I know how to flirt but I wanna know how you guys flirt with people....so I can have ideas?
I;m not asking how you flirt I'm asking what do YOU (you)do when you flirt with someone??
Cuz i need more ideas
How do you flirt?
A) You complement them on there clothes, beauty, etc.
B) Caress them
C) Sweet talk
D) IMPORTANT: BE YOURSELF, DON'T BE A FAKE.
E) Brag a tinny bit about yourself and your achievements
F) Don't get pushy.
Reply:i make jokes play footsies or the guy i like puts his feet on my chair knock them off he puts em back ten i hold em
92%of teens would be dead if Abercrombie%26amp;Fitch said it wasnt cool to breathe post it if you are the 8%who would be laughing
(ha ha yea i may be a prep but Abercrombie is overrated and yea... lol)
Reply:dress to show off my curves without looking skanky or too conservative.
sense of humour, giggling at jokes.
confidence
good positive outgoing attitude, down-to-earth
lots of eye contact
standing a little too close, sometimes accidentally brushing by
being sweet and generous yet honest
willing to state my mind at any given moment
act interested in what they're talking about
Reply:idk. look into their eyes. giggle when u r around them
wisdom teeth
Sunday, November 20, 2011
How do I flirt!?
Ok, so to start things off...I wanna be able to be a good flirt. I'm a gay male also by the way so if other gay guys could answer this for me that would be great, but any advice from anyway is always appreciated.
Anyway, I'm the type of guy who's never really been a big flirt before so this is kinda new to me, but what do you all like when it comes to flirting? What makes a good flirt and what can I do? (Please no answer like "Get in his pants or bed" or something like that, lol.)
Thanks a bunch everyone! :)
How do I flirt!?
ok..be playful, try to kinda joke around, try to have some physical contact with the person like kinda touch on the shoulder or somewhere there...i dont really know much about gay males(coz i usually help straight guys and those stuff works) so..that's all i can think of..
Reply:that helped cool! Report It
Reply:Flirting. Be natural, and don't try and be someone you're not. Make casual conversation, eye contact (if you can without getting distracted), and lots of smiles. I think the most effective way of getting to know someone is just talking to them on a regular basis. If you know someone who you really like, try to see them more often, eg. bus stop every morning. That way you'll feel more comfortable around them, and flirting may come easier. Good Luck!
Reply:be yourself, but be your best self. show them who you are :)
and usually you physically closer to them haha.
im a girl tho, but when i flirt with a guy i usually play with their hands :D and then i tell them they are really big. hahah
Reply:ask them if you can touch their penis
Reply:take off ur clothes!
Anyway, I'm the type of guy who's never really been a big flirt before so this is kinda new to me, but what do you all like when it comes to flirting? What makes a good flirt and what can I do? (Please no answer like "Get in his pants or bed" or something like that, lol.)
Thanks a bunch everyone! :)
How do I flirt!?
ok..be playful, try to kinda joke around, try to have some physical contact with the person like kinda touch on the shoulder or somewhere there...i dont really know much about gay males(coz i usually help straight guys and those stuff works) so..that's all i can think of..
Reply:that helped cool! Report It
Reply:Flirting. Be natural, and don't try and be someone you're not. Make casual conversation, eye contact (if you can without getting distracted), and lots of smiles. I think the most effective way of getting to know someone is just talking to them on a regular basis. If you know someone who you really like, try to see them more often, eg. bus stop every morning. That way you'll feel more comfortable around them, and flirting may come easier. Good Luck!
Reply:be yourself, but be your best self. show them who you are :)
and usually you physically closer to them haha.
im a girl tho, but when i flirt with a guy i usually play with their hands :D and then i tell them they are really big. hahah
Reply:ask them if you can touch their penis
Reply:take off ur clothes!
I'm a married guy who'd like to flirt w/ pretty gals on my daily train.What do gals like in terms of flirting?
I'm not looking to cheat on my wife, but would like to playfully flirt w/ all the pretty gals that ride on my daily commuter train. I'd be happy just talking to them and making friends. The problem is that I don't know what women prefer in terms of how to flirt. How do women want guys to let them know that they admire and have interest in them? Do women get 'creeped out' when guys flirt w/ them, or do they like it? How do you know if a gal flirts back?
I'm a married guy who'd like to flirt w/ pretty gals on my daily train.What do gals like in terms of flirting?
Show respect. Have some good manners. And if you do that, they will be the one who's going to flirt you.
Reply:IF YOU ARE MARRIED THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE FLIRTING AT ALL. HAVING FEMALE FRIENDS AND FLIRTING WITH THEM ARE TWO WAY DIFFERENT THINGS AND IN MY BOOK FLIRTING IS CHEATING SOOO... I WOULDNT DO IT AT ALL!!!
Reply:You have no business flirting at all! flirting is just an invitation, be wise and stop being a flirt! If there was a maried man flirting with me, the first thing that I'd think was I wonder how many times has he cheated on his wife? What a creep! sorry but this is true
Reply:Dude, i am telling your wife. Its me, u know me and i know your wife.
Reply:It's sad that you're flirting and you're married. Its gross and you should be ashamed of yourself. Instead of thinking if they like it, you should be looking for a marriage counselor. Sicko!!
Reply:If they know you are married they will creep out. You don't need to flirt. Be friendly and kind and talk about your wife and all the nice things you do for her. That leaves us women thinking wow what a lucky gal she is!
Reply:speaking as a woman, I'd prefer to flirt with a man that ISN'T married.
Reply:well if you're married, that constitutes cheating on your wife, right? if you love your wife, you shouldn't have to flirt with other women. if you want to flirt, flirt with your wife. i think guys who are married and flirt with me are creepy. and i know a lot of other women who have the same belief. Flirt with your wife. Send her cute messeges on her phone; give her a sexy stare at the dinner table; when you walk past her, purposly touch her somehow to show her you love her; tell her how sexy she is; treat her like the godess that she is. That's the things my husband does to me and it keeps our marraige fresh, and I love it. I'd rather be flirted with by my husband than any other hot guy i don't even know. But please, if you love your wife, don't flirt with other women...it may lead to mistakes if they flirt back with you..if you know what i mean.
Reply:You are so full of it! If you weren't interested in cheating on your wife, you would NOT being seeking out other women to flirt with or be friends with.
Reply:why don't you just flirt with your wife and call it good. Do you know how that will make her feel if she sees you flirting with someone else?? She is going to think that you are't attracted to her and it could lead her to believe that you are cheating and blah blah blah. You should just be faithful to your wife. To a women flirting is a form of cheating. Just think about it before you do it again........
Reply:flirting is how it starts,cheating is where it leads,DIVORCE is how it ends......
no repect for your wife.
Reply:Well, the first thing U have to know is that we don't like liar men and hypocrites, we got really scared when a man approach with no reason at all, just to "flirt" and we don't flirt back with strangers, and if someone does that it's because she is really a dumb ***!
Besides, U're a married man... why would U do such a thing??
Aren't you happy with your relationship??
I'm a married guy who'd like to flirt w/ pretty gals on my daily train.What do gals like in terms of flirting?
Show respect. Have some good manners. And if you do that, they will be the one who's going to flirt you.
Reply:IF YOU ARE MARRIED THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE FLIRTING AT ALL. HAVING FEMALE FRIENDS AND FLIRTING WITH THEM ARE TWO WAY DIFFERENT THINGS AND IN MY BOOK FLIRTING IS CHEATING SOOO... I WOULDNT DO IT AT ALL!!!
Reply:You have no business flirting at all! flirting is just an invitation, be wise and stop being a flirt! If there was a maried man flirting with me, the first thing that I'd think was I wonder how many times has he cheated on his wife? What a creep! sorry but this is true
Reply:Dude, i am telling your wife. Its me, u know me and i know your wife.
Reply:It's sad that you're flirting and you're married. Its gross and you should be ashamed of yourself. Instead of thinking if they like it, you should be looking for a marriage counselor. Sicko!!
Reply:If they know you are married they will creep out. You don't need to flirt. Be friendly and kind and talk about your wife and all the nice things you do for her. That leaves us women thinking wow what a lucky gal she is!
Reply:speaking as a woman, I'd prefer to flirt with a man that ISN'T married.
Reply:well if you're married, that constitutes cheating on your wife, right? if you love your wife, you shouldn't have to flirt with other women. if you want to flirt, flirt with your wife. i think guys who are married and flirt with me are creepy. and i know a lot of other women who have the same belief. Flirt with your wife. Send her cute messeges on her phone; give her a sexy stare at the dinner table; when you walk past her, purposly touch her somehow to show her you love her; tell her how sexy she is; treat her like the godess that she is. That's the things my husband does to me and it keeps our marraige fresh, and I love it. I'd rather be flirted with by my husband than any other hot guy i don't even know. But please, if you love your wife, don't flirt with other women...it may lead to mistakes if they flirt back with you..if you know what i mean.
Reply:You are so full of it! If you weren't interested in cheating on your wife, you would NOT being seeking out other women to flirt with or be friends with.
Reply:why don't you just flirt with your wife and call it good. Do you know how that will make her feel if she sees you flirting with someone else?? She is going to think that you are't attracted to her and it could lead her to believe that you are cheating and blah blah blah. You should just be faithful to your wife. To a women flirting is a form of cheating. Just think about it before you do it again........
Reply:flirting is how it starts,cheating is where it leads,DIVORCE is how it ends......
no repect for your wife.
Reply:Well, the first thing U have to know is that we don't like liar men and hypocrites, we got really scared when a man approach with no reason at all, just to "flirt" and we don't flirt back with strangers, and if someone does that it's because she is really a dumb ***!
Besides, U're a married man... why would U do such a thing??
Aren't you happy with your relationship??
How can i flirt with a girl?
i'm bi but she doesn't know and i would like to flirt with her but not so obvious. just like playing or something like that.i want to flirt with her at the movies.p.s if you know how to help a friend come out... can you tell me because i think she is but idk HELPPP plez
How can i flirt with a girl?
lol you too huh?
Reply:okay the fact that you are bi is not acceptable to most cultures but i think it's okay if you like it. to your question, just talk about anything. and please tell her that you are bi!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Ok, I think being Bi is gross but thats not what you asked. So I would just tell her that ur bi and u like her.
Reply:I know it is hard but you could flirt with me and you would know that I would like you because I like you already so lets talk. Just tell her and if she does not hear you out I will
Reply:Give her a massage or offer to. Ask her is she has ever thought about it or you could do the noble thing and just tell her straight that you are bi and attracted to her. This way she will not feel betrayed if she ends up finding out or figuring it out.
People have to "come out" on their own time. There are so many issues and so much to consider when you think of telling the world that you are bi or gay. Be honest with her and hopefully she will trust you enough to then be honest with you.
How can i flirt with a girl?
lol you too huh?
Reply:okay the fact that you are bi is not acceptable to most cultures but i think it's okay if you like it. to your question, just talk about anything. and please tell her that you are bi!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Ok, I think being Bi is gross but thats not what you asked. So I would just tell her that ur bi and u like her.
Reply:I know it is hard but you could flirt with me and you would know that I would like you because I like you already so lets talk. Just tell her and if she does not hear you out I will
Reply:Give her a massage or offer to. Ask her is she has ever thought about it or you could do the noble thing and just tell her straight that you are bi and attracted to her. This way she will not feel betrayed if she ends up finding out or figuring it out.
People have to "come out" on their own time. There are so many issues and so much to consider when you think of telling the world that you are bi or gay. Be honest with her and hopefully she will trust you enough to then be honest with you.
Mad cause i "flirt with every guy"??
my bestfriends have recently gotten extremely mad at me because im friends with a ton of guys and they immediatly asume i flirt with every one of those guys. we play bball together and joke and laugh around. they r friends with most of the guys to and like some of them. is it just them or do i really flirt with all of them?
Mad cause i "flirt with every guy"??
Stop acting like a cheap skank and save your dignity.
Reply:im a guy and i have the same "flirting" problem
its somthing you have to work on,
just dont be silly, alot of people count being jumpy and silly flirty,
Reply:You already know the answer to this. Why ask strangers. Need more attention?
shark teeth
Mad cause i "flirt with every guy"??
Stop acting like a cheap skank and save your dignity.
Reply:im a guy and i have the same "flirting" problem
its somthing you have to work on,
just dont be silly, alot of people count being jumpy and silly flirty,
Reply:You already know the answer to this. Why ask strangers. Need more attention?
shark teeth
How do I flirt with this guy?
Okay, so there's this guy who rides my bus, and I really like him, but he's an eighth grader, and I'm a seventh grader. So, he always talks to his eighth grade buddies instead of to me. How do I flirt with him without making it obvious that I like him? How do I flirt with him without my best friend (who also rides my bus and HATES him) finding out that I like him?
PLEASE HELP!!!
How do I flirt with this guy?
To look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a long sleeve and some ripped jeans to seem casual with flip flops with colored toenails, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof. Or if youre an emo/goth, wear your best band t-shirt and skinny jeans when going for the deep, sensitive, hot drummer.
Say Mississippi once in your head before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]
Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.
Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.
If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile!(Hold this stare for at least 3 seconds.) But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.
Practice everything in a mirror.
Try to be unique.
Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.
Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
When he is around his only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
Don't ever lie to him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is wrong, he'll become more open and you will feel more comfortable around him.
Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
Give him small things, like a stick of gum, or a pencil.
Hint about a movie you'd like to see.
If you do hint about a movie get more friends to go so it's less awkward.
See something scary so you can grab him at the scary parts of the movie. He'll feel manly and needed.
Find out what his favorite band is, then when you are around him, casually hum one of their songs. Instant convo.
If you think he's into you, flirt so it's kinda obvious you're crushed by a crush, otherwise,just tell him
Make sure you are constant with your actions, if you just stop interacting with him for a few days he could think you're not interested
It's very important to look amazing not just for him but, because the sad truth is, EXAMPLE. You guys are hanging out at a carnival, flirting, kissing etc...but if a hot girl walks by, sadly, he probably will look at her, guys are guys, so don't get offended or do something stupid like be provocative to get him back in your hands, that just makes you look retarded and stupid.
