Girlfriends a flirt..?

My girlfriend and I went to a 4th of July party yesterday. She seemed to barely pay any attention to me and went around flirting with all my guy friends. Not only did she flirt but kissed two of them. To make matters worse she's been talking to her Ex boyfriend and from what it looks like she enjoys his company more than mine. She tells me she loves me to death but seems to really show it. Every time I try to bring this up with her she blames it on me and say "If you're not happy with me then you're not happy with yourself" %26amp; "If you want this to workout then you need to love yourself to be in love with me." Please give me some help and no stupid answers.

Girlfriends a flirt..?
It's a game she is playing. you can play the game too or leave the game.


If you are going to play, don't make any comments about her flirting with other guys. Just flirt with her girlfriends or girls in general. Tell them you like their hair that way or they have nice eyes or they look hot in that outfit. It will get back to her.


She might start to feel the way you feel.


If you are not going to play then you say i'm sorry, I guess I love myself too much. I want you all to myself when it comes to love. I thought we had a commitment. People in a commited relationship don't flirt with others. I love you very much, but I need to progress into a relationship that is more exclusive.


start with the first part, then move to the second part.


There are a lot of beautiful women out there that want to date someone. It could be you.
Reply:So, you are now the safe haven, and she goes out and gets exitement elsewhere.


Plus, MyLady can not do anything wrong, only you can.


If you don't like her flirting around, you should take action.





Actually, she's right in that.


You should take action. She won't change because you whine and plead. That's not the sort of guy she respects.





So break up with her over this. Be resolute.


If she loves you, she'll beg and plead to come back. If she does, give her a frown and think it over.


If she doesn't... then that means you she tolerates you as long as you give in to whatever she wants. If she's mature enough for a relationship, it certainly is not with you.





So whatever happens, you're better off if you break it off.
Reply:Hey, I may be wrong, but I would leave her if I were you. If she is flirting with all those other guys that bad she's not worth it. She might be playing th field behind your back. I mean, I have a flirty personality, and I don't mean it, it's just the way I act around guys, but I have a boyfriend now, and I make sure that everyone knows it. It's not cool to cheat, and she's getting pritty close.
Reply:man your girl is going to cheat on you if she already hasn't...let me ask why would you let two of your so called friends kiss your girl? that doesnt seem like a quality i would want in a friend...it seems to me like she is trying to make you mad and she probaly wants you to leave her or why else would she do these things? i say let her go and find someone better
Reply:well if she did really love you to death she wouldn't be kissing other guys or flirting with them i think you should really try to work things out with her if that doesn't work then you should ask her if she needs her space and if she does then break up because she doesnt deserve you if she did love you then she really shouldnt have done what she did at the 4th of July party.


I hope i helped you a little bit :) hope everything turns out ok
Reply:it sounds like she doesn't deserve you shes needs to be able to be with just one guy and know that doen't mean go around kissing and talking to other guys when she is supossed to be with you if she puts you down she doesn't love you there is a lot of other girls that would love to be with you
Reply:She is using some psycho babble on you to cover up her need for constant attention from men. Break up with her and find yourself a girlfriend who wants to be with you.
Reply:I can tell you right now she's not worth the trouble that you're going to find yourself in. Its best to sever your ties before she can control you from an emotional standpoint. You're eventually going to be cheated on from the looks of it. I ought to know, I was in your position before.





Living Large: Did you not read that his gf is kissing other guys and having intimate contact with her ex bf? What's there to trust? Under no circumstances should anyone, male or female, do that. He's just going to find himself in 2nd or 3rd place to her.
Reply:SHE KISSED TWO OF THEM IN FRONT OF YOU?! Dump her! I have a question about a fourth of july party too, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:she may have been drunk or maybe YOU need to adopt this philosophy: nothing is official until there is an engagement ring (at least) on her finger. if you want to be exclusive ask her to marry you
Reply:You need to sit her down and honestly don't beat around the bush. Say like honestly, "Why the hell is it that I can't seem to trust you?" Thats what it seems like to me; that you don't seem to trust her. Maybe trying to approach the subject carefully, is making it easier to give you responses that close the subject and still annoy you.





Being blunt, I think, is whats going to get her to finally talk to you about her flirting. She shouldn't be turing this back onto you when her who's doing all the flirting. If you're blunt you can express more of your opinion straight off the bat.





Don't let her whip this issue back on you, you gotta stand up for what you really need to say.





I hope I helped; Good Luck!
Reply:look for another girl. leave your gf w/ her antiques style. u dont deserve her in the first place.
Reply:...hmmmmmmmm....ur jus gonna have to wait it out and c wat happins. shes with you all the time she just needed to talk it out wit some fresh faces....normal......if she loves u she wont cheat on u....n if u dont want to mess it up because of insecurity than u need to trust her.....jus wait it out thats all u really can do
Reply:Duuuuuude! Shes been going round kissing your friends?


Do you like her a lot. Cos i think things between you two mmight be..
Reply:She's never going to stop... Dump her.
Reply:leave her sk**** a**, she cheated on you!!!! who cares about her and flirting!!!! and for her to blame the whole thing on finding yourself then she is just looking for people to blame!!!! (besides herself),,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,... her once a cheater always a cheater!!!!! i cant believe you are still with her??? u crazy!!ya you can love her to pieces but if she doesnt love you back then there is a one person relationship!!!in a relationship both people are supposed to contribute....and there is no point f loving ne one if they dont love yu back. and about her calling her ex...........there is no valid reason for that. ya they can b friends but they can talk when they see eachother..not wen they call eachother...that is uncalled for again!!!!!

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