Im not a flirt. at all.?

well as you may have read, im not a flirt. in fact, i cant remember the last time i did. sure i giggle when a guy says something funny but thats about it.





actually, i think its becuase they dont really approach me in that way. could they find me boring? or do i give off too much of this cute little quiet, nice girl vibe(?)? people tell "oh your so cute" and "your so nice" and "you look so innocent" but on the other hand, when im with my good friends, i get pretty "enthusiastic" as they say and hyper.





is that why guys dont really flirt with me? or is it just me????





:/ i dont know!

Im not a flirt. at all.?
I was just like this in high school, don't worry about it. At least you aren't attracting the wrong type of guy by being a major flirt. Yes this could be a reason why guys don't flirt with you and that is probably because they know that you can tell the difference from thier "game" and them actually having genuine feelings for you. Don't go ruining your advantage by becoming a flirt now! It's best to stay true to how you are and the RIGHT guy will come along.





oh and BTW, just because guys haven't been flirting with you that doesn't mean that there aren't some that like you. It wasn't until I got out of high school that I found out how many guys had crushes on me *LoL*. but it was a good thing I didn't because If I dated any of them then I wouldn't have been available when someone better comes along!! I had NO IDEA that my current bf now had a crush on me in high school. He says he never flirted with me because he didn't want to show me any disrespect by getting at me like he would get at other girls. I'm glad he didnt because I probably wouldn't have fallen in love with him, I and been in the greatest relationship in my life. :)
Reply:I have the same problem. Probably cuz i'm really small for my age and guys just see me like a little girl. Find a guy who's not that good of a flirt either and maybe one that's shy. Then he'll get to know you by talking before you actually start flirting :)
Reply:im not really sure because im exactly like you. but some guys like cute, innocent girls. i dont know why they dont flirt with you. or maybe they see you as a friend or like a sister. guys dont flirt with me because i look really young. just try to be more open around guys and not just around your friends. =)