Bite your bottom lip from time to time guys love it. (We really do!)
Sometimes we guys can be extremely dense. If you're getting the impression he's keeping your conversation at a friendship level try ONE very obvious flirt and gauge his response. It might take a second dose for him to shift paradigms and see you for the sweet thing you are but use it sparingly. When doing this you're making it more likely for him to risk returning your flirtations because you're shifting some of the rejection risk to yourself.
When you are talking on the phone, respect him and have mostly an equal limit of talking. you do not want one person talking and the other one just listening because it is most likely just the "yeahs" and the "mhms". Talk in short terms and be concise! This way both of you will be listening and he is sure to like you even more.
When you bite your lip, make sure you don't leave a dent. When you're at home, make sure you find ways to soften your lips for that special moment.
Try to make a joke when your with him, but don't make it a stupid joke either. Guys always like a good laugh.
.........................................
Reply:first off what difference does it make if she doesnt like him? if you guys hookup then she'll find out about it eventually... right. anyway.. when he sits on the bus go sit next to him and start a conversation.... be bold... in life if you really want something then you have to go after it because you never know he could be thinking the same thing about you.
Reply:Hmmmm.. Interesting question.. Perhaps start out by dropping something in front of him and see if he stops to help you out. That will tell you if he even knows you exist.. Then you can go from there! You know.. "Thanks... I'm __________" Just some simple conversation.
PLEASE HELP!!!
How do I flirt with this guy?
To look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a long sleeve and some ripped jeans to seem casual with flip flops with colored toenails, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof. Or if youre an emo/goth, wear your best band t-shirt and skinny jeans when going for the deep, sensitive, hot drummer.
Say Mississippi once in your head before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]
Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.
Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.
If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile!(Hold this stare for at least 3 seconds.) But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.
Practice everything in a mirror.
Try to be unique.
Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.
Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
When he is around his only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
Don't ever lie to him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is wrong, he'll become more open and you will feel more comfortable around him.
Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
Give him small things, like a stick of gum, or a pencil.
Hint about a movie you'd like to see.
If you do hint about a movie get more friends to go so it's less awkward.
See something scary so you can grab him at the scary parts of the movie. He'll feel manly and needed.
Find out what his favorite band is, then when you are around him, casually hum one of their songs. Instant convo.
If you think he's into you, flirt so it's kinda obvious you're crushed by a crush, otherwise,just tell him
Make sure you are constant with your actions, if you just stop interacting with him for a few days he could think you're not interested
It's very important to look amazing not just for him but, because the sad truth is, EXAMPLE. You guys are hanging out at a carnival, flirting, kissing etc...but if a hot girl walks by, sadly, he probably will look at her, guys are guys, so don't get offended or do something stupid like be provocative to get him back in your hands, that just makes you look retarded and stupid.
Bite your bottom lip from time to time guys love it. (We really do!)
Sometimes we guys can be extremely dense. If you're getting the impression he's keeping your conversation at a friendship level try ONE very obvious flirt and gauge his response. It might take a second dose for him to shift paradigms and see you for the sweet thing you are but use it sparingly. When doing this you're making it more likely for him to risk returning your flirtations because you're shifting some of the rejection risk to yourself.
When you are talking on the phone, respect him and have mostly an equal limit of talking. you do not want one person talking and the other one just listening because it is most likely just the "yeahs" and the "mhms". Talk in short terms and be concise! This way both of you will be listening and he is sure to like you even more.
When you bite your lip, make sure you don't leave a dent. When you're at home, make sure you find ways to soften your lips for that special moment.
Try to make a joke when your with him, but don't make it a stupid joke either. Guys always like a good laugh.
.........................................
Reply:first off what difference does it make if she doesnt like him? if you guys hookup then she'll find out about it eventually... right. anyway.. when he sits on the bus go sit next to him and start a conversation.... be bold... in life if you really want something then you have to go after it because you never know he could be thinking the same thing about you.
Reply:Hmmmm.. Interesting question.. Perhaps start out by dropping something in front of him and see if he stops to help you out. That will tell you if he even knows you exist.. Then you can go from there! You know.. "Thanks... I'm __________" Just some simple conversation.
How can you flirt with someone in a professional envioroment?
Ok, so I have a crush, but I dont know how to flirt with him ,because . . . . hes my doctor??? Its silly, but its major. I dont think there are any rules regarding a relationship , but how can I find out if the feeling is mutual without becoming an idiot or embarassing myself? And how do I flirt without being too obvious or stupid?
How can you flirt with someone in a professional envioroment?
first off do some research and find out if he is married through his nurse or someone that would know...then just simply flirt and drop hints how it would be great to see him in another setting and if he is interested I promise he will let you know.....
Reply:Saaaaantaaaa clawwwzzz izzzz commmminnnn, 2 toooooowwwwwnnnn!
Reply:The first thing you should do is get a new doctor because it's not appropriete for a doctor to date/have a relationship with one of his patients. If you think that there's a possibility he could also be interested then it's important that you don't hurt is career by having a relationship with someone he's treating.
That's the most important thing if you in anyway care for him.
How can you flirt with someone in a professional envioroment?
first off do some research and find out if he is married through his nurse or someone that would know...then just simply flirt and drop hints how it would be great to see him in another setting and if he is interested I promise he will let you know.....
Reply:Saaaaantaaaa clawwwzzz izzzz commmminnnn, 2 toooooowwwwwnnnn!
Reply:The first thing you should do is get a new doctor because it's not appropriete for a doctor to date/have a relationship with one of his patients. If you think that there's a possibility he could also be interested then it's important that you don't hurt is career by having a relationship with someone he's treating.
That's the most important thing if you in anyway care for him.
How should I flirt??
Its my bffs bro and I really like him but dont know how to flirt so can you tell me how to flirt a little
How should I flirt??
If i were u, i would just go over to ur best friends house and find out more about him. I mean, is ur friend ok wit it? If so, ask him out.
How should I flirt??
If i were u, i would just go over to ur best friends house and find out more about him. I mean, is ur friend ok wit it? If so, ask him out.
How can I flirt ?
I want to flirt with a man via email, but don't want to be sooo obvious about it, because I truly don't know if he is interested. We email regularly, general things... but I want to see if I can go further. Should I just be blunt and go for it, and risk the friendship? What are some fun ways to flirt, things to say, and still be cool about it ?
How can I flirt ?
If you are talking (email) ask him whats going on for the weekend and if he says hes going out pretend to be shocked that he would go out without you... "You're going there... without me... im hurt..." but with a tone the he KNOWS your joking around - but it may be enough if he likes you to let him know that you can see yourself hanging out with him... If he's not interested then there is no harm done because it was totally jokey... If hes staying in say something like you're going to stay inside all alone what fun is that... maybe he will invite you over - again do it in an over exagerated jokey way. Now if he mentions hanging with a mom or Girlfriend - dont carry out these comments
Reply:i dont do via email
Reply:ask wat he's wearing and where he bought his clothes at
Reply:the best way to start flirting is to be funny...yes, use lots of humor n one point start connecting yourself to him. tell him things like hey be aware, u might get kidnapped very soon by a big fat guy...he will be like huh, what do u mean...then u will say actually this time i told santa that i wanted u as present this christmas.(then start laughing)
do surprise flirting too like tell him, hey remember u owe me $10.when am i getting it back...he will be like huh?? u will say i am just playing with u.
don't be serious...this will rather make u look desperate.
Reply:include emoticon :-* or %26gt;:D%26lt; in your messages if you don't want to go with the kiss right away do the one with the batting eyelashes not sure how to do it. Or if you chat on yahoo messenger change the background theme. with internet you can't be as coy as in real life you have to say hey would you like to go do something sometime. or most of us wouldn't get the point. speaking on behalf of the guys.
Reply:flirting by email involves emailing short, cute responses quickly to his emails and emailing lots of "thinking about you this minute" type messages (ie., how was your lunch?(eom), are you having a good afternoon? (eom), and the quite bold "sweet dreams - hope I'm in them" (eom)). Quick reply let's him know that he is important to you and on your mind often.
Reply:Tell him you're typing naked.
Reply:just tell him this, hey baby, i wants to sucks yous diks off
Reply:it's not the best idea to flirt with smb via email... i have done it...and its really not a very clever thing to do...try sth else
Reply:I f you have seen his picture, just say you have nice eyes smile,love your emails but could we met for coffee if you can
Reply:see if he would like to do something sometime. That might get him up and going
Reply:Go for it, you have nothing to lose and maybe everything to gain. Be clear about your feelings. If he wants to take a new level, he will respond.
Reply:First off, just be yourself. Second, don't do it over email. One of the most important things in communication is lost when you do it over the internet (vocal impression, like how you can tell when someone is angry by their voice, or when they're being sarcastic) If you MUST flirt online (i don't recommend it) when you talk to him about random stuff, just make little jokes. Create inside jokes that you both can laugh about. It creates a memory, and it connects it to fun times with you. That's one of the best ways to be remembered and to start a relationship.
Reply:The primary thing to remember is to have fun with it. You could start an e-mail with something like....'hey good looking' for example, or you could include something about your plans for the weekend...such as I can't wait to go to the Bob Seger concert this weekend....not sure what I'll do with the extra ticket, my sister/neice/friend planned to go but had to change her plan and ask what he's got planned. Keep it light. Have fun
Reply:ummmmmm have u ever met the person??? if not then i suggest you stop this immediately how can you trust someone you don't even know how they look. and if you already seen them then, i would recommend you try ending your letters with something like *huggs* and *kisses* something sweet instead of thanks, regards, or sincerely and see how he replies in the next email.
Reply:go for it. be blunt
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How can I flirt ?
If you are talking (email) ask him whats going on for the weekend and if he says hes going out pretend to be shocked that he would go out without you... "You're going there... without me... im hurt..." but with a tone the he KNOWS your joking around - but it may be enough if he likes you to let him know that you can see yourself hanging out with him... If he's not interested then there is no harm done because it was totally jokey... If hes staying in say something like you're going to stay inside all alone what fun is that... maybe he will invite you over - again do it in an over exagerated jokey way. Now if he mentions hanging with a mom or Girlfriend - dont carry out these comments
Reply:i dont do via email
Reply:ask wat he's wearing and where he bought his clothes at
Reply:the best way to start flirting is to be funny...yes, use lots of humor n one point start connecting yourself to him. tell him things like hey be aware, u might get kidnapped very soon by a big fat guy...he will be like huh, what do u mean...then u will say actually this time i told santa that i wanted u as present this christmas.(then start laughing)
do surprise flirting too like tell him, hey remember u owe me $10.when am i getting it back...he will be like huh?? u will say i am just playing with u.
don't be serious...this will rather make u look desperate.
Reply:include emoticon :-* or %26gt;:D%26lt; in your messages if you don't want to go with the kiss right away do the one with the batting eyelashes not sure how to do it. Or if you chat on yahoo messenger change the background theme. with internet you can't be as coy as in real life you have to say hey would you like to go do something sometime. or most of us wouldn't get the point. speaking on behalf of the guys.
Reply:flirting by email involves emailing short, cute responses quickly to his emails and emailing lots of "thinking about you this minute" type messages (ie., how was your lunch?(eom), are you having a good afternoon? (eom), and the quite bold "sweet dreams - hope I'm in them" (eom)). Quick reply let's him know that he is important to you and on your mind often.
Reply:Tell him you're typing naked.
Reply:just tell him this, hey baby, i wants to sucks yous diks off
Reply:it's not the best idea to flirt with smb via email... i have done it...and its really not a very clever thing to do...try sth else
Reply:I f you have seen his picture, just say you have nice eyes smile,love your emails but could we met for coffee if you can
Reply:see if he would like to do something sometime. That might get him up and going
Reply:Go for it, you have nothing to lose and maybe everything to gain. Be clear about your feelings. If he wants to take a new level, he will respond.
Reply:First off, just be yourself. Second, don't do it over email. One of the most important things in communication is lost when you do it over the internet (vocal impression, like how you can tell when someone is angry by their voice, or when they're being sarcastic) If you MUST flirt online (i don't recommend it) when you talk to him about random stuff, just make little jokes. Create inside jokes that you both can laugh about. It creates a memory, and it connects it to fun times with you. That's one of the best ways to be remembered and to start a relationship.
Reply:The primary thing to remember is to have fun with it. You could start an e-mail with something like....'hey good looking' for example, or you could include something about your plans for the weekend...such as I can't wait to go to the Bob Seger concert this weekend....not sure what I'll do with the extra ticket, my sister/neice/friend planned to go but had to change her plan and ask what he's got planned. Keep it light. Have fun
Reply:ummmmmm have u ever met the person??? if not then i suggest you stop this immediately how can you trust someone you don't even know how they look. and if you already seen them then, i would recommend you try ending your letters with something like *huggs* and *kisses* something sweet instead of thanks, regards, or sincerely and see how he replies in the next email.
Reply:go for it. be blunt
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Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
theres this really cute sophmore and his name is matt. (im a freshman) today in math we were flirting way more than usual. he walked behind my seat and i leaned my haed back to him and he put his hands on my shoulders and rubbed and massaged them. then he was like "when am i getting my massage?" and i laughed. then he was like "anna i love you" in a very comfortable way and i was like "i love you too." and he was like "so anna when are we gonna do it?" and i was like "whenever you want" and he was like "right here right now" and i laughed and was like "sure why not lol" . he walked me to class and he was like "u are definitely one of my favorite freshmen" and hes like "pretend like your my gf lol hold my hand" as a joke and i held his hand and it was the best feeling ever...when he was massaging me i felt shivers and tingles WOW...the problem is that he treats EVERY girl like this and i mean EVERY GIRL. he is the biggest flirt i have ever met. but hes really cute and i really like him. help!
Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
You really like him BECAUSE he's a big flirt and BECAUSE he's cute. There's nothing you can do about that.
