Its my bffs bro and I really like him but dont know how to flirt so can you tell me how to flirt a little
How should I flirt??
If i were u, i would just go over to ur best friends house and find out more about him. I mean, is ur friend ok wit it? If so, ask him out.
Sunday, November 20, 2011
How can I flirt ?
I want to flirt with a man via email, but don't want to be sooo obvious about it, because I truly don't know if he is interested. We email regularly, general things... but I want to see if I can go further. Should I just be blunt and go for it, and risk the friendship? What are some fun ways to flirt, things to say, and still be cool about it ?
How can I flirt ?
If you are talking (email) ask him whats going on for the weekend and if he says hes going out pretend to be shocked that he would go out without you... "You're going there... without me... im hurt..." but with a tone the he KNOWS your joking around - but it may be enough if he likes you to let him know that you can see yourself hanging out with him... If he's not interested then there is no harm done because it was totally jokey... If hes staying in say something like you're going to stay inside all alone what fun is that... maybe he will invite you over - again do it in an over exagerated jokey way. Now if he mentions hanging with a mom or Girlfriend - dont carry out these comments
Reply:i dont do via email
Reply:ask wat he's wearing and where he bought his clothes at
Reply:the best way to start flirting is to be funny...yes, use lots of humor n one point start connecting yourself to him. tell him things like hey be aware, u might get kidnapped very soon by a big fat guy...he will be like huh, what do u mean...then u will say actually this time i told santa that i wanted u as present this christmas.(then start laughing)
do surprise flirting too like tell him, hey remember u owe me $10.when am i getting it back...he will be like huh?? u will say i am just playing with u.
don't be serious...this will rather make u look desperate.
Reply:include emoticon :-* or %26gt;:D%26lt; in your messages if you don't want to go with the kiss right away do the one with the batting eyelashes not sure how to do it. Or if you chat on yahoo messenger change the background theme. with internet you can't be as coy as in real life you have to say hey would you like to go do something sometime. or most of us wouldn't get the point. speaking on behalf of the guys.
Reply:flirting by email involves emailing short, cute responses quickly to his emails and emailing lots of "thinking about you this minute" type messages (ie., how was your lunch?(eom), are you having a good afternoon? (eom), and the quite bold "sweet dreams - hope I'm in them" (eom)). Quick reply let's him know that he is important to you and on your mind often.
Reply:Tell him you're typing naked.
Reply:just tell him this, hey baby, i wants to sucks yous diks off
Reply:it's not the best idea to flirt with smb via email... i have done it...and its really not a very clever thing to do...try sth else
Reply:I f you have seen his picture, just say you have nice eyes smile,love your emails but could we met for coffee if you can
Reply:see if he would like to do something sometime. That might get him up and going
Reply:Go for it, you have nothing to lose and maybe everything to gain. Be clear about your feelings. If he wants to take a new level, he will respond.
Reply:First off, just be yourself. Second, don't do it over email. One of the most important things in communication is lost when you do it over the internet (vocal impression, like how you can tell when someone is angry by their voice, or when they're being sarcastic) If you MUST flirt online (i don't recommend it) when you talk to him about random stuff, just make little jokes. Create inside jokes that you both can laugh about. It creates a memory, and it connects it to fun times with you. That's one of the best ways to be remembered and to start a relationship.
Reply:The primary thing to remember is to have fun with it. You could start an e-mail with something like....'hey good looking' for example, or you could include something about your plans for the weekend...such as I can't wait to go to the Bob Seger concert this weekend....not sure what I'll do with the extra ticket, my sister/neice/friend planned to go but had to change her plan and ask what he's got planned. Keep it light. Have fun
Reply:ummmmmm have u ever met the person??? if not then i suggest you stop this immediately how can you trust someone you don't even know how they look. and if you already seen them then, i would recommend you try ending your letters with something like *huggs* and *kisses* something sweet instead of thanks, regards, or sincerely and see how he replies in the next email.
Reply:go for it. be blunt
teeth whitening
How can I flirt ?
