Do you purposely flirt with other guys to prove to your man youre still attractive/wanted?

Sometimes i flirt with other guys then tell my bf about what happened because he has a real hard time complimenting me/saying nice things to me like other guys can





It even started a fight between us once where i said "TONS of guys tell me how pretty i am all the time, but the one i actually WANT to hear it from, doesnt!" He said i was right %26amp; that he would try to change





Sometimes i feel like i flirt with people just to get some attention. Not because i want to cheat, but just to feel pretty.





Does anyone else do this?

Do you purposely flirt with other guys to prove to your man youre still attractive/wanted?
NO, that's silly. My man gives me all the attention I need. While I do still get attention from other guys, I certainly don't go "asking" or "looking" for the attention. And I would not even try to go looking for that kind of attention because that would be DISRESPECTFUL to my husband.
Reply:Not like that, but yes I do tell my boyfriend if someone chats me up and I'm not averse to getting a little extra attention from a nice man in front of my beloved...
Reply:yes....i feel guilty afterwards but we deserve 2 be complimented!!!
Reply:You're a low self-esteem attention whore. You need to be reminded constantly how good you look because you're to weak to accept yourself for who you are. You need the constant reassurance from everyone else that you're okay because you don't believe yourself to be okay.





Long story short: You've got more baggage than a fat lady on a ValuJet.
Reply:Sounds like you may be fishing for some needed attention. This really is not a respectful way to treat your boyfriend though. Sit down with him and tell him what you need from your relationship. You'll both be a lot happier once you're on the same page!
Reply:No, thats pretty harsh. How would you feel if your boyfriend flirted with other girls all the time the bragged to you about it.
Reply:My wife does it and I love it.





It gets me really worked up to see the interest guys pay in her.





I reckon it is ok, just enjoy yourself and hopefully your bf will learn to relax.
Reply:Grow up-if he is still with you he must like something about you. playing childish games just to get you attention is so 2nd grade.
Reply:I'm guilty of this at times, and I have to tell you that my husband is the same way. Since he doesn't change I go on enjoying compliments from other men and wish it was my hubby!
Reply:this behavior are for immature men.
Reply:I'm not a girl.


But don't do this. It might get you into a lot of trouble.


Yes, a lot do this.
Reply:A woman who does this is clearly an immature ittle girl and is not by any means attractive. Mind games shows a lack of maturity and lack of the willingness to communicate.





Grow up and get over yourself. Flirting with other guys is cheating if you're exclusive with someone.





In order to deserve to be complimented, you need to earn it. This goes for both genders. And by your actions, you clearly don't deserve to get complimented when you're trying to get attention from any guy who gives it to you.
Reply:you're just gonna put a huge gap between you guys.. stop doing this and just be upfront with him.. tell him about how you crave for compliments from him...
Reply:Guilty! : )
Reply:no that childish it show that u want attention.whats the point men are just crazy they see what they wanna see and here what they wanna here its not u as long as i kept my self up and i know i look good it wouldn't matter to me whether or not he ever payed me a compliment some men dont like for that stuff to go to women's head. i wouldn't even tell my X. sum times he would happened to run up on a guy giving me one and i would say hey do get mad at cuz he gave me a compliment cuz its not like im ugly or some thin. that would irritate him more just to know ok its other guys saying this to u and ur not tell me or what are u saying to them and y wouldn't u just say hey i have a man. and i would say yea i do hav a man but y would i lie to them and say u shouldnt give me compliments cuz that would upset my boyfriend NOT ??? it would eat his ego up everytime
Reply:you sound like a horable girlfriend, glad your not mine.