If what you say is true, every other girl probably feels very similar about him the way you do. I hate to say it, because I know alot of girls that are the exact same way (very flirty with every guy they see and it drives me crazy) but you can't change the way someone is. If he's like that with every girl, chances are he isn't really interested in anything more.
But I could be wrong, so you would have to ask him personally.
Reply:u should ask em if he reallllllllllllllllly llllllllllllooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssss... u and if he did he would only flirt with u
Reply:I think you are doing good. the only problem with a guy like this is that he might bug you if you ended up dating because he's like this to every girl.
One of these days when he says something about liking you (not about sex) just say that you actually really do like him and its not just a joke. I wouldn't even worry about his reaction because odds are he like you too and even if for some odd reason he doesn't (because you sound fun and smarter than most) he's not the kind of guy who's going to worry about it too much.
See what happens...
Reply:OH MY, HE IS SOO GONNA A GREAT GUY FOR YOU. I personally don't know him, but oh well, from what you told me, he is great for you! You didn't say what the question was, but I think you were trying to say, " How am I going to tell him that I really like him without ruining our friendship?" Well, for me, (I've done a lot of match-making for my friends) I say you should say this
You: " I got to tell you something, Matt."
Matt: "What?"
you: " First, Promise me this won't ruin our friendship."
Matt: " it won't" or, " Don't worry, we'll still be friends."
You: *Just confess Don't know how you are going to put it in words, since I'm not you!*
HOPED I HELPED! :)
OH, AND I FORGOT, REMEMBER TO SEE IF HE FLIRTS LIKE THIS TO OTHER GIRLS, IF HE DOES, THAN HE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU. Just be careful and I wish you luck!
Ichigo Lunette
P.S. IF HE GETS AGGRESSIVE, (you know what I mean, like he gets mean to you) THEN YOU'LL KNOW HE IS A PLAYER!
Ichigo Lunette
P.P.S I know you are getting annoyed that i keep on changing my answer, but I read your thing again, and it said that he treats EVERY girl like this, then do not go with him. I'm telling you, I don't want to get you hurt.
Okay, if i edit this again, I am grounded. It's a promise I made to myself because I edit stuff too much!
Reply:He doesn't actually love you.
He even said so. He just wants 2 do it.
I know he flirted with u, but ur in 9th and he knows that
9th girls are easy 2 get. One of my friends went through
this. He knows you really like him and he is
just playing you. I know you want to think he loves you
but.... he actually doesn't.
Reply:So immature. He's not going to treat you as a friend from here and forward after your responce to him asking to "do it" with you. He's just going to look at you as some easy freshman he can get his rocks off with. It may sound harsh but it's true, sooooo many guys are like that in highschool and yes, I can actually talk about it because I'm done and through with highschool... thank goodness!
Reply:Im writing this stuff down.
Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
You really like him BECAUSE he's a big flirt and BECAUSE he's cute. There's nothing you can do about that.
If what you say is true, every other girl probably feels very similar about him the way you do. I hate to say it, because I know alot of girls that are the exact same way (very flirty with every guy they see and it drives me crazy) but you can't change the way someone is. If he's like that with every girl, chances are he isn't really interested in anything more.
But I could be wrong, so you would have to ask him personally.
Reply:u should ask em if he reallllllllllllllllly llllllllllllooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssss... u and if he did he would only flirt with u
Reply:I think you are doing good. the only problem with a guy like this is that he might bug you if you ended up dating because he's like this to every girl.
One of these days when he says something about liking you (not about sex) just say that you actually really do like him and its not just a joke. I wouldn't even worry about his reaction because odds are he like you too and even if for some odd reason he doesn't (because you sound fun and smarter than most) he's not the kind of guy who's going to worry about it too much.
See what happens...
Reply:OH MY, HE IS SOO GONNA A GREAT GUY FOR YOU. I personally don't know him, but oh well, from what you told me, he is great for you! You didn't say what the question was, but I think you were trying to say, " How am I going to tell him that I really like him without ruining our friendship?" Well, for me, (I've done a lot of match-making for my friends) I say you should say this
You: " I got to tell you something, Matt."
Matt: "What?"
you: " First, Promise me this won't ruin our friendship."
Matt: " it won't" or, " Don't worry, we'll still be friends."
You: *Just confess Don't know how you are going to put it in words, since I'm not you!*
HOPED I HELPED! :)
OH, AND I FORGOT, REMEMBER TO SEE IF HE FLIRTS LIKE THIS TO OTHER GIRLS, IF HE DOES, THAN HE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU. Just be careful and I wish you luck!
Ichigo Lunette
P.S. IF HE GETS AGGRESSIVE, (you know what I mean, like he gets mean to you) THEN YOU'LL KNOW HE IS A PLAYER!
Ichigo Lunette
P.P.S I know you are getting annoyed that i keep on changing my answer, but I read your thing again, and it said that he treats EVERY girl like this, then do not go with him. I'm telling you, I don't want to get you hurt.
Okay, if i edit this again, I am grounded. It's a promise I made to myself because I edit stuff too much!
Reply:He doesn't actually love you.
He even said so. He just wants 2 do it.
I know he flirted with u, but ur in 9th and he knows that
9th girls are easy 2 get. One of my friends went through
this. He knows you really like him and he is
just playing you. I know you want to think he loves you
but.... he actually doesn't.
Reply:So immature. He's not going to treat you as a friend from here and forward after your responce to him asking to "do it" with you. He's just going to look at you as some easy freshman he can get his rocks off with. It may sound harsh but it's true, sooooo many guys are like that in highschool and yes, I can actually talk about it because I'm done and through with highschool... thank goodness!
Reply:Im writing this stuff down.
How do I flirt with this guy?
How do i flirt with this guy?? i only see him on sundays and i dont go to school with him. he is in 9th grade and im in 8th. im am pretty pretty sure he likes me. please please please help me. give me all the flirting methods you know!! websites are welcome!! please help!!!
Shadow
How do I flirt with this guy?
Hey its great that you have confidence. Anyway dont start out really fast and just get to know him as a friend. Go be social and communicate with him. As things go further you will know urself if u wanna get in a relationship with him! Take things slow Once you are good friends maybe flirt a bit. C how things go from there.
Reply:Talk to him and get to know him more, if you have phones-- use them!
Reply:just talk
Reply:talk to him ask him out if u like him that much and u know he likes you
Shadow
How do I flirt with this guy?
Hey its great that you have confidence. Anyway dont start out really fast and just get to know him as a friend. Go be social and communicate with him. As things go further you will know urself if u wanna get in a relationship with him! Take things slow Once you are good friends maybe flirt a bit. C how things go from there.
Reply:Talk to him and get to know him more, if you have phones-- use them!
Reply:just talk
Reply:talk to him ask him out if u like him that much and u know he likes you
Im not a flirt. at all.?
well as you may have read, im not a flirt. in fact, i cant remember the last time i did. sure i giggle when a guy says something funny but thats about it.
actually, i think its becuase they dont really approach me in that way. could they find me boring? or do i give off too much of this cute little quiet, nice girl vibe(?)? people tell "oh your so cute" and "your so nice" and "you look so innocent" but on the other hand, when im with my good friends, i get pretty "enthusiastic" as they say and hyper.
is that why guys dont really flirt with me? or is it just me????
:/ i dont know!
Im not a flirt. at all.?
I was just like this in high school, don't worry about it. At least you aren't attracting the wrong type of guy by being a major flirt. Yes this could be a reason why guys don't flirt with you and that is probably because they know that you can tell the difference from thier "game" and them actually having genuine feelings for you. Don't go ruining your advantage by becoming a flirt now! It's best to stay true to how you are and the RIGHT guy will come along.
oh and BTW, just because guys haven't been flirting with you that doesn't mean that there aren't some that like you. It wasn't until I got out of high school that I found out how many guys had crushes on me *LoL*. but it was a good thing I didn't because If I dated any of them then I wouldn't have been available when someone better comes along!! I had NO IDEA that my current bf now had a crush on me in high school. He says he never flirted with me because he didn't want to show me any disrespect by getting at me like he would get at other girls. I'm glad he didnt because I probably wouldn't have fallen in love with him, I and been in the greatest relationship in my life. :)
Reply:I have the same problem. Probably cuz i'm really small for my age and guys just see me like a little girl. Find a guy who's not that good of a flirt either and maybe one that's shy. Then he'll get to know you by talking before you actually start flirting :)
Reply:im not really sure because im exactly like you. but some guys like cute, innocent girls. i dont know why they dont flirt with you. or maybe they see you as a friend or like a sister. guys dont flirt with me because i look really young. just try to be more open around guys and not just around your friends. =)
actually, i think its becuase they dont really approach me in that way. could they find me boring? or do i give off too much of this cute little quiet, nice girl vibe(?)? people tell "oh your so cute" and "your so nice" and "you look so innocent" but on the other hand, when im with my good friends, i get pretty "enthusiastic" as they say and hyper.
is that why guys dont really flirt with me? or is it just me????
:/ i dont know!
Im not a flirt. at all.?
I was just like this in high school, don't worry about it. At least you aren't attracting the wrong type of guy by being a major flirt. Yes this could be a reason why guys don't flirt with you and that is probably because they know that you can tell the difference from thier "game" and them actually having genuine feelings for you. Don't go ruining your advantage by becoming a flirt now! It's best to stay true to how you are and the RIGHT guy will come along.
oh and BTW, just because guys haven't been flirting with you that doesn't mean that there aren't some that like you. It wasn't until I got out of high school that I found out how many guys had crushes on me *LoL*. but it was a good thing I didn't because If I dated any of them then I wouldn't have been available when someone better comes along!! I had NO IDEA that my current bf now had a crush on me in high school. He says he never flirted with me because he didn't want to show me any disrespect by getting at me like he would get at other girls. I'm glad he didnt because I probably wouldn't have fallen in love with him, I and been in the greatest relationship in my life. :)
Reply:I have the same problem. Probably cuz i'm really small for my age and guys just see me like a little girl. Find a guy who's not that good of a flirt either and maybe one that's shy. Then he'll get to know you by talking before you actually start flirting :)
Reply:im not really sure because im exactly like you. but some guys like cute, innocent girls. i dont know why they dont flirt with you. or maybe they see you as a friend or like a sister. guys dont flirt with me because i look really young. just try to be more open around guys and not just around your friends. =)
How do men flirt?
I know how women flirt, but how do men flirt?
How do men flirt?
by telling jockes and making wwomen laugh, 2 smile while looking in2 her eyes
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How do men flirt?
by telling jockes and making wwomen laugh, 2 smile while looking in2 her eyes
teeth
Can u just flirt with everyone or does it have just one person?
So basically what I'm tryin to ask is can you flirt with like 10 people or just with the guy u like? And um everyone thinks I go out with this guy but all I did was put my hand around his shoulder is that a sign of being together? I'm just a really big flirt!
Can u just flirt with everyone or does it have just one person?
I hate when girls flirt with all these guys and then if he pays attention to her or wants more they call him JERK!!! How Stupid..Right???? I say flirt only if you can Handle IT....
Reply:if you flirt with everyone, then guys will eventually stay away from you because they don't trust you. so stay true to the guy you like.
Reply:flrits are the best, stay flirty
Can u just flirt with everyone or does it have just one person?
I hate when girls flirt with all these guys and then if he pays attention to her or wants more they call him JERK!!! How Stupid..Right???? I say flirt only if you can Handle IT....
Reply:if you flirt with everyone, then guys will eventually stay away from you because they don't trust you. so stay true to the guy you like.
Reply:flrits are the best, stay flirty
Good techniques to flirt with a man?
I want to know some ways to flirt. What body/facial expressions should I use? Things to say besides corny yet funny pickup lines? what are ways to get the message across that I like you? I should enroll in a Flirting 101 class, haha.
Good techniques to flirt with a man?
Coming from a guy (I'm not gay, I'm just telling you what I would think is enjoyable for a girl to do when flirting with me):
1) Look into the guy's eyes.
2) Play around with him, delicately and sweetly.
3) Always ask him what's up and walk around with him in school or what not.
4) Ask him to hang out, one-on-one only. This way, he'll earn your trust and you'll earn his.
5) If you use an instant messaging program, keep instant messaging him.
6) Be sweet and stay sweet.
7) ALWAYS smile. It's a must.
Much more.. Can't think of much right now.
Good techniques to flirt with a man?
Coming from a guy (I'm not gay, I'm just telling you what I would think is enjoyable for a girl to do when flirting with me):
1) Look into the guy's eyes.
2) Play around with him, delicately and sweetly.
3) Always ask him what's up and walk around with him in school or what not.
4) Ask him to hang out, one-on-one only. This way, he'll earn your trust and you'll earn his.
5) If you use an instant messaging program, keep instant messaging him.
6) Be sweet and stay sweet.
7) ALWAYS smile. It's a must.
Much more.. Can't think of much right now.
What is a flirt ?
okay, I have this friend who I think is a major flirt, but he denies it to the end of the world. He wants me to tell him what a flirt is and I really cant put it into words. So im depending on you to help me explain it to him.
What is a flirt ?
Anybody who goes around hitting on random people without meaning it, just for the fun of it is a flirt.
Reply:Flirt is making love between a boy and a girl. It is also an enjoyment between a boy and a girl
Reply:If someones a flirt..usually they flirt with anyone they see =)
Example, a guy could be flirting with you on minute..five minutes later he'll be doing the same thing to another girl
Reply:to me a flirt is someone always playin wit guys like a h*e
What is a flirt ?
Anybody who goes around hitting on random people without meaning it, just for the fun of it is a flirt.
Reply:Flirt is making love between a boy and a girl. It is also an enjoyment between a boy and a girl
Reply:If someones a flirt..usually they flirt with anyone they see =)
Example, a guy could be flirting with you on minute..five minutes later he'll be doing the same thing to another girl
Reply:to me a flirt is someone always playin wit guys like a h*e
Good techniques to flirt with a man?
