How do I flirt with this guy?

Okay, so there's this guy who rides my bus, and I really like him, but he's an eighth grader, and I'm a seventh grader. So, he always talks to his eighth grade buddies instead of to me. How do I flirt with him without making it obvious that I like him? How do I flirt with him without my best friend (who also rides my bus and HATES him) finding out that I like him?





PLEASE HELP!!!

How do I flirt with this guy?
To look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a long sleeve and some ripped jeans to seem casual with flip flops with colored toenails, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof. Or if youre an emo/goth, wear your best band t-shirt and skinny jeans when going for the deep, sensitive, hot drummer.


Say Mississippi once in your head before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]


Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.


Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.


If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!


Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile!(Hold this stare for at least 3 seconds.) But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.


Practice everything in a mirror.


Try to be unique.


Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.


Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.


Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.


Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.


Don't try too hard to impress him.


Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.


Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.


When he is around his only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.


Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.


Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.


Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.


Massages are always nice.


Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.


Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.


Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"


Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.


Don't ever lie to him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is wrong, he'll become more open and you will feel more comfortable around him.


Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.


Give him small things, like a stick of gum, or a pencil.


Hint about a movie you'd like to see.


If you do hint about a movie get more friends to go so it's less awkward.


See something scary so you can grab him at the scary parts of the movie. He'll feel manly and needed.


Find out what his favorite band is, then when you are around him, casually hum one of their songs. Instant convo.


If you think he's into you, flirt so it's kinda obvious you're crushed by a crush, otherwise,just tell him


Make sure you are constant with your actions, if you just stop interacting with him for a few days he could think you're not interested


It's very important to look amazing not just for him but, because the sad truth is, EXAMPLE. You guys are hanging out at a carnival, flirting, kissing etc...but if a hot girl walks by, sadly, he probably will look at her, guys are guys, so don't get offended or do something stupid like be provocative to get him back in your hands, that just makes you look retarded and stupid.


Bite your bottom lip from time to time guys love it. (We really do!)


Sometimes we guys can be extremely dense. If you're getting the impression he's keeping your conversation at a friendship level try ONE very obvious flirt and gauge his response. It might take a second dose for him to shift paradigms and see you for the sweet thing you are but use it sparingly. When doing this you're making it more likely for him to risk returning your flirtations because you're shifting some of the rejection risk to yourself.


When you are talking on the phone, respect him and have mostly an equal limit of talking. you do not want one person talking and the other one just listening because it is most likely just the "yeahs" and the "mhms". Talk in short terms and be concise! This way both of you will be listening and he is sure to like you even more.


When you bite your lip, make sure you don't leave a dent. When you're at home, make sure you find ways to soften your lips for that special moment.


Try to make a joke when your with him, but don't make it a stupid joke either. Guys always like a good laugh.


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Reply:first off what difference does it make if she doesnt like him? if you guys hookup then she'll find out about it eventually... right. anyway.. when he sits on the bus go sit next to him and start a conversation.... be bold... in life if you really want something then you have to go after it because you never know he could be thinking the same thing about you.
Reply:Hmmmm.. Interesting question.. Perhaps start out by dropping something in front of him and see if he stops to help you out. That will tell you if he even knows you exist.. Then you can go from there! You know.. "Thanks... I'm __________" Just some simple conversation.