If you are talking (email) ask him whats going on for the weekend and if he says hes going out pretend to be shocked that he would go out without you... "You're going there... without me... im hurt..." but with a tone the he KNOWS your joking around - but it may be enough if he likes you to let him know that you can see yourself hanging out with him... If he's not interested then there is no harm done because it was totally jokey... If hes staying in say something like you're going to stay inside all alone what fun is that... maybe he will invite you over - again do it in an over exagerated jokey way. Now if he mentions hanging with a mom or Girlfriend - dont carry out these comments
Reply:i dont do via email
Reply:ask wat he's wearing and where he bought his clothes at
Reply:the best way to start flirting is to be funny...yes, use lots of humor n one point start connecting yourself to him. tell him things like hey be aware, u might get kidnapped very soon by a big fat guy...he will be like huh, what do u mean...then u will say actually this time i told santa that i wanted u as present this christmas.(then start laughing)
do surprise flirting too like tell him, hey remember u owe me $10.when am i getting it back...he will be like huh?? u will say i am just playing with u.
don't be serious...this will rather make u look desperate.
Reply:include emoticon :-* or %26gt;:D%26lt; in your messages if you don't want to go with the kiss right away do the one with the batting eyelashes not sure how to do it. Or if you chat on yahoo messenger change the background theme. with internet you can't be as coy as in real life you have to say hey would you like to go do something sometime. or most of us wouldn't get the point. speaking on behalf of the guys.
Reply:flirting by email involves emailing short, cute responses quickly to his emails and emailing lots of "thinking about you this minute" type messages (ie., how was your lunch?(eom), are you having a good afternoon? (eom), and the quite bold "sweet dreams - hope I'm in them" (eom)). Quick reply let's him know that he is important to you and on your mind often.
Reply:Tell him you're typing naked.
Reply:just tell him this, hey baby, i wants to sucks yous diks off
Reply:it's not the best idea to flirt with smb via email... i have done it...and its really not a very clever thing to do...try sth else
Reply:I f you have seen his picture, just say you have nice eyes smile,love your emails but could we met for coffee if you can
Reply:see if he would like to do something sometime. That might get him up and going
Reply:Go for it, you have nothing to lose and maybe everything to gain. Be clear about your feelings. If he wants to take a new level, he will respond.
Reply:First off, just be yourself. Second, don't do it over email. One of the most important things in communication is lost when you do it over the internet (vocal impression, like how you can tell when someone is angry by their voice, or when they're being sarcastic) If you MUST flirt online (i don't recommend it) when you talk to him about random stuff, just make little jokes. Create inside jokes that you both can laugh about. It creates a memory, and it connects it to fun times with you. That's one of the best ways to be remembered and to start a relationship.
Reply:The primary thing to remember is to have fun with it. You could start an e-mail with something like....'hey good looking' for example, or you could include something about your plans for the weekend...such as I can't wait to go to the Bob Seger concert this weekend....not sure what I'll do with the extra ticket, my sister/neice/friend planned to go but had to change her plan and ask what he's got planned. Keep it light. Have fun
Reply:ummmmmm have u ever met the person??? if not then i suggest you stop this immediately how can you trust someone you don't even know how they look. and if you already seen them then, i would recommend you try ending your letters with something like *huggs* and *kisses* something sweet instead of thanks, regards, or sincerely and see how he replies in the next email.
Reply:go for it. be blunt
teeth whitening
Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
theres this really cute sophmore and his name is matt. (im a freshman) today in math we were flirting way more than usual. he walked behind my seat and i leaned my haed back to him and he put his hands on my shoulders and rubbed and massaged them. then he was like "when am i getting my massage?" and i laughed. then he was like "anna i love you" in a very comfortable way and i was like "i love you too." and he was like "so anna when are we gonna do it?" and i was like "whenever you want" and he was like "right here right now" and i laughed and was like "sure why not lol" . he walked me to class and he was like "u are definitely one of my favorite freshmen" and hes like "pretend like your my gf lol hold my hand" as a joke and i held his hand and it was the best feeling ever...when he was massaging me i felt shivers and tingles WOW...the problem is that he treats EVERY girl like this and i mean EVERY GIRL. he is the biggest flirt i have ever met. but hes really cute and i really like him. help!
Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
You really like him BECAUSE he's a big flirt and BECAUSE he's cute. There's nothing you can do about that.
If what you say is true, every other girl probably feels very similar about him the way you do. I hate to say it, because I know alot of girls that are the exact same way (very flirty with every guy they see and it drives me crazy) but you can't change the way someone is. If he's like that with every girl, chances are he isn't really interested in anything more.
But I could be wrong, so you would have to ask him personally.
Reply:u should ask em if he reallllllllllllllllly llllllllllllooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssss... u and if he did he would only flirt with u
Reply:I think you are doing good. the only problem with a guy like this is that he might bug you if you ended up dating because he's like this to every girl.
One of these days when he says something about liking you (not about sex) just say that you actually really do like him and its not just a joke. I wouldn't even worry about his reaction because odds are he like you too and even if for some odd reason he doesn't (because you sound fun and smarter than most) he's not the kind of guy who's going to worry about it too much.
See what happens...
Reply:OH MY, HE IS SOO GONNA A GREAT GUY FOR YOU. I personally don't know him, but oh well, from what you told me, he is great for you! You didn't say what the question was, but I think you were trying to say, " How am I going to tell him that I really like him without ruining our friendship?" Well, for me, (I've done a lot of match-making for my friends) I say you should say this
You: " I got to tell you something, Matt."
Matt: "What?"
you: " First, Promise me this won't ruin our friendship."
Matt: " it won't" or, " Don't worry, we'll still be friends."
You: *Just confess Don't know how you are going to put it in words, since I'm not you!*
HOPED I HELPED! :)
OH, AND I FORGOT, REMEMBER TO SEE IF HE FLIRTS LIKE THIS TO OTHER GIRLS, IF HE DOES, THAN HE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU. Just be careful and I wish you luck!
Ichigo Lunette
P.S. IF HE GETS AGGRESSIVE, (you know what I mean, like he gets mean to you) THEN YOU'LL KNOW HE IS A PLAYER!
Ichigo Lunette
P.P.S I know you are getting annoyed that i keep on changing my answer, but I read your thing again, and it said that he treats EVERY girl like this, then do not go with him. I'm telling you, I don't want to get you hurt.
Okay, if i edit this again, I am grounded. It's a promise I made to myself because I edit stuff too much!
Reply:He doesn't actually love you.
He even said so. He just wants 2 do it.
I know he flirted with u, but ur in 9th and he knows that
9th girls are easy 2 get. One of my friends went through
this. He knows you really like him and he is
just playing you. I know you want to think he loves you
but.... he actually doesn't.
Reply:So immature. He's not going to treat you as a friend from here and forward after your responce to him asking to "do it" with you. He's just going to look at you as some easy freshman he can get his rocks off with. It may sound harsh but it's true, sooooo many guys are like that in highschool and yes, I can actually talk about it because I'm done and through with highschool... thank goodness!
Reply:Im writing this stuff down.
Hes a HUGE flirt but today we.................?
You really like him BECAUSE he's a big flirt and BECAUSE he's cute. There's nothing you can do about that.
If what you say is true, every other girl probably feels very similar about him the way you do. I hate to say it, because I know alot of girls that are the exact same way (very flirty with every guy they see and it drives me crazy) but you can't change the way someone is. If he's like that with every girl, chances are he isn't really interested in anything more.
But I could be wrong, so you would have to ask him personally.
Reply:u should ask em if he reallllllllllllllllly llllllllllllooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssss... u and if he did he would only flirt with u
Reply:I think you are doing good. the only problem with a guy like this is that he might bug you if you ended up dating because he's like this to every girl.
One of these days when he says something about liking you (not about sex) just say that you actually really do like him and its not just a joke. I wouldn't even worry about his reaction because odds are he like you too and even if for some odd reason he doesn't (because you sound fun and smarter than most) he's not the kind of guy who's going to worry about it too much.
See what happens...