I want to know some ways to flirt. What body/facial expressions should I use? Things to say besides corny yet funny pickup lines? what are ways to get the message across that I like you? I should enroll in a Flirting 101 class, haha.
Good techniques to flirt with a man?
Most times just saying Hello and smiling are enough to get you started.
If he's interested he'll say hello and smile back and the two of you will start talking - if its going well, lightly touch his arm. If he doesn't pull away, let your hand linger there while your smiling and talking to him.
If he's totally engaged in the conversation, doesn't mind your touching him, or he reaches out and touches your arm or hair, you know he's interested. Get his number!
Reply:the classic small talk walk away and while he is still looking smile and turn your head back to him while you hair is tossed in a beautiful way it gets us every time
Reply:1st and for most - BE YOURSELF!!!!! I am not a guy, but from all of them that I know, they want to know the real you! But of course you always have to put your best foot forward. Look them in the eyes (sexy- not scary staring) a cute smile is always good. Tell him how sexy his eyes are or how he has a beautiful smile. Maybe even if he has a great shirt, let him know! Guys love compliments even if they don't show it or know how to respond! If they don't get the message after batting your eyes flashing a smile and giving compliments, then move on!!!
Have fun :)
Reply:Number 1) Make sure he's not married or committed to someone else.
2) Don't try flirt in front of other women - that looks tacky.
3) Don't do pickup lines - it makes you look easy.
4) Have some self respect - if a guy thinks you're only good for a roll in the hay he won't respect you anyway.
5) Be mature unless you're in grade 8 or 9. Then just act your age.
Reply:Don't force it.
Women know instinctively how to flirt.
If he turns you on, you will turn him on.
Reply:Dont flirt , be direct . Anything short of an explicit request to spend time together leaves many guys confused as to what they are witnessing .
Reply:Buy the book Superflirt by Tracey Cox. There's good stuff in there.
Reply:Try to watch the movie. "School for Seduction".
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Good techniques to flirt with a man?
Most times just saying Hello and smiling are enough to get you started.
If he's interested he'll say hello and smile back and the two of you will start talking - if its going well, lightly touch his arm. If he doesn't pull away, let your hand linger there while your smiling and talking to him.
If he's totally engaged in the conversation, doesn't mind your touching him, or he reaches out and touches your arm or hair, you know he's interested. Get his number!
Reply:the classic small talk walk away and while he is still looking smile and turn your head back to him while you hair is tossed in a beautiful way it gets us every time
Reply:1st and for most - BE YOURSELF!!!!! I am not a guy, but from all of them that I know, they want to know the real you! But of course you always have to put your best foot forward. Look them in the eyes (sexy- not scary staring) a cute smile is always good. Tell him how sexy his eyes are or how he has a beautiful smile. Maybe even if he has a great shirt, let him know! Guys love compliments even if they don't show it or know how to respond! If they don't get the message after batting your eyes flashing a smile and giving compliments, then move on!!!
Have fun :)
Reply:Number 1) Make sure he's not married or committed to someone else.
2) Don't try flirt in front of other women - that looks tacky.
3) Don't do pickup lines - it makes you look easy.
4) Have some self respect - if a guy thinks you're only good for a roll in the hay he won't respect you anyway.
5) Be mature unless you're in grade 8 or 9. Then just act your age.
Reply:Don't force it.
Women know instinctively how to flirt.
If he turns you on, you will turn him on.
Reply:Dont flirt , be direct . Anything short of an explicit request to spend time together leaves many guys confused as to what they are witnessing .
Reply:Buy the book Superflirt by Tracey Cox. There's good stuff in there.
Reply:Try to watch the movie. "School for Seduction".
teeth grinding
How do you flirt with girls?
im a shy guy that has never flirted with girls...Any suggestions on how and when to flirt?
How do you flirt with girls?
put some confidence in your life first, be prod of who you are
Reply:Hi. You sound really great to talk to.I would like you to flirt with me. See you flirted and didn't know it.
Reply:how can u ask dis question...??
Reply:Do some research. If you really like a girl, find out what her interests are, and develop some of your own so that you will have something to talk about. If you want an interesting girl, become interesting yourself. Find out what you have in common and talk about it. That will be a natural segway into asking her on a date to go do something that your both interested in. Whatever you do, dont give her those corny pick-up lines. That tells a girl that you are very unintelligent and are probably only interested in sex. Just be very respectful, honest, and try not to be too pushy. Then you will do fine. :o)
Reply:Funny but not stupid
Reply:IM HAVIN A LIL PROBLEMS TO WITH FLIRTIN SO I GUESS YOU HAVE TO COME UP WITH IT FROM THE TOP OF YOUR DOME JUS SAY ANY THING REASONBLE
Reply:if you want to let them know you are flirting with them, compliment them on something they're wearing; that is what women do to men
Reply:Look them in the eyes, smile a lot, make them laugh and feel comfortable around you, at ease. Every once in a while touch their arm (but dont get grabby) if she has half a brain she'll get your into her.
Reply:just be yourself, but act sweet to her.
no girl would want some guy thats a jerk..
you should probably start by actually having a convo with her.
then when you guys are getting close maybe say some funny cute corny jokes. most girls love those.
example: did you just fall from heaven? because you look like an angel. -not exatcly that, but something like that.
Most girls think those are funny and cute.
:)
Reply:justtt be niicee. but act coolll.
Reply:Play dumb. Everyone always says girls play dumb but guys can do it too. Pretend you don't know anything about sex or women.
Reply:Baby steps....start by looking people in the eye.
Reply:i think you should try to flirt when she flirts with you
.
How do you flirt with girls?
put some confidence in your life first, be prod of who you are
Reply:Hi. You sound really great to talk to.I would like you to flirt with me. See you flirted and didn't know it.
Reply:how can u ask dis question...??
Reply:Do some research. If you really like a girl, find out what her interests are, and develop some of your own so that you will have something to talk about. If you want an interesting girl, become interesting yourself. Find out what you have in common and talk about it. That will be a natural segway into asking her on a date to go do something that your both interested in. Whatever you do, dont give her those corny pick-up lines. That tells a girl that you are very unintelligent and are probably only interested in sex. Just be very respectful, honest, and try not to be too pushy. Then you will do fine. :o)
Reply:Funny but not stupid
Reply:IM HAVIN A LIL PROBLEMS TO WITH FLIRTIN SO I GUESS YOU HAVE TO COME UP WITH IT FROM THE TOP OF YOUR DOME JUS SAY ANY THING REASONBLE
Reply:if you want to let them know you are flirting with them, compliment them on something they're wearing; that is what women do to men
Reply:Look them in the eyes, smile a lot, make them laugh and feel comfortable around you, at ease. Every once in a while touch their arm (but dont get grabby) if she has half a brain she'll get your into her.
Reply:just be yourself, but act sweet to her.
no girl would want some guy thats a jerk..
you should probably start by actually having a convo with her.
then when you guys are getting close maybe say some funny cute corny jokes. most girls love those.
example: did you just fall from heaven? because you look like an angel. -not exatcly that, but something like that.
Most girls think those are funny and cute.
:)
Reply:justtt be niicee. but act coolll.
Reply:Play dumb. Everyone always says girls play dumb but guys can do it too. Pretend you don't know anything about sex or women.
Reply:Baby steps....start by looking people in the eye.
Reply:i think you should try to flirt when she flirts with you
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Is it ok for me to flirt with younger women?
I won't tell you how old I am, but I love flirting with women between the ages of 21 and 23. They flirt back and nothing ever comes of it. we're just having fun. Am I wrong for flirting with them?
Asking: The Overweight Lover
Is it ok for me to flirt with younger women?
I assume you are older. Are you married? If you're married, no it's not okay. And what do you mean by flirting? Are we talking compliments? Are we talking sexual innuendos?
Flirting is fine, as long as no one gets hurt! I mean, you can flirt with older women too you know. Younger ones, in my opinion, are boring! What do you all talk about? The latest Snoop Dog album?
Reply:they are old enough to tell you to stop if they don't like it, if they're flirting back, then go for it.
Reply:no its absolutely fine. how old r u?????????
Reply:yes there is this guy I forgot his name but he is like 80 and is married to 3 blondes who are like 20-30 years old
they even have there own show - The Girls Next Door
Reply:i dont see it hurting anyone ...hell keep on flirting dude
Reply:you can flirt with anyone you want!! I do the same thing as you do !! I am right with you brotha!
Reply:I'm an outrageous flirt and as long as they are old enough and its harmless then I see no problem with it.
Reply:No, you are wrong for nothing ever comming from it(among consenting adults).
Reply:that's why they are in your world bra! Rock On!
Reply:no , its fine , who cares
Reply:Sure, why not? Its fun and harmless, and it helps boost the ego a little... no matter what your age! Go for it!
Reply:I wish you had given your age. I've always been interested in older men %26amp; have dated men 16 - 20 yrs older than myself (but they were single). If they're a whole lot older, I can appreciate their charm %26amp; love to flirt right back. So keep right on as long as the object of your charm doesn't object to it. Then don't.
Reply:It depends on what your wife thinks.
Reply:It's either that,or do what you always do,whack your "weasel"
Reply:yea. 21 and 23 are consenting adults. go for it if its all in good fun
Reply:Yes it's okay to do this, no matter how old you are. I'm married and 52 and flirt all the time with women in the 20-30 age group but that's as far as it goes. I don't cheat.
Reply:if youre 10 years older than them [or more] .. its a really bad decision, and if youre afraid to tell us your age then youre probably knowing that its wrong.
Reply:No NO no there clingy little idiots ..... one i love you and youll have a stalker for the next 6 months unless thats what you want
Reply:i guess, i mean hey there adults and have been for more or about 5 years, sure, it their desicion to flirt with u,
and its ur desicion to take it how far, not too then thats sexual harrasment
Reply:No, it is harmless fun, and boosts both of your egos.........everyone flirts at times.
Reply:It's ok to just flirt as long as you know where to draw the line. If you are not serious about them, then don't make it look like you are. If you make it casual and both sides get the idea, then it's a mutual thing. Most importantly is that you don't cheat any naive girl who only believes in Cinderella and happily-ever-after.
Reply:I'm 44 and I love to flirt with younger women, as long as you don't offend anyone I can see no reason not to.....hell who knows one day something may come from it, and it's great for all involved!
Reply:umm, well if you are more than 35 years old, yes that is way wrong. leave them alone.
Asking: The Overweight Lover
Is it ok for me to flirt with younger women?
I assume you are older. Are you married? If you're married, no it's not okay. And what do you mean by flirting? Are we talking compliments? Are we talking sexual innuendos?
Flirting is fine, as long as no one gets hurt! I mean, you can flirt with older women too you know. Younger ones, in my opinion, are boring! What do you all talk about? The latest Snoop Dog album?
Reply:they are old enough to tell you to stop if they don't like it, if they're flirting back, then go for it.
Reply:no its absolutely fine. how old r u?????????
Reply:yes there is this guy I forgot his name but he is like 80 and is married to 3 blondes who are like 20-30 years old
they even have there own show - The Girls Next Door
Reply:i dont see it hurting anyone ...hell keep on flirting dude
Reply:you can flirt with anyone you want!! I do the same thing as you do !! I am right with you brotha!
Reply:I'm an outrageous flirt and as long as they are old enough and its harmless then I see no problem with it.
Reply:No, you are wrong for nothing ever comming from it(among consenting adults).
Reply:that's why they are in your world bra! Rock On!
Reply:no , its fine , who cares
Reply:Sure, why not? Its fun and harmless, and it helps boost the ego a little... no matter what your age! Go for it!
Reply:I wish you had given your age. I've always been interested in older men %26amp; have dated men 16 - 20 yrs older than myself (but they were single). If they're a whole lot older, I can appreciate their charm %26amp; love to flirt right back. So keep right on as long as the object of your charm doesn't object to it. Then don't.
Reply:It depends on what your wife thinks.
Reply:It's either that,or do what you always do,whack your "weasel"
Reply:yea. 21 and 23 are consenting adults. go for it if its all in good fun
Reply:Yes it's okay to do this, no matter how old you are. I'm married and 52 and flirt all the time with women in the 20-30 age group but that's as far as it goes. I don't cheat.
Reply:if youre 10 years older than them [or more] .. its a really bad decision, and if youre afraid to tell us your age then youre probably knowing that its wrong.
Reply:No NO no there clingy little idiots ..... one i love you and youll have a stalker for the next 6 months unless thats what you want
Reply:i guess, i mean hey there adults and have been for more or about 5 years, sure, it their desicion to flirt with u,
and its ur desicion to take it how far, not too then thats sexual harrasment
Reply:No, it is harmless fun, and boosts both of your egos.........everyone flirts at times.
Reply:It's ok to just flirt as long as you know where to draw the line. If you are not serious about them, then don't make it look like you are. If you make it casual and both sides get the idea, then it's a mutual thing. Most importantly is that you don't cheat any naive girl who only believes in Cinderella and happily-ever-after.
Reply:I'm 44 and I love to flirt with younger women, as long as you don't offend anyone I can see no reason not to.....hell who knows one day something may come from it, and it's great for all involved!
Reply:umm, well if you are more than 35 years old, yes that is way wrong. leave them alone.
How do you flirt?
i try to flirt, but i have no idea how!!!!! how exactly do you flirt? even for fun?
How do you flirt?
I used to wonder that but some light teasing from both parties tends to work. That's how my GF and I began...not that we knew we were flirting, our friends told us we were, lol
Reply:it should come naturally
its just a fun and playful thing that you shouldn't really have to think about
come up to a guy, say something witty, smile at him, stuff like that
Reply:it should come naturally!
flirting is easy if u know the guy.
but if u don't it may be harder.
but most of the time just be your self, smile and give eye contact.
he will be a shoe~in!
good luck
im sure u will do great!
~E~
Reply:"My most predictable flirtation maneuver, is to INVADE a
conversation between two or more women, usually sitting at
a nearby table."
"I DON'T recommend that young women try this."
"It's easier on me, if the lady I wish to flirt with is sitting at a
NEARBY table for TWO."
