life, flirt with them: Report It

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Reply:With your looks the trouble is you know what you can do and not what you should do.


Big difference.


You can't party forever but, until then, go girl go.
Reply:listen, you really can control it. I got this hot neighbour(girl), she's a flirt and that time i didn't know she had a boyfriend and so it felt as if she was it for me, i mean she was like touching and all. Just like you. see, your boyfriend will kinda feel insecure, he might think that when he's away you might make a move on the other guy, meaning he'll lose his trust in you. and therefore break up. see when i came to know she already got a BF and that that's her nature, it was a lil heartbreaking and that's not good meaning i wouldn't like her company. Her boyfriend gets frustrated, nowadays i talk to her keeping a distance. Listen you wouldn't like it if he was like that. it would be hard but you can stop yourself if you tried. Adios amigos- boy that was long
Reply:You are a bird happy to let your wings expand - you're boyfriend on the other hand is an ape in a cage.
Reply:If your boyfriend cannot handle the way you speak and is mad about it, I think that it is time to get over him and find someone else using your obvious flirting skills. Email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com or IM me.
Reply:I think flirters r just missunderstood truly friendly gragarious people who just go out of their way 2 make others feel loved n welcome in their world. If ur not taking it 2 the next step then ur boy friend shouldnt feel threatend n have more faith in ur relationship, u %26amp; enjoy watching u enjoying ur friends.
Reply:seems like you already know what your doin wrong...you say you get all smiley and giggly and touch their arms...well...then just stop doin that.
Reply:as long as you do the same thing with girls it should be good, but if not you are disrespecting your boyfriend.
Reply:You're so gorgeous, Summer, that your bf should be grateful for whatever attention you do give him. It's selfish to try and keep you all for himself!
Reply:hey summer my girl is the very same but she goes home with me every night.


Do not change anything about yourself because if your boyfriend is like me its what attracted me to my girlfriend and she is awesome
Reply:stay indoors an keep away from taken men . BABE
Reply:No, I am not this way, and frankly I am quite the opposite. Are you just as friendly with women? If it is really a reflection of your warm personality, then you are kind to everyone, and it should matter less to your boyfriend. Eventhough your boyfriend may trust you, he may just be concerned that you may give some guys the wrong impression, and then you will invite some flirting back.


As far as "controlling" it, I think the fact that you are AWARE of it, is one step closer to controlling it....that is, if WANT to. If his feelings matter to you, you will try.
Reply:if you don`t try and control this you boyfriend will leave you for someone else who can control what they say and do! if he does leave you, to me you strike me as a person who would take it badly and flirt some more until you don`t have a choice in saying no (if you know what i mean) and the police won`t take it to serious as that's what your known as a flirt. stop now before it is to late.
Reply:soon u will know how it feels soon when he starts doing the same and about how to stop it /spend more time with your bf
Reply:then you should learn how to control yourself because if your boyfriend breaks up with you it will be your problem to deal with, not ours
Reply:That's not flirting - it's just being sweet. No need to change :)
Reply:call me sometime
Reply:my girlfriend says tat all the time to me
Reply:Is there not a porn star called Summer Hampton . Just stop being a flirt and a dizzy blonde . more people will like you for who you are and not what you look like if you stop all your silly giggling and touching , maybe you are still young and daft
Reply:its a part of you its how you express yourself its nothing to change controll or be sorry about. just tell him he fell for you how you are and you cant change somethin about yourself just like that
Reply:Well turn it around, how would you feel if he was flirting with other women?
Reply:he's jealous. don't change yourself for him
Reply:Well.... I need the answer to that to.... so am I:) Well... I wish you could help but I cant but this is the advice I got CLAM DOWN thats it ok hope I helped:)
Reply:why would you want to change the person you are, its what makes you who you are, if your bf and you got together and you were like this then why should you change who you are, after all this was what he fell in love with





no one should have to change from the person they were when they first met, its totally uncalled for and is asking to much, if i was you i would tell him that this is what he fell in love with and you shouldn't have to change, if he doesn't like it tell him what he can do because he sounds controlling
Reply:Firstly...have plastic surgery to make your nose look bigger...DONT! whatever u do! bleach your hair, that's a sure NO NO! guys just HATE mousy brown hair...wear your grans clothes and eat as many cakes as u can in a month......Keep up the flirting......Good luck!
Reply:Haha. Okay I know I'm a guy, but I'm kinda like that. I'm so used to flirting with any girl, that it's just how I talk now. I'm not sure what you should do about your boyfriend though. My girlfriend dumped me cause I couldn't stop flirting with girls. =( Oh well. Haha, sorry if that lowered your confidence, but, good luck!
Reply:I have the same problem Im a huge flirt so was my mom so thats why I am that way my advise is find someone thats okay with that and explain that too them before you get too involved flirting is a good thing as long as thats all it is dont beat yourself up over it its just who you are
Reply:babe i wanna have a slumber party with you again so bad. that was so long ago- let's see was it september-ish? i think we're due for anothr one real soon. it was so much fun. lyke you got no idea. by far the best SLUMBER PARTY i've ever attended. you're a amazin party buddy. =P








...hope your bf wudn't mind. so who u goin out with this week? lol jk. seriuosly tho did i meet him wen i visited u at all
Reply:I'm a compulsive flirt what should I do?


Em tough on that let's start by not flirting for a day!


then flirt again then leave it for two days and so on and eventually you'll be cured!.
Reply:Sounds like u are a peoples person with a great personality.


Your boyfriend should not act so immature about it.


Tell him to flirt himself if he can.