I think its one thing to flirt, but another to make it SO in your face... I think its disrespectful, rude and unfair to the other person and the relationship in your life to be so overtly sexual, passionate or affectionate while being involved in an emotional relationship with someone else. Everyone knows when they are being innocent and when they are being Intentional..., but people lookiing in from the outside do not have the insight into another persons feelings and it can be looked at and construded as Intentional when it is innocent.... Only the person doing the flirting knows for sure in what way and why they are flirting, and its up to that person to be true to themselves and other people close to them in their lives INCLUDING the person they are fllirting with to make it clear. Friends I think will be flirtatious and kid %26amp; joke around with one another, but its a delicate balance between being subtle and being overtly rude and disrespectful, also even if it is harmless fun,
Is it Ok to flirt while in a relationship?
Paragraphs are you friend seriously. I couldn't be bothered to read it all because the lack them. I will say this however.
Every relationship has its own rules depending on whom you are with. You have only 2 choices. You can either say 1. I am whom i am and I'm a flirt, no man/woman or relationship will change that. Or 2. I will respect what my SO feels about it and follow what is ok in THIS relationship.
Relationships in the second category last the longest. The people in the first category are single a lot or jump between a lot of relationships.
Communicating what is OK in a relationship is a must. Respect each others boundaries and all will be well. Some don't mind flirting some do. Nothing is set in stone that applies to all people
Reply:oh yea theres nothign wrong about it, im sure your girlfriend flirts a lot too.
Reply:No
Reply:Seems to me that you answered your own question.
Reply:Flirting is fine as long as
A) the person youre with doesnt know, and
B) you dont end up kissing or sleeping with the person you're flirting with.
Reply:flirting is okay when ever where ever, its you having harmless fun
Reply:I agree 100%. Really, the only person who views it as unintentional is the person doing the flirting, cuz even the boyfriend/girlfriend would not be okay with the flirting and would on the side wonder why this person is doing it at all. I just don't think it's necessary to flirt, but I guess that's where the true test is. If I'm in a relationship I'm not gonna flirt with anyone because in my mind I'm with the only person I want to flirt with that's why I got him. I admit in the past I have flirted with my gay male friends, even in front of a guy I actually like, but it was more loving in a friendship way above anything else.
I don't flirt with anyone anymore because I'm about finding the real deal. It's that simple for me.
Reply:Couldn't agree more.
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