"I can CASUALLY ask to join them at their table, of course
after INTERRUPTING their conversation."
"That is what I call, 'Open Introductory Flirting'."
"I find out, REAL FAST whether I am welcome at their table,
if they're expecting someone other than myself to join them
already, or if one or the other isn't really interested, (meaning
they were JUST LOOKING)."
"Either way, I can stay and strike up a conversation, (only if I'm
welcomed), or politely excuse myself from their table, (without
embarrassing myself)."
"Rushing to open a door for a lady, (when she happen to be
walking alone), only when she is EXITING the building, is an
opportunity to 'quick-screen' for a potential date."
"I would only try that on a university campus. It helps if she is
carrying books, packages, or is wearing a backpack."
Reply:flip hair flash a smile wave nervously footsie winks " how you doin'?" lol they are just what you come up with to subtley say to a guy that your interested
Reply:it should just come natural, be yourself,
smile a lot
laugh at his jokes
etc. =]]
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
answer my question?
Reply:Well, If you like someone, it depends if you know him or not. I find it easier to flirt with guys I know then guys I never talk to. Smiling is key along with eye contact. :]
Help me out?
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How do you flirt?
I used to wonder that but some light teasing from both parties tends to work. That's how my GF and I began...not that we knew we were flirting, our friends told us we were, lol
Reply:it should come naturally
its just a fun and playful thing that you shouldn't really have to think about
come up to a guy, say something witty, smile at him, stuff like that
Reply:it should come naturally!
flirting is easy if u know the guy.
but if u don't it may be harder.
but most of the time just be your self, smile and give eye contact.
he will be a shoe~in!
good luck
im sure u will do great!
~E~
Reply:"My most predictable flirtation maneuver, is to INVADE a
conversation between two or more women, usually sitting at
a nearby table."
"I DON'T recommend that young women try this."
"It's easier on me, if the lady I wish to flirt with is sitting at a
NEARBY table for TWO."
"I can CASUALLY ask to join them at their table, of course
after INTERRUPTING their conversation."
"That is what I call, 'Open Introductory Flirting'."
"I find out, REAL FAST whether I am welcome at their table,
if they're expecting someone other than myself to join them
already, or if one or the other isn't really interested, (meaning
they were JUST LOOKING)."
"Either way, I can stay and strike up a conversation, (only if I'm
welcomed), or politely excuse myself from their table, (without
embarrassing myself)."
"Rushing to open a door for a lady, (when she happen to be
walking alone), only when she is EXITING the building, is an
opportunity to 'quick-screen' for a potential date."
"I would only try that on a university campus. It helps if she is
carrying books, packages, or is wearing a backpack."
Reply:flip hair flash a smile wave nervously footsie winks " how you doin'?" lol they are just what you come up with to subtley say to a guy that your interested
Reply:it should just come natural, be yourself,
smile a lot
laugh at his jokes
etc. =]]
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
answer my question?
Reply:Well, If you like someone, it depends if you know him or not. I find it easier to flirt with guys I know then guys I never talk to. Smiling is key along with eye contact. :]
Help me out?
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How do guys flirt??
People tell me to flirt with this guy i like but how do guys flirt? so i can pick it up!
How do guys flirt??
I have never tried so I cannot help much but I think most would normally try to get close to you.
Reply:they smile, are nice to you, and are complimentary to you.
Reply:guys flirt the same as girls...
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How do guys flirt??
I have never tried so I cannot help much but I think most would normally try to get close to you.
Reply:they smile, are nice to you, and are complimentary to you.
Reply:guys flirt the same as girls...
teeth bleaching
Why do guys flirt with all girls, even if they don't like them?
I know guy can be flirts, but why would you flirt with a girl you don't like? your just sending her mixed signals? do they just do it for fun?
Why do guys flirt with all girls, even if they don't like them?
Girls do it too, they just have a flirty personality somestimes they dont do it to send mixed signals, they do it just because that is how they interact with the opposite sex. Sometimes they are doing it just for fun but others they may do it to provoke interest. And then some sexual relations
Reply:its quite fun flirting, and maybe they want to see if they can get somewhere!
Reply:cuz they dont thik about- or care about- girl's feelings and just want to "have fun".............
most guys, or a lot of guys, are selfish pigs...
and dont deserve our time!
Reply:I guess its just their nature like ours is to flirt back! :)
Reply:I have found some guys will flirt with anyone who is female just as long as they are breathing - basically they dont care who they are sleeping with just as long as they get some when they want it
Reply:Lol, i don't know about all guys but i do it to be playful and you can practically tell when someone is serious or not. Guys just have fun? Girls have be exactly the same too by the way!! Just look at one of your friends or even you maybe.
Reply:practice
Reply:They might not "like" them but maybe they think they're hot or what ever and they'll just flirt with them I guess. lol :-)
Reply:maybe it's for fun. My brother does it with some girls. I think it's awful but it's the true.
Reply:You know that bubbly feeling you get when you know someone likes you?
Guys get that too.
Reply:Just to make the girls feel good. :-)
Reply:animal magnetism.lol
Reply:Some guys are just flirts
Reply:IMHO, I think it increases their chances of getting laid...kinda like fishing with drift nets...
Reply:Yes and who said that women and girls can not do it! I do...I have a boyfriend but I work with all guys..so I flirt with the guys at work just for the fun of it. When I go to clubs and bars with my girl friends I flirt with guys for the fun of it then I go home and be with my boyfriend. Its just simple fun. If you fall for a guy who you just met and flirts with you...you are still young and naieve grow up then worry about it!
Reply:Because the more girls the more they build their ego they can walk with their heads higher.I know what mix signals feel like,they are not great at all ..but boys are allowed to do that .Hence flirt back..After all two can play at that game ....It is not a one way street
Reply:some guys just want to be flirty just for fun
but some guys just want to be friends
Reply:Because flirting is fun! Loosen up.
Reply:to show off, ignore it.
Reply:its all about the sex
whith ANYONE ANYTIME ....anything
Reply:Why the f do girls flirt with guys they don't like???
Reply:sometimes its just fun
Reply:Because guys are pigs
Reply:They want sex from whoever will give it to them. This doesn't apply to all guys but at your age (I'm assuming you're in school still), this is just a way for them to get anyone to 'get down' with them. Ignore them. If a guy likes you, he'll seek you out individually. Never mind going after the cuties that all the girls flock over. They're a waste of time and will break your heart.
Reply:yea they just doing for fun!
Reply:They are practicing their game
They are learning what works what doesnt
You should do the same
Reply:the only thing is they want to have sex
Reply:Because guys have a penis, and girls have a vagina. It is what we were detined to do.
Reply:b cuz their like that? there's no real explanation... they do it because they want to be a ladies man, want to prove that they can get the girl... Its pretty much entertainment for them when you admit u like them back
Reply:Because they are guys, and they can't help it !
Reply:It's just the way some guys are. I guess they get some sort of perverse pleasure out of it. A sense of power over girls. Men are programmed to flirt with women, it's in their genes and they can't fight it.
Why do guys flirt with all girls, even if they don't like them?
Girls do it too, they just have a flirty personality somestimes they dont do it to send mixed signals, they do it just because that is how they interact with the opposite sex. Sometimes they are doing it just for fun but others they may do it to provoke interest. And then some sexual relations
Reply:its quite fun flirting, and maybe they want to see if they can get somewhere!
Reply:cuz they dont thik about- or care about- girl's feelings and just want to "have fun".............
most guys, or a lot of guys, are selfish pigs...
and dont deserve our time!
Reply:I guess its just their nature like ours is to flirt back! :)
Reply:I have found some guys will flirt with anyone who is female just as long as they are breathing - basically they dont care who they are sleeping with just as long as they get some when they want it
Reply:Lol, i don't know about all guys but i do it to be playful and you can practically tell when someone is serious or not. Guys just have fun? Girls have be exactly the same too by the way!! Just look at one of your friends or even you maybe.
Reply:practice
Reply:They might not "like" them but maybe they think they're hot or what ever and they'll just flirt with them I guess. lol :-)
Reply:maybe it's for fun. My brother does it with some girls. I think it's awful but it's the true.
Reply:You know that bubbly feeling you get when you know someone likes you?
Guys get that too.
Reply:Just to make the girls feel good. :-)
Reply:animal magnetism.lol
Reply:Some guys are just flirts
Reply:IMHO, I think it increases their chances of getting laid...kinda like fishing with drift nets...
Reply:Yes and who said that women and girls can not do it! I do...I have a boyfriend but I work with all guys..so I flirt with the guys at work just for the fun of it. When I go to clubs and bars with my girl friends I flirt with guys for the fun of it then I go home and be with my boyfriend. Its just simple fun. If you fall for a guy who you just met and flirts with you...you are still young and naieve grow up then worry about it!
Reply:Because the more girls the more they build their ego they can walk with their heads higher.I know what mix signals feel like,they are not great at all ..but boys are allowed to do that .Hence flirt back..After all two can play at that game ....It is not a one way street
Reply:some guys just want to be flirty just for fun
but some guys just want to be friends
Reply:Because flirting is fun! Loosen up.
Reply:to show off, ignore it.
Reply:its all about the sex
whith ANYONE ANYTIME ....anything
Reply:Why the f do girls flirt with guys they don't like???
Reply:sometimes its just fun
Reply:Because guys are pigs
Reply:They want sex from whoever will give it to them. This doesn't apply to all guys but at your age (I'm assuming you're in school still), this is just a way for them to get anyone to 'get down' with them. Ignore them. If a guy likes you, he'll seek you out individually. Never mind going after the cuties that all the girls flock over. They're a waste of time and will break your heart.
Reply:yea they just doing for fun!
Reply:They are practicing their game
They are learning what works what doesnt
You should do the same
Reply:the only thing is they want to have sex
Reply:Because guys have a penis, and girls have a vagina. It is what we were detined to do.
Reply:b cuz their like that? there's no real explanation... they do it because they want to be a ladies man, want to prove that they can get the girl... Its pretty much entertainment for them when you admit u like them back
Reply:Because they are guys, and they can't help it !
Reply:It's just the way some guys are. I guess they get some sort of perverse pleasure out of it. A sense of power over girls. Men are programmed to flirt with women, it's in their genes and they can't fight it.
If a 'married' friend of mine flirts with me constantly, is it OK to flirt back?
If a 'married' friend of mine flirts with me constantly, is it OK to flirt back?
If a 'married' friend of mine flirts with me constantly, is it OK to flirt back?
What in the world would make that right?
cg
Reply:yes
Reply:umm. . . since that other person is married than no its not ok to flirt back.
Reply:Sure as long as it doesn't get too intimate. I mean come on she is your friend . Do it in a polite way and don't say any sexual things while you're flirting him/her!
Reply:Flirting can sometimes be a start of more to come. I'd examine this friendship. is it worth the risk? Then again, it could be completely harmless and innocent.
Reply:As long as it stays with flirting. No touching.
Reply:I don't think it is. I mean, if you're friends with their spouse, I would DEFINITELY not. If anything, if you DON'T flirt with them, their spouse won't get mad at you. No need to drag yourself into it- be the mature one.
Reply:no
Reply:Flirting is okay to a certain extent but ONLY if it doesn't bother your respective partners.
Reply:no, he's taking.. if he can't get that then leave him alone..
Reply:Harmless flirting + apathy for other people's lives + selfish thinking = a terrible mess you may not be able to get out of.
Reply:NO.
He or she is MARRIED. That means they have a responsibility to their spouse. If they want you, as in WANT you, they need to divorce their husband/wife and try to win your heart then. And if their willing to give up a hopefully healthy relationship with someone they are married to, you have to question their morals. Remember, they just might do the same to you.
Reply:THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH FLIRTING AS LONG AS YOU DON'T TAKE IT ANY FURTHER AND IT IS REALLY HEALTHY IT KEEPS YOU YOUNG :)
Reply:No its not if hes married! Would you want someone to flirt with your husband or boyfriend?
Reply:no it is not!!!!! If that person is flirting with you it means he/she dosent care for the husband/wife and that means he or her would get married no matter how he or she feels and that is beyond inhumane and you encouraging that disgusting behavior
P.S.
It also means he/she dosent care for anybody inclouding you
(hope it helps)
Reply:Sure.
Reply:No, because that is giving them the impression there is a chance. Just consider if it was your spouse flirting with your friend. Would you want them to encourage it?
Reply:I say yes as long as you don't overstep your limits, and friendly flirting is ok, once it gets sexual, stop it. think of his wife.
Reply:NO ! Wait until she is separated or Divorce first ! Then you can flirt with her all the time !
Reply:no
Reply:No then that might give him the wrong impression.
Reply:Would you want your boyfriend/girlfriend flirting behind your back? That is how I decide. If you don't care, then, "Sure...go for it." If not, then don't.
Reply:well if you feel uncomfortable then i would talk to your good friend, i would not flirt back, it could end up ruining your friendship, if the other person finds out.
Reply:Now.....do YOU think it is the right thing to flirt with a 'married' man?I really suggest not to.If he constantly filrts with you then tell him to stop be cause he is a married man! If his marrige ends i don't think you want to be the blame for it.When he got married he made a vow not to love anyone else except his wife and kids. Please ask your self if he cheats on YOU how would you feel?
Reply:no ,try to avoid,,its best for u and her too...why do u want to ruin her life,,,
Reply:NO...... Sure we all flirt a bit, but all of the time means they are interested and obviously too interested if either or both is married. Stay away, if it continues confront them about it!!
Reply:no
Reply:yea it jus means they have a flirty atitude
Reply:Yeah, sure!
Reply:It is okay to flirt back but do not take it farther. There are so many crazy people out there and if their partner finds out you could have car trouble and broken windows or death threats and broken bones. BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!
Reply:provided it remains harmless. Don't cross the line if you think he is serious. I flirt with all of my wifes female friends all the time, but we are only fooling around and I do it to put a smile on their faces.
If a 'married' friend of mine flirts with me constantly, is it OK to flirt back?