Reply:OH MY, HE IS SOO GONNA A GREAT GUY FOR YOU. I personally don't know him, but oh well, from what you told me, he is great for you! You didn't say what the question was, but I think you were trying to say, " How am I going to tell him that I really like him without ruining our friendship?" Well, for me, (I've done a lot of match-making for my friends) I say you should say this
You: " I got to tell you something, Matt."
Matt: "What?"
you: " First, Promise me this won't ruin our friendship."
Matt: " it won't" or, " Don't worry, we'll still be friends."
You: *Just confess Don't know how you are going to put it in words, since I'm not you!*
HOPED I HELPED! :)
OH, AND I FORGOT, REMEMBER TO SEE IF HE FLIRTS LIKE THIS TO OTHER GIRLS, IF HE DOES, THAN HE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU. Just be careful and I wish you luck!
Ichigo Lunette
P.S. IF HE GETS AGGRESSIVE, (you know what I mean, like he gets mean to you) THEN YOU'LL KNOW HE IS A PLAYER!
Ichigo Lunette
P.P.S I know you are getting annoyed that i keep on changing my answer, but I read your thing again, and it said that he treats EVERY girl like this, then do not go with him. I'm telling you, I don't want to get you hurt.
Okay, if i edit this again, I am grounded. It's a promise I made to myself because I edit stuff too much!
Reply:He doesn't actually love you.
He even said so. He just wants 2 do it.
I know he flirted with u, but ur in 9th and he knows that
9th girls are easy 2 get. One of my friends went through
this. He knows you really like him and he is
just playing you. I know you want to think he loves you
but.... he actually doesn't.
Reply:So immature. He's not going to treat you as a friend from here and forward after your responce to him asking to "do it" with you. He's just going to look at you as some easy freshman he can get his rocks off with. It may sound harsh but it's true, sooooo many guys are like that in highschool and yes, I can actually talk about it because I'm done and through with highschool... thank goodness!
Reply:Im writing this stuff down.
How do I flirt with this guy?
How do i flirt with this guy?? i only see him on sundays and i dont go to school with him. he is in 9th grade and im in 8th. im am pretty pretty sure he likes me. please please please help me. give me all the flirting methods you know!! websites are welcome!! please help!!!
Shadow
How do I flirt with this guy?
Hey its great that you have confidence. Anyway dont start out really fast and just get to know him as a friend. Go be social and communicate with him. As things go further you will know urself if u wanna get in a relationship with him! Take things slow Once you are good friends maybe flirt a bit. C how things go from there.
Reply:Talk to him and get to know him more, if you have phones-- use them!
Reply:just talk
Reply:talk to him ask him out if u like him that much and u know he likes you
Shadow
How do I flirt with this guy?
Hey its great that you have confidence. Anyway dont start out really fast and just get to know him as a friend. Go be social and communicate with him. As things go further you will know urself if u wanna get in a relationship with him! Take things slow Once you are good friends maybe flirt a bit. C how things go from there.
Reply:Talk to him and get to know him more, if you have phones-- use them!
Reply:just talk
Reply:talk to him ask him out if u like him that much and u know he likes you
Im not a flirt. at all.?
well as you may have read, im not a flirt. in fact, i cant remember the last time i did. sure i giggle when a guy says something funny but thats about it.
actually, i think its becuase they dont really approach me in that way. could they find me boring? or do i give off too much of this cute little quiet, nice girl vibe(?)? people tell "oh your so cute" and "your so nice" and "you look so innocent" but on the other hand, when im with my good friends, i get pretty "enthusiastic" as they say and hyper.
is that why guys dont really flirt with me? or is it just me????
:/ i dont know!
Im not a flirt. at all.?
