i have a friend who is thirteen and is a guy and he is probably the biggest flirt ever. it is soo annoying, he does it a school, church, partys. he is really bothering everyone, the girls and the guys, how can i tell him politely to STOP FLIRTING WITH EVERYONE? i tried the whole joke thing, you know " oh hhh stop flirting with emma!" all funny like but he doesnt get it. his friends are like dude stop but i dont think he knows how many people he is turning off and he is my friend and i dont what to hurt him. what should i do?
How can you tell a flirt to stop with out hurting their feelings?
He sounds very insecure and this is his way of "testing" the waters to see how the gals will respond. You have to be upfront and tell him. If you have someone at your church that you trust, a teacher or preacher, then have a heart to heart with them to try and talk to him. Flirting can be cute and sweet, but too much can mean something a little more weird is going on with him. Either way, he does need some help. So be his friend and see if an adult can help him ok.
Reply:Well if he's thirteen he's not going to get it if you try to hint him to stop, so just pull him aside and tell him "I know you're just being friendly but you're sort of turning people off so I think you should cool it for a little bit." Hopefully he'll be cool about it.
Reply:Umm..maybe send him an anonymous email?
Hehe...
Reply:slap him
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