What in the world would make that right?
cg
Reply:yes
Reply:umm. . . since that other person is married than no its not ok to flirt back.
Reply:Sure as long as it doesn't get too intimate. I mean come on she is your friend . Do it in a polite way and don't say any sexual things while you're flirting him/her!
Reply:Flirting can sometimes be a start of more to come. I'd examine this friendship. is it worth the risk? Then again, it could be completely harmless and innocent.
Reply:As long as it stays with flirting. No touching.
Reply:I don't think it is. I mean, if you're friends with their spouse, I would DEFINITELY not. If anything, if you DON'T flirt with them, their spouse won't get mad at you. No need to drag yourself into it- be the mature one.
Reply:no
Reply:Flirting is okay to a certain extent but ONLY if it doesn't bother your respective partners.
Reply:no, he's taking.. if he can't get that then leave him alone..
Reply:Harmless flirting + apathy for other people's lives + selfish thinking = a terrible mess you may not be able to get out of.
Reply:NO.
He or she is MARRIED. That means they have a responsibility to their spouse. If they want you, as in WANT you, they need to divorce their husband/wife and try to win your heart then. And if their willing to give up a hopefully healthy relationship with someone they are married to, you have to question their morals. Remember, they just might do the same to you.
Reply:THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH FLIRTING AS LONG AS YOU DON'T TAKE IT ANY FURTHER AND IT IS REALLY HEALTHY IT KEEPS YOU YOUNG :)
Reply:No its not if hes married! Would you want someone to flirt with your husband or boyfriend?
Reply:no it is not!!!!! If that person is flirting with you it means he/she dosent care for the husband/wife and that means he or her would get married no matter how he or she feels and that is beyond inhumane and you encouraging that disgusting behavior
P.S.
It also means he/she dosent care for anybody inclouding you
(hope it helps)
Reply:Sure.
Reply:No, because that is giving them the impression there is a chance. Just consider if it was your spouse flirting with your friend. Would you want them to encourage it?
Reply:I say yes as long as you don't overstep your limits, and friendly flirting is ok, once it gets sexual, stop it. think of his wife.
Reply:NO ! Wait until she is separated or Divorce first ! Then you can flirt with her all the time !
Reply:no
Reply:No then that might give him the wrong impression.
Reply:Would you want your boyfriend/girlfriend flirting behind your back? That is how I decide. If you don't care, then, "Sure...go for it." If not, then don't.
Reply:well if you feel uncomfortable then i would talk to your good friend, i would not flirt back, it could end up ruining your friendship, if the other person finds out.
Reply:Now.....do YOU think it is the right thing to flirt with a 'married' man?I really suggest not to.If he constantly filrts with you then tell him to stop be cause he is a married man! If his marrige ends i don't think you want to be the blame for it.When he got married he made a vow not to love anyone else except his wife and kids. Please ask your self if he cheats on YOU how would you feel?
Reply:no ,try to avoid,,its best for u and her too...why do u want to ruin her life,,,
Reply:NO...... Sure we all flirt a bit, but all of the time means they are interested and obviously too interested if either or both is married. Stay away, if it continues confront them about it!!
Reply:no
Reply:yea it jus means they have a flirty atitude
Reply:Yeah, sure!
Reply:It is okay to flirt back but do not take it farther. There are so many crazy people out there and if their partner finds out you could have car trouble and broken windows or death threats and broken bones. BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!
Reply:provided it remains harmless. Don't cross the line if you think he is serious. I flirt with all of my wifes female friends all the time, but we are only fooling around and I do it to put a smile on their faces.
How do you flirt, or drop hints you like a guy?
How do you do it?
I REALLY like this guy, who i don't see outside of school.. How do I flirt with him in school? What do I do?
Oh, I'm going to ask him to go with some of my friends (and his) to the movies this weekend. How do I flirt there?
How do you flirt, or drop hints you like a guy?
Guys are physical beings. Touch is a very strong way for girls to flirt with them. Even a touch on the arm while you are talking with him will do. Also smile a lot and look him in the eye while you talk. Oh and walk in front of him so he can get a good look at your butt. =P
Good luck!
Reply:if he likes you, any skin you have showing, any clothes you are wearing, any movements you make, anything you say could be taken as flirting. See his response to some subtle things and wing it from there.
dont worry about it too much
Reply:If you don't want to be obvious about it, the easiest way is to just act differently towards him than you do towards other guys, and make the distinction sort of noticeable.
Reply:iv you like this guy you should go to a scary movie with him and get close during scary parts
Reply:umm...lots of girls flirt by taking my things for some reason and they want me 2 try and get it back which means a bit of grabbing so it rly depends thts 1 way
Reply:Simle, just stay close to him but be very casual.
Reply:just mess with him and give him mild googley eyes an try to hold his hand or put your arm around him in a friendly way but keep it there so he can kinda get the hint!Good Luck!!!
Reply:okay to flirt with a boy, go out out your way to say hi and twirl your hair around him and purposely drop your pen and stuff, if he picks it up he obviously cares, as for the movies just make your hand available and wear something not revealing but not something that makes you look like you just got back from church
Reply:You cant flirt in the movies as you cant talk - I think school is the best place to flirt as you can be inconspicuous!!
Reply:Hey, big fellar!--I just love those jeans hug your nice body bigguy, AHHEEHEE [teeheeheehee!]
Reply:simple compliments about his clothes or interests. Squeeze in an obvious smile. Work your way into a conversation about finding a time you two can hang out alone in the future.
If all else fails, just say ' what are you doing next weekend? I'm going to BLANK. Wanna come?' simple and straight forward.
Reply:Sometimes you have to hit them over the head to get their attention.
He probably doesn't know you like him...or doesn't know how to break the ice.
Go talk to him about it.
Reply:just try to talk to him alone and tell him how you feel and DONT try to hard ...remember look at his eyes when you talk to him and no were else ..GOOD LUCK!
Reply:make alot of eye contact, smile at him. and laugh at funny stuff he sais (not everything) but try to be a little touchy also. ask him what hes doing that weekend and then ask. trust me, he'll know. =]
Reply:What are you, 10 years old?
Just be yourself, instead of some silly thing. When people flirt they just act stupid and like someone else.
Reply:well jus sit ther an talk to him an if he seems interested then ask him if hes single if he says yes say o really me too! BE YOURSELF! now at the movies umm..... talk to him before the movie starts an all every1 has differ ways of flirtin ther ant no wrong or rite way really but DONT flat out tell him ya like him if he seems like he dont wanna talk or be ur friend b'cuz then he wouldnt wanna flirt its kinda like rejectin before he asks or you ask so jus start by talkin pretty much jus a normal conversation like mayb school or sumn like tha good luck!
Reply:Straight out tell him. He is not a mind reader!
Reply:Make sure you sit next to him and lean in close after a little while. Maybe grab his hand at some point or put your head on his shoulder.
Or you could grow a pair and tell him you like him.
Reply:hit him if he makes fun of someone and nudge your body against his. specificly forget a jacket to the date...if he offers u his he likes u too PS take it!!!
Reply:Just ask him questions about what he likes and stuff. Guys love to talk about themselves.
Reply:Flash a little cleavage?
Seriously, just be yourself. Sooner or later, you'll both drop the masks and do that anyway. Smart is always sexy.
Reply:The best advice I have, which I follow because I am in the same postition is to play Hard To Get. Occasionally say hi, then ask him about himself. Guys love to talk about themselves, and most hate it when girls talk about themselves.
Reply:1.Smile a lot
2.Laugh when he says something funny
3.Make eye contact =-P
4.*I'm trying to think of some more things you could do*
5. Touch his arm or leg *let him know u like him*
6. Hope this helped i just can't think of anything right now =-P
Reply:grab his hand. maybe kiss if yall arent shy. and make sure to have body contact throughout the movie.
Reply:Don't play games guys are pretty cluless, you should just tell him, what do you have to lose if he's not interested you never had him in the first place so your not losing anything.
Reply:You should start out smiling at him whenever you see him, not in a creepy smile, just a little one. Try hanging out with him to.
Reply:Chat, talk about hot movie stars...he will get the idea
Reply:Different people flirt in different ways. If you
talk to him then just "touch" him a lot, not
anything too conspicuous, but just subtle
touching. If you don't talk to him just smile
or say hi when you see him in the hall or
basically just talk to him more. At the movies
you should sit next to him and "accidentally" touch
his hand or brush against him or something.
I don't really flirt, but people say that they wish
they could flirt like me and I really don't know
what I'm doing to flirt. Hope this helps.
Reply:Just flat out tell him you like him. That's what I did! Or just chat with him :)
I REALLY like this guy, who i don't see outside of school.. How do I flirt with him in school? What do I do?
Oh, I'm going to ask him to go with some of my friends (and his) to the movies this weekend. How do I flirt there?
How do you flirt, or drop hints you like a guy?
Guys are physical beings. Touch is a very strong way for girls to flirt with them. Even a touch on the arm while you are talking with him will do. Also smile a lot and look him in the eye while you talk. Oh and walk in front of him so he can get a good look at your butt. =P
Good luck!
Reply:if he likes you, any skin you have showing, any clothes you are wearing, any movements you make, anything you say could be taken as flirting. See his response to some subtle things and wing it from there.
dont worry about it too much
Reply:If you don't want to be obvious about it, the easiest way is to just act differently towards him than you do towards other guys, and make the distinction sort of noticeable.
Reply:iv you like this guy you should go to a scary movie with him and get close during scary parts
Reply:umm...lots of girls flirt by taking my things for some reason and they want me 2 try and get it back which means a bit of grabbing so it rly depends thts 1 way
Reply:Simle, just stay close to him but be very casual.
Reply:just mess with him and give him mild googley eyes an try to hold his hand or put your arm around him in a friendly way but keep it there so he can kinda get the hint!Good Luck!!!
Reply:okay to flirt with a boy, go out out your way to say hi and twirl your hair around him and purposely drop your pen and stuff, if he picks it up he obviously cares, as for the movies just make your hand available and wear something not revealing but not something that makes you look like you just got back from church
Reply:You cant flirt in the movies as you cant talk - I think school is the best place to flirt as you can be inconspicuous!!
Reply:Hey, big fellar!--I just love those jeans hug your nice body bigguy, AHHEEHEE [teeheeheehee!]
Reply:simple compliments about his clothes or interests. Squeeze in an obvious smile. Work your way into a conversation about finding a time you two can hang out alone in the future.
If all else fails, just say ' what are you doing next weekend? I'm going to BLANK. Wanna come?' simple and straight forward.
Reply:Sometimes you have to hit them over the head to get their attention.
He probably doesn't know you like him...or doesn't know how to break the ice.
Go talk to him about it.
Reply:just try to talk to him alone and tell him how you feel and DONT try to hard ...remember look at his eyes when you talk to him and no were else ..GOOD LUCK!
Reply:make alot of eye contact, smile at him. and laugh at funny stuff he sais (not everything) but try to be a little touchy also. ask him what hes doing that weekend and then ask. trust me, he'll know. =]
Reply:What are you, 10 years old?
Just be yourself, instead of some silly thing. When people flirt they just act stupid and like someone else.
Reply:well jus sit ther an talk to him an if he seems interested then ask him if hes single if he says yes say o really me too! BE YOURSELF! now at the movies umm..... talk to him before the movie starts an all every1 has differ ways of flirtin ther ant no wrong or rite way really but DONT flat out tell him ya like him if he seems like he dont wanna talk or be ur friend b'cuz then he wouldnt wanna flirt its kinda like rejectin before he asks or you ask so jus start by talkin pretty much jus a normal conversation like mayb school or sumn like tha good luck!
Reply:Straight out tell him. He is not a mind reader!
Reply:Make sure you sit next to him and lean in close after a little while. Maybe grab his hand at some point or put your head on his shoulder.
Or you could grow a pair and tell him you like him.
Reply:hit him if he makes fun of someone and nudge your body against his. specificly forget a jacket to the date...if he offers u his he likes u too PS take it!!!
Reply:Just ask him questions about what he likes and stuff. Guys love to talk about themselves.
Reply:Flash a little cleavage?
Seriously, just be yourself. Sooner or later, you'll both drop the masks and do that anyway. Smart is always sexy.
Reply:The best advice I have, which I follow because I am in the same postition is to play Hard To Get. Occasionally say hi, then ask him about himself. Guys love to talk about themselves, and most hate it when girls talk about themselves.
Reply:1.Smile a lot
2.Laugh when he says something funny
3.Make eye contact =-P
4.*I'm trying to think of some more things you could do*
5. Touch his arm or leg *let him know u like him*
6. Hope this helped i just can't think of anything right now =-P
Reply:grab his hand. maybe kiss if yall arent shy. and make sure to have body contact throughout the movie.
Reply:Don't play games guys are pretty cluless, you should just tell him, what do you have to lose if he's not interested you never had him in the first place so your not losing anything.
Reply:You should start out smiling at him whenever you see him, not in a creepy smile, just a little one. Try hanging out with him to.
Reply:Chat, talk about hot movie stars...he will get the idea
Reply:Different people flirt in different ways. If you
talk to him then just "touch" him a lot, not
anything too conspicuous, but just subtle
touching. If you don't talk to him just smile
or say hi when you see him in the hall or
basically just talk to him more. At the movies
you should sit next to him and "accidentally" touch
his hand or brush against him or something.
I don't really flirt, but people say that they wish
they could flirt like me and I really don't know
what I'm doing to flirt. Hope this helps.
Reply:Just flat out tell him you like him. That's what I did! Or just chat with him :)
How do I flirt with this boy?
I am 13 and I like this boy in some of my classes. He is really cute and nice and funny. I want to flirt with him, but there are a lot of differen ways. BOYS, what works? How do you like girls to flirt with you?
Another question: BOYS, what do you look for in girls? What kind of personality and what looks?
How do I flirt with this boy?
Make eye contact.
Touch his arm if you're sitting together.
Rub your foot off his leg.
If he doesn't catch on after these then he is probably slow and not worth your attention.