I was just like this in high school, don't worry about it. At least you aren't attracting the wrong type of guy by being a major flirt. Yes this could be a reason why guys don't flirt with you and that is probably because they know that you can tell the difference from thier "game" and them actually having genuine feelings for you. Don't go ruining your advantage by becoming a flirt now! It's best to stay true to how you are and the RIGHT guy will come along.
oh and BTW, just because guys haven't been flirting with you that doesn't mean that there aren't some that like you. It wasn't until I got out of high school that I found out how many guys had crushes on me *LoL*. but it was a good thing I didn't because If I dated any of them then I wouldn't have been available when someone better comes along!! I had NO IDEA that my current bf now had a crush on me in high school. He says he never flirted with me because he didn't want to show me any disrespect by getting at me like he would get at other girls. I'm glad he didnt because I probably wouldn't have fallen in love with him, I and been in the greatest relationship in my life. :)
Reply:I have the same problem. Probably cuz i'm really small for my age and guys just see me like a little girl. Find a guy who's not that good of a flirt either and maybe one that's shy. Then he'll get to know you by talking before you actually start flirting :)
Reply:im not really sure because im exactly like you. but some guys like cute, innocent girls. i dont know why they dont flirt with you. or maybe they see you as a friend or like a sister. guys dont flirt with me because i look really young. just try to be more open around guys and not just around your friends. =)
actually, i think its becuase they dont really approach me in that way. could they find me boring? or do i give off too much of this cute little quiet, nice girl vibe(?)? people tell "oh your so cute" and "your so nice" and "you look so innocent" but on the other hand, when im with my good friends, i get pretty "enthusiastic" as they say and hyper.
is that why guys dont really flirt with me? or is it just me????
:/ i dont know!
Im not a flirt. at all.?
I was just like this in high school, don't worry about it. At least you aren't attracting the wrong type of guy by being a major flirt. Yes this could be a reason why guys don't flirt with you and that is probably because they know that you can tell the difference from thier "game" and them actually having genuine feelings for you. Don't go ruining your advantage by becoming a flirt now! It's best to stay true to how you are and the RIGHT guy will come along.
oh and BTW, just because guys haven't been flirting with you that doesn't mean that there aren't some that like you. It wasn't until I got out of high school that I found out how many guys had crushes on me *LoL*. but it was a good thing I didn't because If I dated any of them then I wouldn't have been available when someone better comes along!! I had NO IDEA that my current bf now had a crush on me in high school. He says he never flirted with me because he didn't want to show me any disrespect by getting at me like he would get at other girls. I'm glad he didnt because I probably wouldn't have fallen in love with him, I and been in the greatest relationship in my life. :)
Reply:I have the same problem. Probably cuz i'm really small for my age and guys just see me like a little girl. Find a guy who's not that good of a flirt either and maybe one that's shy. Then he'll get to know you by talking before you actually start flirting :)
Reply:im not really sure because im exactly like you. but some guys like cute, innocent girls. i dont know why they dont flirt with you. or maybe they see you as a friend or like a sister. guys dont flirt with me because i look really young. just try to be more open around guys and not just around your friends. =)
How do men flirt?
I know how women flirt, but how do men flirt?
How do men flirt?
by telling jockes and making wwomen laugh, 2 smile while looking in2 her eyes
teeth
How do men flirt?
by telling jockes and making wwomen laugh, 2 smile while looking in2 her eyes
teeth
Can u just flirt with everyone or does it have just one person?
So basically what I'm tryin to ask is can you flirt with like 10 people or just with the guy u like? And um everyone thinks I go out with this guy but all I did was put my hand around his shoulder is that a sign of being together? I'm just a really big flirt!
Can u just flirt with everyone or does it have just one person?
I hate when girls flirt with all these guys and then if he pays attention to her or wants more they call him JERK!!! How Stupid..Right???? I say flirt only if you can Handle IT....
Reply:if you flirt with everyone, then guys will eventually stay away from you because they don't trust you. so stay true to the guy you like.
Reply:flrits are the best, stay flirty
Can u just flirt with everyone or does it have just one person?
I hate when girls flirt with all these guys and then if he pays attention to her or wants more they call him JERK!!! How Stupid..Right???? I say flirt only if you can Handle IT....
Reply:if you flirt with everyone, then guys will eventually stay away from you because they don't trust you. so stay true to the guy you like.
Reply:flrits are the best, stay flirty
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