Can a natural flirt be shy?

It's not that he's a player... it's just that he is confident, outspoken and flirts a lot.





He does flirt with me but sometimes I feel like he doesnt know what to say, hesitates or maybe just doesnt care to speak with me?

Can a natural flirt be shy?
My boyfriend was the same way when I met him. He was a loud mouth... Very flirty had lots of friends that were girls ... HE would talk to all of them but me! I thought he didnt like me! I thought he was to good... come to find out he did have feelings for me ... and he was just shy cause he didnt know how to go about talking to me . Everything changes when you like someone. because you dont want them to think you are a flirt right? Your more on egg shells and care what your crush thinks about you. Id step it up ... ya never know until you try
Reply:then hes not a natural flirt... confident and shy are two different things, youre probably getting a different message than whats hes trying to put out, if hes putting out a message in the first place. a natural flirt is better than hesitation, they can improvise... but even if he was, he can only go so far without you talking back. interact and keep the conversation between you two going
Reply:Of course he can, if the woman in question happens to be a potentially dangerous individual. You probably intimidate and scare the **** out of him in some way.
Reply:Yes he can be shy but once he gets familiar with you he won't be shy at all..
Reply:yes a natural flirt may be shy. it is possible to be ambivert. as in both intraverted and extraverted
Reply:a natural flirt can flirt with anybody, but when it comes down to someone he is really interested in it becomes a different story, because it is not understood what the correct approach is to that particular person, so that is the reason for the fumbling, forgetfulness and shyness. i kno i ama natural flirt, but when i first met my girlfriend i couldn't seem t get my words together.
Reply:maybe he just needs to think about what hes gonna say...it happens to me, cuz i forget wut im about 2 say
Reply:Yes. Not always.


Flirts or even class clowns can be 'outgoing' in a group and shy with one person.
Reply:I can attest to this one. I'm a flirt, but completely shy. I guess I get over my closet shyness by being overly flirtatious. However, I'm totally oblivious to the opposing sex when it comes to being hit on or checked out.