How to flirt (with a guy)?

In a previous question I asked, I gave more details about this quiet guy I like - I was told in an answer that he was being turned off by my playing hard to get and that I needed to "loosen up a little let him think you are his" ... but I don't know how to do that, or how to flirt and make it obvious that I like him.





I cannot tell him or ask him in this situation because he runs a club that I am in and it would be very awkward after if he didn't actually like me in return and I was misinterpreting.





How do I flirt with him or how should I "loosen up a little let him think you are his"? I am kind of shy myself...

How to flirt (with a guy)?
ok, playing hard-to-get with a shy guy is the worst thing u could've done. i used to b shy, so i no from personal experience that shy guys always wiat for the girl to come to them, they'll NEVER make a move. if u play hard to get with him, he'll think u just dont like him, that's probably why he started to ignore u. no worries though, u can redeem yourself. if u really want him, u really have to act like ur into him, the more confident he becomes with u, the more he'll open up to u, then u guys can become good friends. i really used to be shy like this, and this is exactly what i did when girls did this to me. ok, now for the flirting part. this whole flirting thing is compleatly different with shy guys so here's the modifyed version: if u really want him to talk to u back, then u have to balence ur flirting, not too strong but at the same time not too subtle. if he starts to act kinda nervous than maybe u are flirting too hevily with him and he doesn't know what the crap to do, if he isn't really reacting enough to u, than u need to step it up a little. some stuff u can do: wink at him while talking to him, hit him softly while laughing as a joke, say hi to him every time u pass him in the halls, smile a lot at him, even if you guys aren't talking, talk to him about nothing, u no, stuff like jokes where both of you guys "play along" for a long time. the most important thing that makes guys notice u are(but might be too much for this shy guy) sexual inuendos, u no, like subtle jokes that are kinda sexual, like when u barrow a pensil say something like "wow, that's a BIG pensil u got there." that may be a little too much, but u can make it a subtle as u want. when a guy hears that, he'll instantly notice u, even if he's not interisted. stuff that lets him no how attractive u are: flip your hair a lot, brush it by him if u have to, move around, even just a little might make him turn to c u. instant noticers include: touching/rubbing your leg or arm or something, not in a nasty way but in a soft way, and moce slowly. those are just some suggestions, u cant really tell if u should/shouldn't use them on this guy, so try them out, see what his reaction to them is.





if this seems like ur not really ready to do this kinda stuff, then u just need to talk to him more and become better friends with the dude. if u need a conversation starting methed, e-mail me. just so u know where im comming from, im a senior in HS myself so i really no how this whole thing works, im not just some random guy tring to give u advise, i really know how it is. remember, we only have like 3/4 of a year left in HS, then we'll never see these people agian, it's totally worth taking a little extra risk, if u fail and he rejects u, u wont really have to c him the rest of your life. (except maybe at HS reunions, but u dont have to go) i really do hope this worls out for u, best of luck to ya.
Reply:Make sure you smile and stay confident. Make eye contact.


But overall, just don't try too hard. Trust me he'll know if you're trying too hard. Just be yourself and try to talk to him.
Reply:i have that same problem


since ur shy it might be little


difficult but u can't help that





my tip is to talk


and become good friend


then move on from there
Reply:ALL U NEED 2 DO AT FIRST IS LOOK AT HIM AND LET HIM KNOW U ARE OR SOME PEOPLE WILL LOOK AWAY REAL FAST AS THEY LOOK THEN THEY WILL SEE U WAS LOOKING AND DIDNT WANT THEN TO SEE U LOOKING. TRY THAT FOR STARTERS. WITH SHY GUYS IT IS HARD AS HELL TO GET THEM TO MAKE THAT FIRST MOVE.
Reply:hi
Reply:well im not gonna give u advice 2 flirt wit somebody


but i am gonna tell u wat not 2 say 2 us boyz


dont aproach us if yo breath stank


start off by sayin sumthin simple like hey


or how ya doin

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