Tuesday, August 17, 2010

How to flirt?

Help me, give me some pointers on how to flirt....e-practice would be fine! I want to get in with me best friend's group, predominantly guys, and they all love to flirt. And i need a boyfriend.

How to flirt?
Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you. STEP 2: Smile, smile, smile. STEP 3: Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others. STEP 4: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters. STEP 5: Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh. STEP 6: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall. STEP 7: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore. STEP 8: Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet. STEP 9: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection , make a bold move - ask for a date
Reply:Look him in the eyes.





Smile.





Smile with a slight giggle. Very slight.





Smile with a little wink.





Play with your hair a little bit.





Lick your lips while looking at his lips. As if you would like to kiss him.





Bat your eyes at him. Don't over do it, though.





Make some excuse to touch his hands. Like, "Oh, your hands are so big...mine are so small." Or, "Would you mind if I read your palm?"





Play up his ego. How tall he his, how big his shoulders are, etc.





Get the idea?





Good luck.
Reply:do u need a boyfriend or want one?do u want to fit in or work out?answer these questions to ur heart and ur mind and ur soul and ur body.flirting is hitting on ppl.u need to have a feeling and birthness to do it.and flirting is just like talkin but to the opposite sex about urself and the person u're talkin to.


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