Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?

theres this really cute sophmore and his name is matt. (im a freshman) today in math we were flirting way more than usual. he walked behind my seat and i leaned my haed back to him and he put his hands on my shoulders and rubbed and massaged them. then he was like "when am i getting my massage?" and i laughed. then he was like "anna i love you" in a very comfortable way and i was like "i love you too." and he was like "so anna when are we gonna do it?" and i was like "whenever you want" and he was like "right here right now" and i laughed and was like "sure why not lol" . he walked me to class and he was like "u are definitely one of my favorite freshmen" and hes like "pretend like your my gf lol hold my hand" as a joke and i held his hand and it was the best feeling ever...when he was massaging me i felt shivers and tingles WOW...the problem is that he treats EVERY girl like this and i mean EVERY GIRL. he is the biggest flirt i have ever met. but hes really cute and i really like him. help!

Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
You really like him BECAUSE he's a big flirt and BECAUSE he's cute. There's nothing you can do about that.


If what you say is true, every other girl probably feels very similar about him the way you do. I hate to say it, because I know alot of girls that are the exact same way (very flirty with every guy they see and it drives me crazy) but you can't change the way someone is. If he's like that with every girl, chances are he isn't really interested in anything more.





But I could be wrong, so you would have to ask him personally.
Reply:u should ask em if he reallllllllllllllllly llllllllllllooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssss... u and if he did he would only flirt with u
Reply:I think you are doing good. the only problem with a guy like this is that he might bug you if you ended up dating because he's like this to every girl.





One of these days when he says something about liking you (not about sex) just say that you actually really do like him and its not just a joke. I wouldn't even worry about his reaction because odds are he like you too and even if for some odd reason he doesn't (because you sound fun and smarter than most) he's not the kind of guy who's going to worry about it too much.





See what happens...
Reply:OH MY, HE IS SOO GONNA A GREAT GUY FOR YOU. I personally don't know him, but oh well, from what you told me, he is great for you! You didn't say what the question was, but I think you were trying to say, " How am I going to tell him that I really like him without ruining our friendship?" Well, for me, (I've done a lot of match-making for my friends) I say you should say this





You: " I got to tell you something, Matt."





Matt: "What?"





you: " First, Promise me this won't ruin our friendship."





Matt: " it won't" or, " Don't worry, we'll still be friends."





You: *Just confess Don't know how you are going to put it in words, since I'm not you!*








HOPED I HELPED! :)








OH, AND I FORGOT, REMEMBER TO SEE IF HE FLIRTS LIKE THIS TO OTHER GIRLS, IF HE DOES, THAN HE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU. Just be careful and I wish you luck!








Ichigo Lunette








P.S. IF HE GETS AGGRESSIVE, (you know what I mean, like he gets mean to you) THEN YOU'LL KNOW HE IS A PLAYER!





Ichigo Lunette








P.P.S I know you are getting annoyed that i keep on changing my answer, but I read your thing again, and it said that he treats EVERY girl like this, then do not go with him. I'm telling you, I don't want to get you hurt.





Okay, if i edit this again, I am grounded. It's a promise I made to myself because I edit stuff too much!
Reply:He doesn't actually love you.


He even said so. He just wants 2 do it.


I know he flirted with u, but ur in 9th and he knows that


9th girls are easy 2 get. One of my friends went through


this. He knows you really like him and he is


just playing you. I know you want to think he loves you


but.... he actually doesn't.
Reply:So immature. He's not going to treat you as a friend from here and forward after your responce to him asking to "do it" with you. He's just going to look at you as some easy freshman he can get his rocks off with. It may sound harsh but it's true, sooooo many guys are like that in highschool and yes, I can actually talk about it because I'm done and through with highschool... thank goodness!
Reply:Im writing this stuff down.