Why Flirt & Be Married?

Hi everyone, My name here is Spice and I'm a big flirt! The wife knows it - I've told her. We have been and still are married (18yrs) come July 22nd 2006. We have 4 wonderful children - ages 17/15/13/%26amp; 9...





The wife tells me that it's okay to window shop (AS LONG AS) I do not stop and sample the goods. She has also told me that she doesn't really care what I do on the web as long as the other person stays on the other side of the screen and does not show up on her door step.





I was a huge flirt before we married and I guess I'll die the same way. I have not been unfaithful to my wife in a physical sense. I told her as long as the ring remain on my finger that I would never dip else where....18yrs and I have stuck to that...in the physical sense.





I enjoy our marriage and I do love her very much but I sometimes get lonely and bored...not with her but myself. She has always been and always will be my Earth Angel!





BTW - H-E-L-L-O Ladies....*Wink*

Why Flirt %26amp; Be Married?
There's nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting.Sometimes in marriage life becomes monotonous,flirting is just a way of reassuring ourselves that we still HAVE IT.
Reply:dude, sounds like some things are bothering you. go see a priest for a confessional, don't confess here. lataz!
Reply:Exactly, WHY flirt AND be married?





Personally, i think you gave up the right to flirt 18 years ago.





it's great that you're wife is so understanding, but if you were my husband...I don't care how long we've been married, or how many children we have or WHAT...if you want to go window shopping in someone else's store, than you need to stop paying rent at mine.
Reply:well one day you just might be devestated when you find out that your wife is doing the same.





flirting is cheating!
Reply:That was a lot of blah blah...Where's the question??
Reply:From a female perspective. I don't like it when my husband flirts. I think it makes me to be an old hag or the ole ball and chain. After reading your question, I might look at this flirting issue in a different light. As long as there is no physical contact with someone else it is okay.





Let's put the shoe was on the other foot is it okay with you when your wife flirts. Cause my husband does not like it at all.
Reply:?
Reply:umm is this a question?
Reply:Lucid One -





How do you see it as cheating? Mankind as a whole enjoys the oppsite sex. We love attention, we love to be noticed. A warm smile, a tender word or two is far from wrong.





As for it being a shock if the wife was doing the same - she knows all to well how to bat an eye....lol