Reply:You can read a lot of tips about flirting in teen magazines. Check out their websites.
Try Seventeen, CosmoGirl, Alloy, etc.
Reply:make eye contact, poke him, smile at him, etc.
Reply:Don't waste time flirting with a 13 boy. I never noticed girls existed till i was 18.
By the time he gets to 18 he will be a different person and probably not be cute anymore.
Try picking a bogey out of your nose and eating it in front of him. this should make him notice.
Reply:He is a boy..play video games with him
Racing Shoes
Another question: BOYS, what do you look for in girls? What kind of personality and what looks?
How do I flirt with this boy?
Make eye contact.
Touch his arm if you're sitting together.
Rub your foot off his leg.
If he doesn't catch on after these then he is probably slow and not worth your attention.
Reply:You can read a lot of tips about flirting in teen magazines. Check out their websites.
Try Seventeen, CosmoGirl, Alloy, etc.
Reply:make eye contact, poke him, smile at him, etc.
Reply:Don't waste time flirting with a 13 boy. I never noticed girls existed till i was 18.
By the time he gets to 18 he will be a different person and probably not be cute anymore.
Try picking a bogey out of your nose and eating it in front of him. this should make him notice.
Reply:He is a boy..play video games with him
Racing Shoes
Why do people flirt when they are already with someone?
I am happy within a relationship but when i encounter new interesting people i cannot resist flirting when they flirt with me which can lead to innapropriate contact, how do i avoid this.
Why do people flirt when they are already with someone?
it's only natural, best way is to minimise contact, flirt all u like but when u start touching, rethink!
Reply:i am the same i flirt like mad but would die off if someone tried to take it to the next step i think we just like to be liked that's all
Reply:Keef u,
Well, To flirt or not to flirt, or Not to flirt: That is the question.
With apologies to Shakespeare and Hamlet (Act 3, scene 1).
I would like to express my opinion on this one as I have a lot of experience here.
I am a big flirt. BUT, when I do flirt with a person, I do not have any type of clandestine, covert or any other hidden meanings or suggestions or agendas that may be applied.
I have a big heart; I flirt for the sole purpose of attempting to make a person feel better about themselves. When a woman is the recipient of my nature, she will most of the time say “Wow, someone noticed me today.” That is special to me. If I offend a person than I immediately apologize.
My heart is pure and my intentions are honorable so it is a rare time that I do need to apologize. I am also told that I am a very attractive and sweet so this as well may help a person feel good as well.
Now, when I was married and was deprived of intimacy with my spouse. I flirted for more reasons that were more self-serving than giving. We were not intimate very much at ALL. So I needed to know if there was something wrong with me. So I flirted to see if women found me desirable, as my spouse did not. Oh, I was true and loyal to my vows. But I just needed some sort of validation.
Now, my thoughts on other married persons flirting, (at least to a degree that should not happen) ties into my last paragraph. People just need some validation or confirmation that they are worth spending a few moments of their time with and being listened to without any judgments. Plus it can lead to immoral escapes as well. A person needs to be strong if they are being flirted with and the gut should be the one to consult before it goes to far.
Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. That is the key. Have some boundaries.
Wow, I’m writing a book here, better stop now before your question is forgotten in the dust.
Hope this helped some,
Smiles to you,
Jeff
Reply:cause its fun xx ;-)
Reply:Of course you can resist, you just don't choose to. Ego boosts. But even these aren't always worth it.
Reply:Is it that you are being overly friendly or actually flirting. Do you flirt because you are not getting that kind of attention with your significant other?
Dress a little differently or do something out of the ordinary with your significant other that would cause them to sit up and take notice. This may cause some attention to flow your way at home.
Reply:they like the attention if flirting goes to far back off or tell them your happy with who you have.its alright to be just friends and just flirt.
Reply:women are like car's every so often you get cheesed off with your old banger and fancy a test drive of the new model that gives better performance and handling.
Reply:ask the married guy i'm talking to
Reply:flirting as i have always thought is just with words..if you are having contact that you know is inappropriate simply do not do it...when you think you might, just imagine what you would do if the person you are with walked up while you were doing that
Reply:its natural long as u dnt act on it or lead anyone on it makes the world a happier place enjoy but be good
Reply:If u were truly happy you wud not let it lead on to any thing else. It shud be enough to know u cud if u wanted to. You need to re-assess what it is you want from your relationship. Some one will get hurt other wise. Sorry if i sound harsh, but there IS such thing as harmless flirting.
Reply:Funny how people can be dating and still be looking for the
Mr. RIght / Fairy Princess! What if relationship wasnt supposed to last forever and once we got all the growth we could we move on. Funny also how after the sex is over and the lights come on and there's no mental stimulation we get bored. Given that is it, any wonder we flirt looking for the minds continuous desire for new stimulation..need i say more?
Check my other answers for more value ;)
Reply:Just don't do it! SHeesh! Stop acting like you can't help it. You can, and you know exactly what you are doing.
Reply:because it makes you feel wanted and pretty...
you need to find out why you need that, and what's missing in your relationship that needs to be filled...
Reply:I've been married for 32 years and still flirt - it's a way of feeling that you are still attractive enough for someone to still want to flirt with you...and it has NEVER lead to 'inappropriate contact'!!!
Reply:Cause flirting is fun and it does no harm.... mostly!
Reply:maybe bec u want a variety.....
Reply:Find a new way to get attention! For your ego!ID!
Reply:Flirting is part time.Other one full time.
Reply:Everyone loves to flirt. It is not that you are being unfaithful - it is simply that you are showing the opposite sex that you respect them in their beauty and charm - thats all. Nothing to worry about
Reply:u can still flirt, but get rid of the innapropriate contact.
basically dont do it too much.
that^ only applies if ur single. DO NOT FLIRT W/ ANYONE BUT UR SPOUSE IF UR MARRIED!!
if u really feel bad about it (ie: how can i avoid this) just play hard 2 get %26amp; ignore them. its fun 2 see the looks on their faces.
Reply:that means that you are not satisfied wit the guy that you are wit so you need more.and plus it's fun to flirt,the only way is to train yourself to have self control
Reply:Well females and males do that because of harmonal issues and scent most likely if you meet someone new youll remember their scent or how they act if its something good you'll be attracted to it its just how humans act and animals
Reply:FLIRTING IS HARMLESS, UNLESS YOU TAKE IT TO ANOTHER LEVEL.
Reply:they love the danger more than the fling
Reply:keef u :
It is either: the ( someone) in your relation is not good enough for you,
or: you are not good for him/her.
Any how sotp responding to every cue. Instead look at the beggars ( some are in real need) and donate some money, perhaps just enough for a cheap meal!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Well I do it because it is fun and my man likes it, likes to see other men smile at me because Im going home with him
Why do people flirt when they are already with someone?
it's only natural, best way is to minimise contact, flirt all u like but when u start touching, rethink!
Reply:i am the same i flirt like mad but would die off if someone tried to take it to the next step i think we just like to be liked that's all
Reply:Keef u,
Well, To flirt or not to flirt, or Not to flirt: That is the question.
With apologies to Shakespeare and Hamlet (Act 3, scene 1).
I would like to express my opinion on this one as I have a lot of experience here.
I am a big flirt. BUT, when I do flirt with a person, I do not have any type of clandestine, covert or any other hidden meanings or suggestions or agendas that may be applied.
I have a big heart; I flirt for the sole purpose of attempting to make a person feel better about themselves. When a woman is the recipient of my nature, she will most of the time say “Wow, someone noticed me today.” That is special to me. If I offend a person than I immediately apologize.
My heart is pure and my intentions are honorable so it is a rare time that I do need to apologize. I am also told that I am a very attractive and sweet so this as well may help a person feel good as well.
Now, when I was married and was deprived of intimacy with my spouse. I flirted for more reasons that were more self-serving than giving. We were not intimate very much at ALL. So I needed to know if there was something wrong with me. So I flirted to see if women found me desirable, as my spouse did not. Oh, I was true and loyal to my vows. But I just needed some sort of validation.
Now, my thoughts on other married persons flirting, (at least to a degree that should not happen) ties into my last paragraph. People just need some validation or confirmation that they are worth spending a few moments of their time with and being listened to without any judgments. Plus it can lead to immoral escapes as well. A person needs to be strong if they are being flirted with and the gut should be the one to consult before it goes to far.
Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. That is the key. Have some boundaries.
Wow, I’m writing a book here, better stop now before your question is forgotten in the dust.
Hope this helped some,
Smiles to you,
Jeff
Reply:cause its fun xx ;-)
Reply:Of course you can resist, you just don't choose to. Ego boosts. But even these aren't always worth it.
Reply:Is it that you are being overly friendly or actually flirting. Do you flirt because you are not getting that kind of attention with your significant other?
Dress a little differently or do something out of the ordinary with your significant other that would cause them to sit up and take notice. This may cause some attention to flow your way at home.
Reply:they like the attention if flirting goes to far back off or tell them your happy with who you have.its alright to be just friends and just flirt.
Reply:women are like car's every so often you get cheesed off with your old banger and fancy a test drive of the new model that gives better performance and handling.
Reply:ask the married guy i'm talking to
Reply:flirting as i have always thought is just with words..if you are having contact that you know is inappropriate simply do not do it...when you think you might, just imagine what you would do if the person you are with walked up while you were doing that
Reply:its natural long as u dnt act on it or lead anyone on it makes the world a happier place enjoy but be good
Reply:If u were truly happy you wud not let it lead on to any thing else. It shud be enough to know u cud if u wanted to. You need to re-assess what it is you want from your relationship. Some one will get hurt other wise. Sorry if i sound harsh, but there IS such thing as harmless flirting.
Reply:Funny how people can be dating and still be looking for the
Mr. RIght / Fairy Princess! What if relationship wasnt supposed to last forever and once we got all the growth we could we move on. Funny also how after the sex is over and the lights come on and there's no mental stimulation we get bored. Given that is it, any wonder we flirt looking for the minds continuous desire for new stimulation..need i say more?
Check my other answers for more value ;)
Reply:Just don't do it! SHeesh! Stop acting like you can't help it. You can, and you know exactly what you are doing.
Reply:because it makes you feel wanted and pretty...
you need to find out why you need that, and what's missing in your relationship that needs to be filled...
Reply:I've been married for 32 years and still flirt - it's a way of feeling that you are still attractive enough for someone to still want to flirt with you...and it has NEVER lead to 'inappropriate contact'!!!
Reply:Cause flirting is fun and it does no harm.... mostly!
Reply:maybe bec u want a variety.....
Reply:Find a new way to get attention! For your ego!ID!
Reply:Flirting is part time.Other one full time.
Reply:Everyone loves to flirt. It is not that you are being unfaithful - it is simply that you are showing the opposite sex that you respect them in their beauty and charm - thats all. Nothing to worry about
Reply:u can still flirt, but get rid of the innapropriate contact.
basically dont do it too much.
that^ only applies if ur single. DO NOT FLIRT W/ ANYONE BUT UR SPOUSE IF UR MARRIED!!
if u really feel bad about it (ie: how can i avoid this) just play hard 2 get %26amp; ignore them. its fun 2 see the looks on their faces.
Reply:that means that you are not satisfied wit the guy that you are wit so you need more.and plus it's fun to flirt,the only way is to train yourself to have self control
Reply:Well females and males do that because of harmonal issues and scent most likely if you meet someone new youll remember their scent or how they act if its something good you'll be attracted to it its just how humans act and animals
Reply:FLIRTING IS HARMLESS, UNLESS YOU TAKE IT TO ANOTHER LEVEL.
Reply:they love the danger more than the fling
Reply:keef u :
It is either: the ( someone) in your relation is not good enough for you,
or: you are not good for him/her.
Any how sotp responding to every cue. Instead look at the beggars ( some are in real need) and donate some money, perhaps just enough for a cheap meal!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Well I do it because it is fun and my man likes it, likes to see other men smile at me because Im going home with him
For the guys who love to flirt....?
even if you do flirt around all day, is there still a specific girl you can't stop thinking about every night? what makes her so different than all the other girls you flirt with? WHY do you flirt around with other girls if you're obviously so crazy about that one girl?
For the guys who love to flirt....?
well...i would have to say that it would be because that one girl is currently unavailable. That is just my case...but there are others...he is trying to make her notice him by getting himself out there. Or maybe he is trying to make her jealous if she likes him. To answer your question, truthfully I can't. Sometimes you just find yourself flirting because it is so easy to do without even noticing it. You mind see him flirting...but maybe he doesn't think he is. It is all in the eyes of the beholder...that kind of stuff. So, to be more frank...are you talking about flirting only or what we term as being a 'player'?
Reply:You can learn more about flirting and the reason of doing that in the following address:
http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...
hopefully it will help you :))
For the guys who love to flirt....?
well...i would have to say that it would be because that one girl is currently unavailable. That is just my case...but there are others...he is trying to make her notice him by getting himself out there. Or maybe he is trying to make her jealous if she likes him. To answer your question, truthfully I can't. Sometimes you just find yourself flirting because it is so easy to do without even noticing it. You mind see him flirting...but maybe he doesn't think he is. It is all in the eyes of the beholder...that kind of stuff. So, to be more frank...are you talking about flirting only or what we term as being a 'player'?
Reply:You can learn more about flirting and the reason of doing that in the following address:
http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...
hopefully it will help you :))
Can a natural flirt be shy?
It's not that he's a player... it's just that he is confident, outspoken and flirts a lot.
He does flirt with me but sometimes I feel like he doesnt know what to say, hesitates or maybe just doesnt care to speak with me?
Can a natural flirt be shy?
