Why would someone flirt with you and lead you to think?

there could be "something" between the two of you, and when you ask him out, he's "in a relationship"





Do people flirt just to flirt, or with some hidden agenda?

Why would someone flirt with you and lead you to think?
This has happened to me SO MUCH.





I'll NEVER know the answer to this question. This question has ALWAYS been in my mind.





My guess is that they flirt to boost their ego, they flirt because they realize that they DO like you but are too scared to go after you, or they like you but find someone else or had someone else the entire time.





I think those are the best educated guesses I can make going through a lot of this myself.





Actually, the last part (they like you but find someone else or had someone else the entire time) can be true. It's happened to me. He had a girlfriend the entire time and eventually (years later) told me that he considered breaking up with her to be with me. And again, it happened with another guy.





Flirting is dangerous. I think it should only be done when you want to actually be with the person. Because a lot of the times, flirting can be hurtful in the end.
Reply:People flirt because they are stupid. It empowers stupid people.
Reply:As far as my knowledge is concerned about guy they are looking for hot chick to go around and have fun including sex. As psychologist say, guy give love to get sex back and girl give sex to get love back.





Thats the different of girl and guy. Some guys like Casanova will flirt and stay away when it get serious.
Reply:some people flirt because they are by nature a flirt.some because they like the person they flirt with and hopes something will come out of it. some people flirt because they are hoping they can take advantage of the weakness of the person they flirt with. just consider this. if a guy flirts at you, and you like him, ask him why.he might really like you and if so, your choice to move to a deeper level. but, if a guy flirts at you and you don't like him, ignore him.
Reply:yes, yes,yes
Reply:some guys like to flirst, I personally am a constant flirter but I would not lead someone on if I was in a relationship. Some guys need to make sure they are still "HOT" or attractive to keep up their self esteem. I mean if you knew others wanted you I'm sure it would be a self esteem boost!
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Reply:he might just want to play with u!...but he maybe fall in luv with u too, but...he cannot express it well!
Reply:Often, flirting is a way for people to validate themselves as still attractive or desirable to the opposite sex. Insecure people will often flirt a lot.
Reply:flirting is also a way to make friends.
Reply:people flirt cuz is challenging and dangerous. is also a reacquiring act towards most relationship, its animal instinct, and the intense feeling of having to be with another is over whelming it will change when the next stage of life comes alone. so live and learn try not to be one
Reply:well, basically they juz wan 2 prove they have charm.
Reply:people flirt for a number of reasons. my friends who are all married,say that they flirt to see if they have still "got it"! in other words to feel good about themselves,while i,on the other hand could not flirt to save my life!


you are definitely right,there is always an agenda.
Reply:i flirt with everyone i think most open and happy people do i have been married for 4 years and sometime we just want to know if we still got it i don't mean to hurt other people and most of the time i am open and honest about being with some one that i am just out there to have fun. my man is a very big flirt to but i know that he would never cheat so i don't sweat it. so to answer your ? yes some people just flirt to flirt, but on the other hand i think that some people have hidden agendas!!!