My boyfriend was the same way when I met him. He was a loud mouth... Very flirty had lots of friends that were girls ... HE would talk to all of them but me! I thought he didnt like me! I thought he was to good... come to find out he did have feelings for me ... and he was just shy cause he didnt know how to go about talking to me . Everything changes when you like someone. because you dont want them to think you are a flirt right? Your more on egg shells and care what your crush thinks about you. Id step it up ... ya never know until you try
Reply:then hes not a natural flirt... confident and shy are two different things, youre probably getting a different message than whats hes trying to put out, if hes putting out a message in the first place. a natural flirt is better than hesitation, they can improvise... but even if he was, he can only go so far without you talking back. interact and keep the conversation between you two going
Reply:Of course he can, if the woman in question happens to be a potentially dangerous individual. You probably intimidate and scare the **** out of him in some way.
Reply:Yes he can be shy but once he gets familiar with you he won't be shy at all..
Reply:yes a natural flirt may be shy. it is possible to be ambivert. as in both intraverted and extraverted
Reply:a natural flirt can flirt with anybody, but when it comes down to someone he is really interested in it becomes a different story, because it is not understood what the correct approach is to that particular person, so that is the reason for the fumbling, forgetfulness and shyness. i kno i ama natural flirt, but when i first met my girlfriend i couldn't seem t get my words together.
Reply:maybe he just needs to think about what hes gonna say...it happens to me, cuz i forget wut im about 2 say
Reply:Yes. Not always.
Flirts or even class clowns can be 'outgoing' in a group and shy with one person.
Reply:I can attest to this one. I'm a flirt, but completely shy. I guess I get over my closet shyness by being overly flirtatious. However, I'm totally oblivious to the opposing sex when it comes to being hit on or checked out.
He does flirt with me but sometimes I feel like he doesnt know what to say, hesitates or maybe just doesnt care to speak with me?
Can a natural flirt be shy?
My boyfriend was the same way when I met him. He was a loud mouth... Very flirty had lots of friends that were girls ... HE would talk to all of them but me! I thought he didnt like me! I thought he was to good... come to find out he did have feelings for me ... and he was just shy cause he didnt know how to go about talking to me . Everything changes when you like someone. because you dont want them to think you are a flirt right? Your more on egg shells and care what your crush thinks about you. Id step it up ... ya never know until you try
Reply:then hes not a natural flirt... confident and shy are two different things, youre probably getting a different message than whats hes trying to put out, if hes putting out a message in the first place. a natural flirt is better than hesitation, they can improvise... but even if he was, he can only go so far without you talking back. interact and keep the conversation between you two going
Reply:Of course he can, if the woman in question happens to be a potentially dangerous individual. You probably intimidate and scare the **** out of him in some way.
Reply:Yes he can be shy but once he gets familiar with you he won't be shy at all..
Reply:yes a natural flirt may be shy. it is possible to be ambivert. as in both intraverted and extraverted
Reply:a natural flirt can flirt with anybody, but when it comes down to someone he is really interested in it becomes a different story, because it is not understood what the correct approach is to that particular person, so that is the reason for the fumbling, forgetfulness and shyness. i kno i ama natural flirt, but when i first met my girlfriend i couldn't seem t get my words together.
Reply:maybe he just needs to think about what hes gonna say...it happens to me, cuz i forget wut im about 2 say
Reply:Yes. Not always.
Flirts or even class clowns can be 'outgoing' in a group and shy with one person.
Reply:I can attest to this one. I'm a flirt, but completely shy. I guess I get over my closet shyness by being overly flirtatious. However, I'm totally oblivious to the opposing sex when it comes to being hit on or checked out.
How do you flirt?
its embarassing. dont rub it in. but i dont know how to flirt. it makes me seem dumb. just help me and give me some tips on how to flirt. Please!
How do you flirt?
Start converstaions, keep talking, once, I had a girl flirting for 55 minutes during math class, then class was over.
Reply:Check out the book "Flirting 101" by Michelle Lia Lewis and Andrew Bryant. It tells you all you need to know about flirting. People on amazon.com said that it was very informative and it improved their social lives. Go to your local bookstore and start reading it. I bet you're not going to want to leave the store without getting the book.
Reply:soft eye contact and a shy smile..they seem to come running
Reply:laugh at his jokes..
rub his thighs...
show a little cleavage
i'll bet you that they'll come running to you !
Reply:So u wanna go somewhere. sit close to him, kiss him,
teeth cleaning
How do you flirt?
Start converstaions, keep talking, once, I had a girl flirting for 55 minutes during math class, then class was over.
Reply:Check out the book "Flirting 101" by Michelle Lia Lewis and Andrew Bryant. It tells you all you need to know about flirting. People on amazon.com said that it was very informative and it improved their social lives. Go to your local bookstore and start reading it. I bet you're not going to want to leave the store without getting the book.
Reply:soft eye contact and a shy smile..they seem to come running
Reply:laugh at his jokes..
rub his thighs...
show a little cleavage
i'll bet you that they'll come running to you !
Reply:So u wanna go somewhere. sit close to him, kiss him,
teeth cleaning
How do I flirt?
I just found out today that the girl that was going out with the boy I like, broke up with him today. My locker is like 3 away from his, so I see him between almost every class. I always watch for him to walk down the halls. I have been noticing that he has been look at me a lot more for the past few days. Wednesday, I passed him in the hall and he was watching me walk and staring at me from head to toe. And he has been watching me more too. Don't get me wrong, I watch him too!;)
But, since I'm shy, I don't know how to flirt with him. I think he is nice and polite and very cute(well, hott!)
How do I go about flirting with him? I really want to go out with him.
I have never had a boyfriend.
How do I flirt?
Ask him a question and appear interested. When he's finished talking, ask him if he wants to get some coffee and talk about it some more.
Reply:strike up small talk. find out things both u and he are interested in and talk about that. once he sees how you are things will totally open up.
i'm the same way. you know, shy. i was in this same situation a few weeks ago. this kid in my class kept staring at me and of course i notcied him. he would mess with my purse, paly with my hair and so forth. i found out he listened to a lot of screamo music (Underoath to be specific) and ever since then, we talk about music everyday!
Reply:talk 2 him say things like eww u like her but just play around and kid around with him P.S. dont make it to obvious
Reply:If it makes you feel comfortable, get a mutual friend that will help hook you two up or just casually say "Hi!" as your walking down the hallway and then once you are comfortable with that, start up a conversation with a mutual friend so it won't be as awkward. Good luck and I hope all works out! ^_^
Reply:just talk to him!!! get to know him better and when the time is right you will know and he will ask you out. just dont be tooo nosey or trying to find out EVERYTHING about him just paly it cool
Reply:well, i cant really explain it because all my frinds say i ma a HUGE flrt but i never notice that... i guess just laugh at them when they say something funny, talk to him a lot, tease him playfully etc. (this is what i do and i dont garuntee tis will work, it works for me though. its too bad ive never had a b/f either!) lol
Reply:Fear is absolutely the worst feeling ever in the world. No feeling is worse than fear. Timidity is a form of fear, and a habit of shyness is just about the nastiest habits of them all.
I've overcome some of it myself.
I think you should start talking to him more, SMILE, make sure he knows you're interested. Then later on ask him if he wants to see a movie on the weekend or something.
Reply:tell him you like him and asked him can you be my first boyfriend? if the answer is no.. never mind.. forget it! but if it is yes.. congratulation! give all the best you can.. let me know huh!
But, since I'm shy, I don't know how to flirt with him. I think he is nice and polite and very cute(well, hott!)
How do I go about flirting with him? I really want to go out with him.
I have never had a boyfriend.
How do I flirt?
Ask him a question and appear interested. When he's finished talking, ask him if he wants to get some coffee and talk about it some more.
Reply:strike up small talk. find out things both u and he are interested in and talk about that. once he sees how you are things will totally open up.
i'm the same way. you know, shy. i was in this same situation a few weeks ago. this kid in my class kept staring at me and of course i notcied him. he would mess with my purse, paly with my hair and so forth. i found out he listened to a lot of screamo music (Underoath to be specific) and ever since then, we talk about music everyday!
Reply:talk 2 him say things like eww u like her but just play around and kid around with him P.S. dont make it to obvious
Reply:If it makes you feel comfortable, get a mutual friend that will help hook you two up or just casually say "Hi!" as your walking down the hallway and then once you are comfortable with that, start up a conversation with a mutual friend so it won't be as awkward. Good luck and I hope all works out! ^_^
Reply:just talk to him!!! get to know him better and when the time is right you will know and he will ask you out. just dont be tooo nosey or trying to find out EVERYTHING about him just paly it cool
Reply:well, i cant really explain it because all my frinds say i ma a HUGE flrt but i never notice that... i guess just laugh at them when they say something funny, talk to him a lot, tease him playfully etc. (this is what i do and i dont garuntee tis will work, it works for me though. its too bad ive never had a b/f either!) lol
Reply:Fear is absolutely the worst feeling ever in the world. No feeling is worse than fear. Timidity is a form of fear, and a habit of shyness is just about the nastiest habits of them all.
I've overcome some of it myself.
I think you should start talking to him more, SMILE, make sure he knows you're interested. Then later on ask him if he wants to see a movie on the weekend or something.
Reply:tell him you like him and asked him can you be my first boyfriend? if the answer is no.. never mind.. forget it! but if it is yes.. congratulation! give all the best you can.. let me know huh!
How do u flirt with a guy?
I'm talking to this guy over AIM and i need to know how to flirt with him. I know how to flirt in person. but over aim and e-mail i'm kinda hazy about. No stupid or perverted answers. Thanks!
How do u flirt with a guy?
What can you say in an email or instant message (IM) to entice someone to get to coffee talk? You are trying to get to the first date level. So what are the tricks to flirting online?
Three keys to online flirting success:
1. Humor is your ally. A 35-year-old male film editor told me, "It depends on the person. You need to be able to read the person to tell what kind of humor you can get away with.
Humor is definitely sexy
Humor is definitely sexy, and so is confidence because girls pick that up."
2. Keep it simple. Use light-hearted emails or IMs with an upbeat tone to attract dates online. A 40-something female painter shared, "Make your responses simple and use easy questions in your messages to flirt." There is no need for long emails or IMs either. A 42-year-old accountant told me, "I can tell if I am interested in three or four sentences."
3. Hand out compliments. One of the best ways to flirt online is to extend a sincere compliment. One guy told me, "I always try to say something subtle but sincere." You might say to someone who plays the piano, "I think it is awesome that you play piano." He added, "Be sincere and don't throw out phony baloney."
10 IM or email flirting questions
Based on interviews with hundreds of active daters for my book, "SMART Man Hunting," here are 10 proven questions that can help you ignite sparks online:
Where did you get that fantastic smile?
What is your favorite ice cream flavor and why?
What is the most romantic place that you've been on a date?
What would you do if we got stuck in a snow storm in the mountains?
If you were going to take me out for a romantic evening, what would we do?
What is your favorite thing to do with a partner for fun?
If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
How long have you played guitar? (Ask about something in their profile.)
Wow, is that your cute golden retriever? (Compliment something in their photograph.)
When are we going to meet to find out whether we would ever want to kiss each other? (Depending on the person, you can sound cute using this one)
Have some fun -- use humor and good will. Keep it simple when you're using these email flirting questions. You will have better luck using levity and sincere compliments online.
Reply:Just ask the guy to call you on the phone or say, when are we going to meet in person?
Reply:tell him HOW BIG IS YOUR AZZ?
and thats all! he will do the rest.
Reply:it's hard... but it's easier than u think bc ur not in person. just use a lot of funny smilies and weird words or spell things wrong to make him laugh =]
Reply:Tell him what you like in a guy and if he has some of these qualities then let him know. Not only will you be flirting, you are indirectly letting him know that you like him a lot and then leave the rest up to him. Flirting is natural and kind of silly and fun and being around the right type of person will make it come natural for you. If someone has to tell you then it will be rehearsed and not natural, you will develop your own unique style and manner.
How do u flirt with a guy?
What can you say in an email or instant message (IM) to entice someone to get to coffee talk? You are trying to get to the first date level. So what are the tricks to flirting online?
Three keys to online flirting success:
1. Humor is your ally. A 35-year-old male film editor told me, "It depends on the person. You need to be able to read the person to tell what kind of humor you can get away with.
Humor is definitely sexy
Humor is definitely sexy, and so is confidence because girls pick that up."
2. Keep it simple. Use light-hearted emails or IMs with an upbeat tone to attract dates online. A 40-something female painter shared, "Make your responses simple and use easy questions in your messages to flirt." There is no need for long emails or IMs either. A 42-year-old accountant told me, "I can tell if I am interested in three or four sentences."
3. Hand out compliments. One of the best ways to flirt online is to extend a sincere compliment. One guy told me, "I always try to say something subtle but sincere." You might say to someone who plays the piano, "I think it is awesome that you play piano." He added, "Be sincere and don't throw out phony baloney."
10 IM or email flirting questions
Based on interviews with hundreds of active daters for my book, "SMART Man Hunting," here are 10 proven questions that can help you ignite sparks online:
Where did you get that fantastic smile?
What is your favorite ice cream flavor and why?
What is the most romantic place that you've been on a date?
What would you do if we got stuck in a snow storm in the mountains?
If you were going to take me out for a romantic evening, what would we do?
What is your favorite thing to do with a partner for fun?
If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
How long have you played guitar? (Ask about something in their profile.)
Wow, is that your cute golden retriever? (Compliment something in their photograph.)
When are we going to meet to find out whether we would ever want to kiss each other? (Depending on the person, you can sound cute using this one)
Have some fun -- use humor and good will. Keep it simple when you're using these email flirting questions. You will have better luck using levity and sincere compliments online.
Reply:Just ask the guy to call you on the phone or say, when are we going to meet in person?
Reply:tell him HOW BIG IS YOUR AZZ?
and thats all! he will do the rest.
Reply:it's hard... but it's easier than u think bc ur not in person. just use a lot of funny smilies and weird words or spell things wrong to make him laugh =]
Reply:Tell him what you like in a guy and if he has some of these qualities then let him know. Not only will you be flirting, you are indirectly letting him know that you like him a lot and then leave the rest up to him. Flirting is natural and kind of silly and fun and being around the right type of person will make it come natural for you. If someone has to tell you then it will be rehearsed and not natural, you will develop your own unique style and manner.
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